How to express condolences about a death in your own words: examples. Why was fate cruel? And we remember your souls and hearts alive

Epitaph - literally "inscription on the grave", from the Greek "epi" - "above", and "taphos" - grave. At first this was the name of the funeral speech, and then the inscription on the gravestone. The word came from Ancient Greece, but inscriptions were left on graves in all countries.

First Granite Corporation LLC offers a variety of tombstones made of granite (natural granite), made by high-class craftsmen. In addition to the standard engravings of the portrait of the deceased, we propose placing epitaphs on monuments in verse.

The epitaph itself for a son or husband has been a tombstone inscription since the days of Ancient Greece. A succinct quatrain or several lines of prose reflect the main character traits of a living person and what he achieved during his life. This is a kind of summation of life. An example of such an epitaph is the phrase: “Your rapid takeoff is over in an instant. All that was left was a scream in my heart.” At the same time, these inscriptions are able to cheer up loved ones, capturing light sadness for a deceased father or mother.

The first author's epitaphs began to appear in the 16th century, and the art of epitaphs in Russia reached its true flowering already in the 18th century, and this, of course, concerned mainly the graves of the aristocracy. There was great literature in Russia, in the 18th and 19th centuries many wrote, and many did it very well, and, of course, this left its mark on everything, including on gravestones. Until now, people go to ancient cemeteries, admire the skillful monuments, elegant engravings, read the inscriptions on the grave in verse - this is a kind of book of memory of long-gone lives...

When ordering a memorial, not only dates of life and farewell words are engraved on the stone, but also portraits of the deceased, often very artistic, using both mechanical and laser engraving. Such portraits can themselves be called objects of art.

Before ordering a monument, you can familiarize yourself with the models of monuments we produce on our website. And in the “Ritual Pictures” section, get acquainted with the options for images and epitaphs themselves, which can be applied to the selected monument.

Our specialists are ready to undertake not only the production and design of the monument, but also its delivery to any region of the Russian Federation. The low cost of the monument is due to the fact that the company itself is engaged in the extraction of granite, its processing and further use as a material for the manufacture of the monument, which significantly reduces the total cost of the products we offer.

As well as texts that our master can engrave on the monument:

1) We remember, we love, we mourn.

2) You died too early
Words cannot express our pain.
Sleep, dear, you are our pain and wound,
The memory of you is always alive.

3) Do not express grief, do not cry tears.

You took joy away from home forever.

4) You left life instantly,

But the pain remained forever.

5) We come here

To put flowers,

It’s very difficult, dear,

We can live without you.

6) Grief and sadness of your loss

They will be with us forever.

What could be worse and worse

Losing a husband and father.

7) You are always in our hearts.

8) What a pity that your life was so short,

But your memory will be eternal.

9) You left life, but not your heart.

10) Your bright, pure image is with us forever.

11) To your untimely grave

Our path will not be overgrown.

Your dear image, dear image,

It will always lead us here.

12) To the one who was dear during life,

From those who love and mourn.

13) There is no greater grief than the bitterness of loss.

14) How difficult it is to find words,

To measure our pain with them.

You will be with us forever.

15) It’s so easy to imagine you alive,

That it is impossible to believe in your death.

16) You left us, dear.

The mournful hour of separation has come.

But still alive

You are in our heart among us.

17) Having passed away, you are still living

In our thoughts, dreams.

You cannot survive what fate has given you.

We remember you in joy and pain.

18) Love for you, dear son,

will die only with us.

And our pain and our sorrow,

cannot be expressed in words.

19) Words cannot express all the grief and sadness.

You are always with us in our hearts and memories.

20) No one could save you,

He passed away very early,

But the bright image is your dear

We will always remember.

21) Happy memory of you

will forever remain in our hearts.

22) You are no longer here, but we don’t believe you,

You are in our hearts forever.

And my pain from that loss

We have no time to heal.

23) You loved life,

And I wanted to do a lot,

but the thread broke too early,

Without letting you achieve your dreams.

24) Unexpected grief, unmeasured grief,

The most precious thing in life is lost.

It's a pity that life cannot be repeated,

To give it to you.

25) Our pain cannot be measured

And you can’t shed it in tears.

We take you as if we were alive

We will love forever.

26) The warmth of your soul

stayed with us.

27) Your bright image is in our memory.

28) How much of ours went with you,

How much of yours remains with us.

29) Your memory will forever remain in our hearts.

30) The Great Tribulation cannot be measured,

Tears won't help my grief.

You are not with us, but forever

You will not die in our hearts.

31) Eternal memory of you in the hearts of your loved ones.

32) We love you, we are proud of you,

And in our memory you are always alive.

ZZ) The warmth of your soul

stayed with us.

34.Sleep well, dear son,

We all love you,

We remember and mourn.

35.Sleep in peace and

Pray to God for us.

36. You are like your own heart;

It cannot be forgotten and replaced.

Those who love you...

37. They don’t part with their loved ones,

Only nearby life ceases.

38.You sleep, and we live,

You wait and we will come

39.You left us early, our beloved.

He took away our happiness and joy.

40. The Great Tribulation cannot be measured,

Tears won't help my grief.

You are not with us, but forever

You will not die in our hearts.

41.Can't be returned

It is impossible to forget.

42.You died too early,

Words cannot express our pain.

Sleep, dear, you are our pain and wound..

The memory of you is always alive.

43. Do not express grief,

Don't cry any tears

You took joy away from home forever.

44.How early you left; native,

Leaving us with sadness and pain.

45. They don’t part with their loved ones,

They just stop being around.

46.You gave us life in this world.

In another you have found peace.

Gone, leaving a trace of sadness,

gusts of grief and melancholy.

47. Remember me, Lord,

Visit me with your salvation.

Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

Remember me, God

48. And do not forsake those who love you.

49.0tche, into your hands

I convey my spirit.

50. How difficult it is to find words,

To measure our pain with them.

We cannot believe in your death,

You will be with us forever.

51. The earthly path is short,

The memory is eternal.

52. The warmth of your soul remains with us.

53. Eternal memory of you in the hearts of your loved ones.

54. And my heart hurts, and my grief has no end.

55. Eternal memory.

56. Great sorrow cannot be measured, grief cannot be filled with tears.
You are not with us, but forever, in our hearts you will live.

57. We would all give a piece of our hearts,
Only yours would begin to beat again.

58. The earth is empty without you.

59. Leaving a mark in the hearts of people with your good deeds,
We don’t say the word “no”, we say: “You are always with us.”

60. You are gone from life, but not from your heart.

61. With one flower the earth became poorer,
The heavens have become richer with one star.

62. The heart still does not believe in bitter loss,
It’s as if you didn’t die, but went somewhere.

63. Unexpected grief, immeasurable grief,
The most important thing in life is lost.
It's a pity that life cannot be repeated,
To give it to you again.

65. Love for you, our dear, will die only with us,
Both our pain and our sorrow cannot be expressed in words.

66. You left us, dear,
The mournful hour of separation has come,
But everything is still alive
You are in our heart among us.

67. Let the fire not go out until the end, and let the memory of the one remain
What awakened hearts for life, and now has found eternal peace.

68. How could we have thought that on this day,
You will step from childhood into eternity...

69. You were like an angel soaring into the sky, how little time you spent with us.

70. No, I won’t resign myself until I die,
With the terrible burden of existence, -
That children die before adults,
Even though you are gone, I am left...

71. Words cannot express all the grief and sadness,
You are always with us in our hearts and memories.

72. No... - They didn’t go away, but they repeated themselves in the children.

73. Rest in the kingdom of heaven.

74. It is not in our power to bring you back, and our sorrow has no end.
Insane is the pain that tears orphaned hearts apart.

75. Grief for you and the bitterness of loss,
Will be forever in our hearts.

76. The bright memory of you will forever remain in our hearts.

77. Sleep well, dear,
We remember you, love you and mourn you.

When difficult news of loss comes to a family or circle of loved ones, relatives, friends, colleagues, one should remember the need for support and delicacy. It is very bitter to lose your loved ones, but it is necessary to find the strength within yourself to find the words to express your sympathy and condolences in connection with the death of a loved one.

How to properly offer condolences, talk about how the deceased was loved, what human qualities were especially valued and respected for?

Funeral speech

Farewell words at a funeral should be concise and logically structured. No matter how difficult they are to pronounce, they should not be unprepared, slurred, or excessively confusing. This may be perceived as disrespect for the deceased. That's why It’s worth thinking about the words that will be heard during funerals and farewells in advance., highlight the main points in it, draw up a diagram of the funeral speech. Its main parts and examples are given below:

Main parts of a funeral speech

Address to the guests gathered at the funeral
“Dear family and friends of (name of the deceased)…”, “Dear guests!”, “Loved ones and relatives...”.
Introducing yourself, indicating the degree of relationship with the deceased.
“My name is (proper name), (name of the deceased) and I were colleagues (friends, etc.) for ... years”, “We were neighbors with ...”, “Dad was ...”.
A memory of a tragic event and a short story about one’s own experiences, one’s pain.
“We met him just yesterday...”, “40 days have already passed since...”, “He has not been with us for a year...”.
Characteristics of the deceased.
“He always smiled...”, “He fought for life until the end...”, “He taught me...”.
Condolences or customary funeral words.
“My sincere condolences...”, “May the earth rest in peace,” “Eternal memory,” “Rest in peace.”

When remembering a deceased person, you should not retell his biography at the funeral. You can say a few words about any significant episode of life, an interesting fact that reflects the dignity of the deceased. It is worth focusing the attention of people gathered at the funeral on the quality that is highly valued. It is better to remain silent about negative traits, sins, weaknesses, and ambiguous attitudes towards the deceased, following the Russian proverb “It’s either good or nothing about the deceased.”

Words of grief must come from the heart. Here is an example of a funeral speech delivered by Alexander Abdulov’s adopted daughter Ksenia Alferova:

“How grateful I am to God and fate that you were in my life. You are not my real dad - I, however, have never felt this. When I found out about this, I was terribly upset. I thought that this was some kind of injustice - he should have had a child of his own and by the end of his life he, or rather, she appeared! At first I was happy, and then I was afraid that you would no longer need me. I now realized that this was stupid, I realized that you needed me no less than I needed you... It’s a pity that you understand such things too late.”

Examples of short verbal condolences

When choosing words of grief intended for well-known relatives of the deceased, it is worth thinking over a deeply personal, sympathetic phrase. Words must be sincere and delicate. In moments of bitter loss, at a funeral, the feeling of falsehood turns out to be heightened.

The choice of words and format of verbal condolences depends on the circumstances. If a narrow circle of relatives and friends of the deceased gathers, the speech can be especially heartfelt and personal.

If a large number of people gather to see off a person on his last journey, then brief expressions of condolences are more appropriate, because words of sympathy and grief should be uttered by all those gathered.

Here are examples of such words:

We all hurt, but it’s worse for you than anyone. If I can help you, please contact me right away.
Be strong. We mourn with you.
I sincerely sympathize with your loss.
Our family feels very sorry for you. With the passing of (name of the deceased), we lost a piece of ourselves.
(Name of the deceased) was such a wonderful person, we always followed his example. He will forever remain in our hearts.
What a loss! I pray for (name of deceased).
(Name of the deceased) did so much for me, I will never forget him. I sincerely sympathize with you.

Funeral speech

To commemorate the deceased, it is customary to gather a circle of relatives and people close to him on and through. The words spoken at a wake are traditionally imbued with warmth and light sadness. At the wake they talk about the deceased person, remember various stories and incidents from life.

Funeral speeches, like mourning speeches at funerals, are drawn up according to the classical plan. At the same time, we must not forget about the need to declare a minute of silence in memory of the deceased. The role of the manager, who announces it and also gives the floor to those gathered in turn, is usually taken on by a person close to the family of the deceased.
According to tradition, the words of the funeral speech are first spoken by the people closest to the deceased person - parents, spouses, children, brothers and sisters, and then friends and colleagues. The host should always have a few appropriate phrases prepared in case the performance of one of the guests is interrupted by crying.
Funeral words are always pronounced standing. Their main task is to revive bright memories of the deceased in the memory of those gathered.

Here is an example of the words of a memorial speech on behalf of children remembering their father:

“Father has always been a wonderful example not only for all of us, but also for many people around him. From him we learned to see and distinguish true life values, to give kindness to others. Many people who knew him admired his bright soul. We believe that our father left us too early. Eternal memory to him!”

Poems and toasts

At a funeral, poetry is categorically inappropriate, while at a wake - on the 9th or 40th day, a year after death, poetry can sound more sincere and heartfelt than ever. Poems in these cases are acceptable, but carefully and in moderation, and it is better if they are of your own composition.

Mourning is said at the table. They should not relate exclusively to the personality of the deceased. Guests making toasts can express words of sympathy and grief for all the dead.

Here are examples of poems and toasts:

You died too early

Words cannot express our pain.

Sleep, dear, you are our pain and wound,

The memory of you is always alive.

My soul is worried without you,

You don't need girlfriends or friends.

Why is it possible without millions?

Why is it impossible without one?

“Friends, today is a day of sorrow. There was a time when we had fun and rejoiced with someone who left us. But today you and I drink this cup of sorrow, seeing off a person close to us on his last journey. But we will keep in our hearts the good memory of our friend, having hope of meeting again in a new place. Let's drink to the dregs for this!

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21. There are no words to express all the pain and sorrow of our soul.

22. Eternal memory of you.

23. You are always in our memory.

24. I miss you so much for complete human happiness.

25. I feel empty on earth without you. 26. Thank you for living (living).

27. Great sorrow cannot be measured, tears of grief cannot be filled with tears. You are not with us, but you will live forever in our hearts.

28. We would give everything, a piece of our heart, If only yours would beat again.

29. The heart went out like lightning, the pain will not be extinguished by the year, Your image will forever be kept in our memory forever.

30. Everything was in him (her) - soul, talent and beauty, everything sparkled for us like a bright dream.

31. How much of ours went with you, how much of yours remains with us.

32. You left (left) life incomprehensibly early, Parents are oppressed by sadness and a wound is bleeding in their hearts, Your little son is growing up without knowing the word “mom” (“dad”).

33. You left (left) so early, without saying goodbye and without saying a word to us, How should we continue to live, making sure that you will never return to us.

34. Your mother’s tears, your father’s sadness, your brother’s loneliness, your grandparents’ grief will be eternal for you.

35. Like drops of dew on roses, there are tears on our cheeks, sleep peacefully, Darling, we all remember, love and mourn you. 36. The earth is empty without you.

37. Forgive us for bringing flowers to your stove under the starry sky. I'm sorry that we were left with air that you didn't breathe.

38. They don’t part with their loved ones, they just stop being close to them.

39. We cannot find words to describe our grief, We cannot find strength in the world to lift you up, Our words cannot even be contained in the sea, How cruel is the fate that took you away.

40. Unable to overcome grief, bear the pain of loss, No one could help you, forgive us (name), forgive us.

41. Having left a mark in the hearts of people with our good deeds, We do not say the word “no”, we say: “You are forever with us.”

42. Time stopped running and pain squeezed my whole soul, A man, of whom there are few in the world, passed away.

43. You left life, but not your heart.

44. How I want to scream in pain that you are no longer in the world!

45. I will never meet you, and I know it will always be like this.

46. The earth became poorer with one flower, the heavens became richer with one star.

47. Angel, dear, forgive me, it’s my fault that I wasn’t with you at the hour of death

48. The heart still doesn’t believe in the bitter loss, As if you didn’t die, but went somewhere.

49. When people forget you, all your friends forget, only your heart will remember you, and that heart will be me.

50. Unexpected grief, immense grief, the most important thing in life is Lost, it’s a pity that life cannot be repeated, To give it to you again.

52. We come here to lay flowers. It’s very difficult, dear, for us to live without you.

53. We wish you good luck in that unknown and new world, so that you don’t feel lonely, so that the angels don’t leave.

54. Bending over, we stand over your grave, watering the flowers with hot tears, I don’t want to believe, our beloved son (father), that you are in this grave.

55. Sleep well, our dear son (father)

56. You passed away too early, words cannot express our pain. Sleep, dear, you are our pain and wound, but the memory of you is always alive.

57. Love for you, dear son, will die only with us, And our pain and our sorrow cannot be expressed in words.

58. To you, the one and only, we bow our heads.

59. And earthly life ended, all your strength faded away, Farewell, our dear beloved, eternal memory to you.

60. Forgive us that we did not dare to give our love to you during our lifetime. You forgave us, left us, we remained eternal debtors.

61. You lived your life with dignity, leaving us with a memory forever. In a silent world, sleep peacefully, the person we love.

62. A serious illness broke you, you passed away without living, Dear, our beloved son, how difficult it is for us to live without you.

63. We are with you forever, son, God, calm his soul

64. I loved you very much, I always lived by you. Forgive me, my dear son, that I did not save you.

65. You were an example to follow for us. We still live by looking up to you. We come to you, father, on a date, to consult in happiness and misfortune.

66. Your whole life is over with you, you have no life, and we don’t. The dearest, beloved son, beloved child has passed away.

67. You are in us, dear, like our blood, And death has no power over you as long as there is love in the world!

68. Thank you, my clear one, for being in the world!

69. You left us, dear, the mournful hour of separation has come. But everything is still alive, you are in our heart among us.

70. Don’t make noise with the leaves, don’t wake up our mother.

71. You left life instantly, the pain remains with us forever, But we will never forget your beloved tender image.

72. We love you and you are always alive in our memory.

73. Don’t find out where I turned my path, to what limit in life I moved, oh, friend, I did everything on earth, I loved and lived on earth.

74. You, mother, gave us your warmth. We believe that your soul is calm and bright.

75. Let the fire not go out until the end and the memory of her remain, Who awakened hearts for life, and now has found eternal peace.

76. I loved you, I won’t forget you, I will love you forever

77. Quiet, trees, don’t make noise with the leaves, mommy is sleeping, don’t wake her.

78. Sometimes angels descend from heaven, To warm you with their warmth and love, You, our beloved girl, were such an angel.

79. Sleep peacefully, my beloved daughter, You have walked your short journey honestly and joyfully.

80. We love you very much, our daughter. Why did the night hide you so early?

81. You were a clear star, how dim the world became, When the star went out.

82. What words can I find so that you can hear the confession of my soul? And what string to play on, So that you can run, as before, on a date?

83. A rose fell, broken by the wind...

84. Lord, we give you our littlest angel.

85. How could we have thought that on this day you would step from childhood into eternity...

86. You passed away too early, words cannot express our pain. Sleep, dear, you are our pain and wound, but the memory of you is always alive.

87. To our little angel who has returned to heaven

88. You were like an angel soaring into the sky, how little time you spent with us..

89. Calm down, mom and dad! Gentle angels guard my sleep.

90. No, I will not come to terms with the terrible burden of existence until my death. That children die before adults, that you died, I remain.

91. You, baby, were cherished, raised, carried in their arms, taken to kindergarten. They sing to you now, bending over, and eating Farewell at the eternal cradle.

92. Wonderful child, unfair fate did not give you to me, but only showed you and immediately took you away.

93. Words cannot express all the grief and sadness, In our hearts and memories you (you) are with us

94. We are endlessly grateful to you, we do not forget about you, and we remember your souls and hearts alive.

95. No... They didn’t go away, but they repeated themselves in the children.

96. What a pity that we realized late how much we miss you

97. Life separated them, but death united them. Two pure souls are now in one grave.

98. Sleep well, my dear ones, I (we) will dedicate my life (we will) to your memory.

99. You will never be on earth again, But you gave us life, raised us, and left us here as your continuation.

100. Lord, thy will be done!

101. Rest in the Kingdom of Heaven.

102. Sleep in peace and pray to God for us

103. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.

104. Lord, with the saints rest the soul of your servant(s) (Name)

105. Give us strength to understand the Divine covenant - With God everyone is alive, but there are no dead.

106. How we (I) miss you, our (my) dear... And only prayer helps us (me) in sorrow.

107. Here rests in peace (Name), so that one day he will be resurrected in Christ

108. The Lord himself sent you to earth. He was your Shepherd and now He has called...

109. You have lived your life in merging with God - Now your path to Him is easy.

110. Don’t pass by, passer-by, stop, bow to my damp grave, pray for me, a sinner.

111. Life on earth is fleeting, but ahead is a heavenly paradise. We will remember you forever, so rise quickly

112. Help and save, protect and cover, Cover me with soft snow, look at me, Here I am all (all) before you, O Lord, give me peace.

113. Nature is wise and the eye of the Almighty sees our every step on the thorny road. There comes a moment when each of us, at the last line, remembers God.

114. The dust will return to the earth, which it was, and the spirit will return to God, who gave it.

115. God created the stars, the blue distance, but surpassed himself by creating sadness for loved ones.

116. Passer-by, pray over this grave, He found refuge in it from all earthly anxieties, Here he left everything that was sinful in him, With the hope that his Savior - God - lives.

117. Lord, he had sorrows and sorrows on earth, Give him joy in heaven.

118. Grant him, O God, remission of sins, Grant him eternal peace.

119. The kingdom of heaven and eternal peace to you.

120. God, forgive his (her) sinful soul and accept him as he (s) was

121. There is no need to cry for me, the soul is subject only to God. She set off on a journey through an unknown country. There is a kingdom of light, a kingdom of stars, There is a kingdom of world harmonies, so take your palms away from your eyes and smile, no tears needed.

122. How the heart cries, the pain cannot be conveyed. We mourn and remember every minute. Time cannot take away this pain. Oh God, help us get through the separation.

123. When the escape of life is torn out without pity, When the body turns to dust forever. Let them make a jug from this dust and fill it with wine: the man will come to life.

124. Life without You is empty. Where the dream lived, flowers die in tears. It's bitter to live without You. Not believing that You will never return to us.

125. Don’t part with your loved ones. Grow into them with all your heart. And every time you say goodbye forever when you leave for a moment.

126. And let the evening light candles for me. And your image is enveloped in smoke. But I don’t want to know that time heals. That everything goes with him.

127. Why and who needs it. Who sent you death with an unshaking hand. Only so mercilessly, so evil and unnecessary. Who let you into Eternal Peace.

128. Don't cry for me when I'm gone. After all, you will find a star in the sky. And my sorrow will leave you. After all, my star is so far away.

129. The pain of separation is incurable. The separation that is forever.

130. Eternal sleep for you, and eternal melancholy for us.

131. The farewell candle will burn out. And your eyes will fill with tears. It's hard to live in the world without you. And believe that you are not with us.

132. To those who are dear in life. Like those who remember and manage.

133. The heart is squeezing, the soul is crying bitterly, There is no important grief, no waste of your life.

134. Your dream will no longer pass, and your month will no longer meet, For the Lord will be your eternal light.

135. Without you, the earth is empty for us. How cruel fate is that it took you away.

136. How much of ours went with you. How much of yours remains with us.

137. We can’t bring you back with tears. Sadness cannot be measured by sadness.

138. It’s so easy to imagine you alive. That it is impossible to believe in your death.

139. Our last debt, a sorrowful stone, The cup of sorrow is full. There is no more joy in the world, Only pain and sorrow remain.

140. That day when your gaze went out and your heart stopped beating, For us it was the most terrible day, And we will not be able to come to terms with it.

141. There are no words in the world to describe our grief. There is no strength in the world to lift you up. Even the sea cannot contain our tears. How cruel fate is that it took you away.

142. You left kindness and love alive, No matter how many years have passed: We love, we remember, we mourn...

143. And he stands before my eyes. Alive, with a smile on his lips. No! No! He is always with us and will live in our hearts.

144. A person leaves the world. Like a guest from a friend's feast. He was tired of the chaos. I finished my glass and finished dinner. Tired. Enough. Rest is needed. It's time to go home.

145. You left life instantly, but the pain remained forever.

146. For the rest of our lives, we will have enough grief and sadness, About the one we loved and so suddenly lost.

147. We could not lose more, our grief has no boundaries. Grief cannot be expressed, cannot be described, there is very little granite page.

148. You believed your friends. I was deceived by love. But there is God above us. Punishment is coming. God's punishment is not a myth. What has passed will return. Those who took you away will be punished.

149. Grief, suffering, despair, the stormy waves of the sea of life are full. Their splashes are tears and blood. But to a man in the vale of languor, wonderful sisters are given as consolation. Faith Hope Love. And encouraging the weary in soul, Faith brings us firmness with it. She casts doubts. We look forward with bolder hope. The dark distance is both clearer and lighter. Full of wondrous joy. The third sister is God's breath, with her no suffering is scary. Her temple is our hearts. It contains compassion, pity, participation. It contains beauty, forgiveness, happiness. The kingdom of love without end...

150. Your hands did not know fatigue. Your lips never fainted. You walked through life loving your work. May you rest in peace.

151. I loved you, I loved life, but it’s not my fault that I didn’t live long. Now for you I will become the wind, a birch tree, a blade of grass, flowers. Pet them mom, it’s me, your pain is with you forever.

152. We only had a little more time to live in the Duma, and we might as well have lived. But the sun has set.

153. We stand bending over your grave. We water the flowers with hot tears, I don’t want to believe, dear and beloved, that you are in this grave.

154. It’s too early to see us. No one could save you. The wound on my heart is too deep. Sorry son, sorry, sorry...

155. You walked through life smiling. He left us all without saying goodbye. It’s impossible to describe how my heart cries. We mourn and remember

156. Pishov’s life is much too early. No one could lie. The wound is so deep in my heart. As long as you live with us.

157. With one flower the earth has become poorer. Heaven has become richer with one soul. You were with us so little in this life. But your memory is always in our hearts. 158. No! Don’t write in the dark, even if your heart skips a beat in agony. Having deprived you of a place to live for your squad, the children and children. 159. Do not bear grief. Don't cry a tear. You've taken your joy from home forever.

160. You loved everyone and sang songs. There is hope and support in the family. The world turned black. The light has dimmed and our grief is inconsolable.

161. Death chose you without asking us. How to live on and will you have enough strength? Our fell and husband, you were loved by us. We remember you and mourn you in grief.

162. We will remember You forever, for being cordial to everyone. For Your wisdom and kindness. For efficiency at the post. For sincere, smart advice. For the warmth that I was able to give. May God open heaven for you.

163. You passed away too early. Words cannot express our pain. Sleep dear, you are our pain and wound. The memory of you is always alive.

164. Oh, if only mommy were alive. We would give anything he asked for. Words... Words... Words... Words... We all pronounce them after death.

165. You lived and loved life. You should live and bloom. But the insidious death struck. Nobody could save you.

166. How the heart hurts, how the soul cries. The day has finally arrived.

167. I choke with tears... You are in my memory through me. It's so hard to bear the price of grief. I'm sorry baby, I'm sorry. What they couldn’t save you.

168. The pain of loss cannot be washed away with tears, and sorrow has no end. Our dear, you will always be with us. In our thoughts, our hearts.

169. Sleep well, our dear one, in a dark house, in the distance. Let our sorrow and our tears not disturb your dreams.

170. Having deprived everything, happy days and death. Life has given you so few years. And instead of youth, love and hope, I gave this granite as a gift.

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Funeral poems and words for a woman, mother, sister, grandmother, mournful words in verse from family and friends

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Without saying goodbye to anyone, without saying goodbye to everyone, you disappeared into the darkness, only leaving sadness. The pain burns, the soul hurts, a tear rolls from grief. You left us very early, we could not save You, a deep wound in our hearts, while we are alive, You are alive too. Eternal peace for your soul and the Kingdom of Heaven. Swan down to you, earth.

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Words cannot express our pain and grief, a deep wound in our hearts. We will never forget that terrible day that brought us so much grief and sadness. Tears tear our souls apart, and every day we remember You. May it be easy for You there, and may the memory of You remain here with us. In sorrow we bow our heads at Your grave. Sleep well, our dear mother. The earth is swan down for you, and the Kingdom of Heaven is for your soul.

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You have gone into bright eternity. And our pain cannot be helped, and the name of pain is infinity... You left us for another WORLD - where there is no return, leaving behind the memory of yourself, love, sadness and the pain of loss. The Lord called you to himself and left us with sadness and tears. You will reign in Heaven, and we will carry roses to the grave. May God protect your kind soul. May you rest in peace, and your soul - eternal peace and the Kingdom of Heaven.

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That day when the light of Your eyes faded and your heart stopped beating became the most terrible day for us and we could not come to terms with it. A tear rolls from the heart, pain burns, the soul cries. We so want to bring you back, but this cannot be done. You left us very early, but we could not save you. A deep wound in the heart. You left us and left us with pain and sadness. Eternal peace to your soul, our dear. Kingdom of Heaven, may you rest in peace on earth, remember with us all who remember it.

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Funeral words of grief for the deceased

Condolences are mourning words of sorrow who express sympathy over death. Sincere condolences provide for the format of a personal, personal appeal - verbal or text.

Within or in public, condolences are also appropriate, but there must be expressed briefly. In an expression of sympathy from a believer, you can add: "We pray for ___". More information about the rules of condolences can be found on the Epitaph.ru website.

Etiquette Muslim condolences It is distinguished by a fatal attitude towards death and acceptance of loss, as well as clear requirements for rituals, clothing, behavior, symbols, and gestures.

Examples of condolences

Universal short words of grief

In the case when words of condolences are pronounced after the burial or on the day of the funeral, you can (but not necessarily) add briefly: “May the earth rest in peace!” If you have the opportunity to provide assistance (organizational, financial - any), then this phrase is convenient to complete words of condolences, for example “These days you will probably need help. I would like to be of assistance. Count on me!

I am shocked by this sad news. It's hard to accept. I share your pain of loss...
My heart is broken by yesterday's news. I worry with you and remember ___ with the warmest words! It's hard to accept the loss of ___! Everlasting memory!
The news of ___'s death is a terrible blow! It hurts to even think that we won't see him/her again. Please accept my and my husband's condolences for your loss!
Until now, the news of ___'s death seems like a ridiculous mistake! It's impossible to comprehend this! Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss!
My condolences! It hurts to even think about it, it’s hard to talk about. I sympathize with your pain! Everlasting memory ___!
It's hard to put into words how much ___ and I feel for your loss ___! A golden man, of which there are few! We will always remember him/her!
“This is an incredible, catastrophic loss. The loss of a real person, an idol, an exemplary family man and a citizen of his country" (about Ilya Segalovich). .
We sympathize with your loss! The news of ___'s death shocked our entire family. We remember and will remember ___ as a most worthy person. Please accept our sincere condolences!
It's small consolation, but know that we are with you in the grief of your loss ___ and our hearts go out to your entire family! Everlasting memory!
“Words cannot express all the pain and sadness. Like a bad dream. Eternal peace to your soul, our dear and beloved Zhanna!(Grave and)
An unfathomable loss! We all mourn the loss of ___, but of course it’s even harder for you! We sincerely sympathize with you and will remember you all our lives! We would like to provide any help you need at this moment. Count on us!
Sad... I respect and remember ___ and am truly sorry for your loss! The least I can do today is to help in some way. At least I have four empty seats in the car.

Condolences on the death of mother and grandmother

I was stunned by this terrible news. For me, ___ is a hospitable hostess, a kind woman, but for you... The loss of your mother... I sympathize with you so much and cry with you!
We are very... very upset beyond words! It’s hard when you lose loved ones, but the death of a mother is a grief for which there is no cure. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss!
___ was a model of delicacy and tact. Her memory will be as endless as her kindness to all of us. The passing of a mother is an incomparable grief. Please accept my deepest condolences!
A grief incomparable to anything! And I have no words to ease your pain. But I know that she would not like to see your despair. Be strong! Tell me, what could I take on these days?
We are happy that we knew ___. Her kind disposition and generosity surprised us all, and that is how she will be remembered! It is difficult to express our grief in words - it is too great. Let the kindest memories and bright memories of her be at least a small consolation!
The news of ___'s departure came as a shock to us. We can only guess what a blow her departure was for you. At such moments we feel abandoned, but remember that you have friends who loved and appreciated your mother. Count on our help!
Words cannot heal a terrible wound in the heart. But bright memories of ___, how honestly and honorably she lived her life, will always be stronger than death. In the bright memory of her, we are with you forever!
They say they love their grandchildren even more than their children. We felt this love of our grandmother to the fullest. This love will warm us all our lives, and we will pass on some of its warmth to our children and grandchildren...
Losing loved ones is very difficult... And the loss of a mother is the loss of a part of yourself... Mom will always be missed, but may the memory of her and the warmth of a mother always be with you!
Words cannot heal this wound of loss. But the bright memory of ___, who lived her life honestly and with dignity, will be stronger than death. We are with you in eternal memory of her!
Her whole life was spent in countless labors and worries. We will always remember her as such a warm-hearted and soulful woman!
Without parents, without mother, there is no one between us and the grave. May wisdom and perseverance help you get through these most difficult days. Hold on!
The paragon of virtue has passed away from ___! But she will remain a guiding star for all of us who remember, love and honor her.
It is ___ that can be dedicated to kind words: “She whose actions and deeds came from the soul, from the heart.” May she rest in peace!
The life she lived has a name: “Virtue.” ___ is the source of life, faith and love for loving children and grandchildren. The Kingdom of heaven!
How much we didn’t tell her during her lifetime!
Please accept my sincere condolences! What a man! ___, just as she lived modestly and quietly, she left humbly, as if a candle had gone out.
___ involved us in good deeds, and thanks to her we became better people. For us, ___ will forever remain a model of mercy and tact. We are happy that we knew her.
Your mother was a smart and bright person... Many, like me, will feel that the world has become poorer without her.

Condolences on the death of husband, father, grandfather

We are deeply saddened by the news of your father's death. He was a fair and strong man, a loyal and sensitive friend. We knew him well and loved him like a brother.
Our family mourns with you. The loss of such reliable support in life is irreparable. But remember that we would be honored to help you any minute you need it.
My condolences, ___! The death of a beloved husband is the loss of oneself. Hang in there, these are the hardest days! We mourn together with your grief, we are close...
Today everyone who knew ___ mourns with you. This tragedy does not leave anyone close to us indifferent. I will never forget my comrade, and I consider it my duty to ___ to support you on any occasion, should you contact me.
I'm so sorry that ___ and I had disagreements at one time. But I always appreciated and respected him as a person. I apologize for my moments of pride and offer you my help. Today and always.
Thanks to your statements about his [qualities or good deeds], it seems to me that I have always known him. I sympathize with you about the death of such a loved one and a soul so close to you! Rest in peace…
I am truly sorry for the loss of your dad. This is a very sad and sad time for you. But good memories are what will help you survive this loss. Your father lived a long and colorful life and achieved success and respect in it. We also join in the words of friends’ grief and memories of ___.
I sincerely sympathize with you... What a person, what a personality! He deserves more words than can be said right now. In the memories of ___, he is both our teacher of justice and mentor in life. Eternal memory to him!
Without a father, without parents, there is no one between us and the grave. But ___ set an example of courage, perseverance and wisdom. And I'm sure that he wouldn't want you to grieve like that right now. Be strong! I sincerely sympathize with you.
Your shock at the onset of loneliness is a severe shock. But you have the strength to overcome grief and continue what he did not manage to do. We are nearby, and we will help with everything - contact us! It is our duty to remember ___!
We mourn with you in this difficult moment! ___ is the kindest man, free of silver, lived for his neighbors. We sympathize with your loss and join you in the kindest and brightest memories of your husband.
We're sorry for your loss! We sympathize - the loss is irreparable! Intelligence, iron will, honesty and justice... - we are lucky to work with such a friend and colleague! We would like to ask him for forgiveness for so many things, but it’s too late... Eternal memory to a mighty man!
Mom, we mourn and cry with you! Our sincere gratitude from children and grandchildren and warm memories of a good father and good grandfather! Our memory of ___ will be eternal!
Blessed are those whose memory will be as bright as ___. We will remember and love him forever. Be strong! ___ it would be easier if he knew that you could handle all this.
My condolences! Recognition, respect, honor, and... eternal memory!
They say about such open-hearted people: “How much of ours went with you! How much of yours remains with us! We will remember ___ forever and pray for him!

Condolences on the death of a friend, brother, sister, loved one or loved one

Accept my condolences! It has never been more expensive or closer, and probably never will be. But in yours and in our hearts he will remain a young, strong, full of life man. Everlasting memory! Hold on!
It is difficult to find the right words in this difficult moment. I mourn with you! Small consolation will be that not everyone has had the opportunity to experience such love as yours. But may ___ remain alive in your memory, full of strength and love! Everlasting memory!
There is such wisdom: “It’s bad if there is no one to take care of you. It’s even worse if there’s no one to take care of you.” I'm sure he wouldn't want you to be so sad. Let's ask his mother what we can do to help her now.
My condolences to you! Through life hand in hand, but you have suffered this bitter loss. It is necessary, it is necessary to find the strength to survive these most difficult moments and difficult days. In our memory he will remain ___.
It is very bitter to lose your loved ones and relatives, but it is doubly bitter when young, beautiful, strong people leave us. May God rest his soul!
I would like to find words to somehow ease your pain, but it is difficult to imagine whether such words exist on earth at all. Bright and eternal memory!
I mourn with you in this difficult moment. It’s scary to even imagine that half of you has left. But for the sake of the children, for the sake of loved ones, we need to get through these sorrowful days. Invisibly, he will always be there - in the soul and in our eternal memory of this bright man.
Love will not die, and the memory of it will always illuminate our hearts!
… this too shall pass …
For all of us, he will remain an example of love of life. And may his love for life illuminate the emptiness and grief of loss and help you survive the time of farewell. We mourn with you in difficult times and will remember ___ forever!
The past cannot be returned, but the bright memory of this love will remain with you for the rest of your life. Be strong!
Be strong! With the loss of your brother, you must become a support for your parents twice. May God help you get through these difficult moments! Happy memory to a bright man!
There are such mournful words: “A loved one does not die, but simply ceases to be around.” In your memory, in your soul, your love will be eternal! We also remember ___ with a kind word.

Condolences to a believer, a Christian

All of the above is appropriate in expressing support in difficult times of loss for both the believer and the secular person. A Christian, Orthodox, can add a ritual phrase to his condolences, turn to prayer or quote from the Bible:

God is merciful!
God bless you!
Everyone is alive for God!
This man was blameless, just and God-fearing, and shunned evil!
Lord, rest with the Saints!
Death destroys the body, but saves the soul.
God! Receive the spirit of your servant in peace!
Only in death, the mournful hour, does the soul find freedom.
God takes a mortal through life before turning him to the light.
The righteous will certainly live, says the Lord!
Her heart /(his) trusted in the Lord!
Immortal soul, immortal deeds.
May the Lord show mercy and truth to him/her!
Righteous deeds are not forgotten!
Most Holy Theotokos, protect him (her) with your protection!
The days of our lives are not numbered by us.
Everything returns to normal.
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God!
Blessed peace to your ashes!
Kingdom of heaven and eternal peace!
And those who have done good will find the resurrection of life.
Rest in the Kingdom of Heaven.
And on earth she smiled like an angel: what is there in heaven?

P.S. Once again about active personal participation. For many families, even a small financial contribution to the future will be a valuable help in this difficult moment.