Silver threads by Alexander Danilin. Listen to the audiobook "Silver Threads"

A person’s reluctance to strive is the main diagnosis of our time. Ivan Goncharov described Oblomov’s “sofa snobbery”...
Apathy is emptiness after trauma. But where does the emptiness of young people come from? Indifference and calm are in fashion now...
Science and religions agree that the world was created complete, initially containing everything that exists.
Blaise Pascal and Martin Heidegger about the huge empty space where a person is “abandoned” - apathy appears there.
Jean Paul Sartre about a filled world where “I” is not needed - laziness appears there.
Boredom can be based on both emptiness and satiety...
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music:
00:04: Timur Shaov - About the benefits and harms of snobbery;
00:19: Jeanne Lee and Ran Blake - Laura;
00:32: Jeanne Lee and Ran Blake - Straight Ahead;
00:39: Jeanne Lee and Ran Blake - Left Alone.

3596 Pill for laziness 02 Why do we need anxiety

Boredom requires entertainment and entertainment. We exclude an independent way out of boredom - and here it is, depression.
00:09: Pierre Teilhard de Chardin in his book “The Phenomenon of Man” calls the difference between humans and animals - self-awareness. It implies independence.
But the danger of independence entails... anxiety that “I will not succeed.” We find salvation from laziness and apathy.
That's why the only way overcome boredom - allow yourself to worry.
Man is created as an unfilled “hole” so that the world is not final.
00:32: Exercise: My planet.
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music:
00:01: Gennady Gladkov, Elmira Zherzdeva - Duet of a stupid king and a beautiful princess (“Your state is hysterical...”; from the film “In the footsteps of the Bremen Town Musicians”);
00:07: Timur Shaov - Shao-de-dzin (Summer reflections on the culture of laziness);
00:18: "Zap Mama" - Call Waiting;
00:28: "Zap Mama" - My Own Zero;
00:35: Carmen McRae - These Foolish Things Remind Me of You.

3622 Tablet for laziness 03 Stolz and Oblomov

Without the desire to be ourselves, anxiety arises, from which we escape through apathy and laziness. We are looking for theories that explain us, but a technical explanation is just as boring...
Being yourself takes courage. But there is a softer remedy - self-discipline, which we will do.
00:21: Discussion between Oblomov and Stolz (excerpt from the documentary “A few days in the life of I.I. Oblomov”).
These characters are parts of our soul; without each other they do not give satisfaction in life...
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Spanish music Otis Rush (USA):
00:08: You're Gonna Need Me;
00:36: A Beautiful Memory.

3627 Pill for laziness 04 Take on your laziness

00:02: Exercise: Be lazy all day.

Activity and Staticity cannot exist without each other. How to explain relaxation to children?

00:20: Exercise: Writing down thoughts and achievements.

Other tips and principles: don’t sit still, define tasks, communicate with people we envy, plan for tomorrow, call “I can’t” “I don’t want.”

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music:

00:06: Jeanne Lee and Ran Blake - Blue Monk;

00:23: Jeanne Lee and Ran Blake - When Sunny Gets Blue;

00:34: Jeanne Lee and Ran Blake - Lover Man;

00:40: Bohren, "Der Club Of Gore" - Darkstalker.

3632 Tablet for laziness 05 Who strives and Who is lazy

What wants something?

00:02: Stolz from Oblomov.

Our own "Oblomov".

Inner critic - finds fault in everything.

00:30: Penkin’s conversation with Oblomov the skeptic.

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music:

00:41: Zoot Sims - Trav"lin" Light.

3633 Tablet for laziness 06 Who is lazy -2

The “Oblomovsky” critic is sure that doing is not about him. How then does our inner “Stolz” work?

00:09: Meeting between Oblomov and Sudbinsky.

There will be a reason for failure and passivity. Why does something that signifies our action have no relation to us? It still won't work?

Inner Defeatist and Dodger.

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music:

00:26: "Chizh & Co" - Born to run;

00:40: "Chizh & Co" - Not for me.

3636 Tablet for laziness 07 Our children

Internal procrastinator (put off for later).

How many hours are there in a day?

What are the benefits of postponing?

00:16: We write in a notepad the results of postponing and the results of doing.

How not to fight with yourself.

00:27: We play up our characters, Oblomov’s children.

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music:

00:08: Zap Mama - Poetry Man;

00:21: Zap Mama - Telephone;

00:35: Zap Mama - Warmth;

00:40: Gary Burton Quintet - Intermission Music.

3641 Tablet for laziness 08 Why doing is not our thing

00:00: Oblomov and Stolz about the reluctance to be able to do anything.

An unaccountable reason for postponing that we forgot about...

Why do we engage in inaction instead of action?

Our internal dialogue, and who participates in it.

00:30: Replace “I can’t” with “I don’t want.”

00:31: Turn the knob of your radio...

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music:

00:07: Leon Redbone - Gotta Shake That Thing;

00:12: Annie Ross - I Didn't Know About You;

00:21: Annie Ross - Lucky Day;

00:26: Leon Redbone - Another Story, Another Time, Another Place;

00:32: Annie Ross - I"m Just a Lucky so and So;

00:37: Zoot Sims - Brushes.

3647 Tablet for laziness 09 Lessons and Assessments

00:00: Oblomov and Olga Sergeevna about the lack of a goal.

Without aspiration there is no self-organization. The question “why live” does not at all mean readiness for a goal.

Self-discipline has muscles.

We are hampered by petty fears of failure. For Oblomov, failures are an assessment of the entire personality, for Stolz they are only lessons.

00:35: We reconstruct on paper three cases of unfortunate failures.

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music:

00:07: Jeri Southern and Johnny Smith - Without A Word Of Warning;

00:20: Jeri Southern and Johnny Smith - Until The Real Thing Comes Along;

00:31: Jeri Southern and Johnny Smith - Where Or When;

00:37: Jeri Southern and Johnny Smith - The Things I Love;

00:41: "Chick Corea", Gary Burton - Love Castle.

3651 Tablet for laziness 10 Obstacles to success

Fear of success.

00:02: Oblomov about the boringness of hobbies successful people as if about their whole life.

Why achieve something if you already have pleasure?

Is success necessary that harms someone or something?

00:19: Let's write down three of our successes that had unpleasant consequences.

Low self-esteem does not allow you to be successful.

00:26: What does Samuel Marshak’s poem “The Miller, the Boy and the Donkey” and its source, an ancient Arabic joke, have to do with our lives?

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music:

00:09: Sue Raney - Who's Afraid;

00:32: Chick Corea - La Fiesta.

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“Pill for laziness 01 Dismantling passivity”

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Psychological pills.
A pill for laziness.

A.D.: Culturologists, psychologists, psychotherapists more and more agree that laziness, boredom, apathy, in general, a person’s reluctance to strive for something, do something, achieve something, create something - the main diagnosis of our time, the main diagnosis or the main verdict of our time. Many attribute this to the unattainability of what this time considers the standard of success. As psychologist Alexander Sosland wrote, I quote: "Cultural diversity has been reduced to proportions of 90x60x90 and eternal youth until 60 for women, and the cult of male success - a slim body, a long phallus that stands 24 hours a day, every day new woman, a car like a Porsche or Bentley." end of quote.
Maybe this really is one of the most important factors.
For me, the host of the “Fantasy” radio theater and the “Silver Threads” program, Dr. Alexander Danilin, it is first important to understand why we use so many words when describing this condition...
We call the state in which one is great amount today (young people, middle-aged people, and old people too) are either apathy, boredom, laziness, sometimes even depression, which seems to have nothing to do with these three concepts. Or maybe all those who write about it. that boredom and laziness are the verdict of our time, they are wrong. The same Alexander Sosland writes that “the elders, not finding in the younger ones signs of the great desires that they had, say with disappointment and irritation “they don’t want anything,” meaning that very same lack of aspirations. Maybe this is just us, the elders are imagining it? Maybe they want it, but they just want something completely different? Sometimes, when I get completely confused, I become dependent on Dr. Shaov. No, really, I need to be treated by someone. So I’m being treated , thinking about his songs helps me. Probably worth including in the Tablet...

Timur Shaov's song "On the benefits and harms of snobbery" is playing.

“Since August 15, 2016, our radio program has been off the air. Last broadcast was on the 11th.
Radio Russia has closed all programs that operate under the contract.
I don't know the reasons. It seems to me that other sites have been writing about the reasons for several years in a row. The radio program "Silver Threads" is closed.
We recorded 30 training cycles, conducted a huge number of live broadcasts in one way or another related to the secrets of our desires, actions, and meanings of objects contemporary art.
We talked about films, music, addiction, fantasy, talent, love, games, holidays and the pain of loss loved one...... "Alexander Danilin. (Read the full text in the tab FROM THE HOST.)From the presenter:

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“Since August 15, 2016, our radio program has been off the air. The last broadcast was on the 11th. Radio Russia has closed all programs that operate under the contract. I don’t know the reasons. It seems to me that other sites have been writing about the reasons for what year contract.
The radio program “Silver Threads” is closed. We recorded 30 training cycles and conducted a huge number of live broadcasts in one way or another related to the secrets of our desires, actions, and meanings of contemporary art objects. We talked about movies, music, addiction, fantasy, talent, love, games, holidays and the pain of losing a loved one. Now it’s time for our pain of parting with the radio program. This is the final theme of our project, which began back in 2003, when I, being almost a student, complained, they say, where did they put a program with music and put on some guy talking about I don’t understand what. After a couple of years, I began to understand a completely new language for me. Looks like Russian, but something else. And then I began to notice how easily he explains so many things in people’s behavior... in his own behavior. I began to feel that this very ego is not me. Then I began to feel the value of these programs, and began to make recordings from the radio. Things were just beginning with the Internet back then, and we lived online on the mznov.ru forum. Then the forum burned down and we were all lost. I traded a doctor's book for help in setting up a forum for a colleague at work. Then, having barely got it working on his own, he broke it a couple of times, which caused dissatisfaction among the forum members, and one of them with such a large long gray beard from the city of Kotlas actively leaked the entire forum with the “teleport” program to his computer. I was surprised: “not such a big forum, but as much as 400 megabytes!” It took him a long time to pull out the archive of the old forum from the search engine cache. And once I went for a bike ride and didn’t record one of the theater’s radio programs, I still remember in 2006. And the ride sucked, and the company was not mine, and I missed the program, and in general, now what to do... Then I found a guy in the city, he was going to the army and gave me all the archives that he wrote on his own on his little Ritmix. He and I chatted all evening the day before he tried on kirzachs and foot wraps. This is how the first complete distributions of trainings on the root tracker appeared. And then my thoughts, which are truly mine. And then the questions. Meet the doctor. Having received recordings from the radio of excellent stereo quality, I was very happy. Lars, the doctor’s dog, was just as happy to scratch my stomach in his arms. Then, as happens, I became a less active listener, because everyone dreams of the doc too often after so many years of listening and it was necessary to somehow escape). As a result, I never cease to see the social importance of the mission that began in 2003 by Dr. changed me. For me, the doctor had a huge influence on my upbringing. I hit him in adolescence just one of his friends. I look at my past self with such shame that I avoid all memories of it. I thank everyone who made this program for us. I don’t think that the loss of Radio will somehow affect the work of our site. The importance of our project remains very great for me and I spend quite a lot of my time on it and do not consider it useless. When you read reviews somewhere on YouTube that the world has gone crazy and our project is just an island of air that changes people and gives them hope, it really helps to understand the importance of the project. I'll need to go see the doctor. We haven’t met him for a long time. Thanks to everyone who has been with us for more than 10 years.” Alexander Danilin