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STARS & FATES (Claire Petulengro)

Cancer June 22 - July 23
Changeable, always ready to protect, loving, gentle and caring - these are the key words that define Cancer. Cancers have wonderful qualities and can brighten the life of any person. Their loyalty, kindness, understanding, generosity, sincerity are a real gift of fate. No, of course, Cancers are not angels, but their kind and open soul makes them take the interests of other people to heart, even if it contradicts their own interests.
Nevertheless, Cancers are capable of putting pressure on others. They can convince loved ones that they are not paying attention to them at all, although they were left alone for no more than half an hour. Emotional blackmail is the favorite method of action of Cancers. These creatures are simply unable to exist without exploding from time to time due to the fact that they are not given enough attention. By the age of nine, little Cancer is excellent at manipulating others. Like his friend in the water element Scorpio, Cancer can bring you a lot of joy, but will instantly forget about his best intentions as soon as it seems to him that you are being unfair to him. Think about a real Cancer or Crab - and you will get a complete picture of the person born under this zodiac sign. The favorite way of walking for these creatures is backwards and from side to side. Cancer people live in exactly the same way. But if Cancer decides to move forward, powerful claws will help him do this and even protect him from enemies. The words that the best way of defense is attack undoubtedly belong to Cancer. But he - the poor fellow - did not know that he was revealing a family secret.
Cancer symbolizes perseverance. This explains the almost pathological attachment of Cancers to family and close people. Cancers always place the well-being and interests of their loved ones much higher than their own. This remarkable property in Cancers can take on a hypertrophied appearance. Cancer will pursue its goal stubbornly and persistently, without thinking about what price it will have to pay. Self-discipline and efficiency in Cancers are extremely high, and concentration and attention to detail help them achieve success. However, sometimes Cancer loses its gained positions due to excessive love for loved ones. Ties of love prevent Cancers from achieving what they deserve.
Cancers need to be attentive to the opportunities provided so as not to miss them. Cancers are ambitious and smart. They treat the world like their own shell, they like to travel, not only during vacation, but also for work. But they should not take all the problems of the world to heart. I have many Cancer friends. Since I myself was born under a water sign, I understand perfectly why they are drawn to me.
I know very well that they are all ready to cry even before I feel pain, although the nature of my problems may remain completely unclear to them. Their understanding and compassion is a wonderful trait that attracts people to them. If you have problems, turn to your Cancer friend, who, sincerely believing that shared pain is much easier to bear, will readily take your problems on his shoulders. Cancers are great friends, but you shouldn't take their kindness for granted.
Cancers are very sensitive, they are easily hurt, but they never take offense. They are ready to forgive everyone and everything. It's in their nature. They can call you an hour after a violent quarrel and talk as if nothing happened, because by that time they will already have time to forgive you. Cancers do not cope with their own problems as well as with others. If the problem is not resolved quickly enough, Cancer may fall into depression, which will last for months or even years. Give Cancer time and he will give you his heart. You may find them somewhat intrusive, but they will be able to create an atmosphere in which you will want to stay for the rest of your life. They will treat your family (and any children you have) as if they were their own. They are always ready to help those who are not as strong as they are, and they cope with their task extremely well.
In matters of the heart, Cancers are surprisingly constant. Their love and affection last a lifetime. Career and ambition fade into the background for them.
In love, they do not tolerate half measures. Cancers make excellent spouses. The Cancer woman is a wonderful wife and mistress of the house, although the Cancer man is too inclined to consider his own mother as the measure of truth.
Remember that Cancer is not as predictable as you might think. Don't expect that whenever you come home there will always be a hot dinner and a made bed waiting for you. Cancers are very neat, but neat only by their own standards. I know a lot of Cancers who are slobs and no less Cancers who are neat. They expect others to clean up after themselves. If this is not done, then shoes thrown in the middle of the room may remain there until the next day, and unwashed dishes will remain piled up in the sink. And God save you from such liberties as burping or greedily eating in the presence of Cancer. It's not just ugly, it's unforgivable.
When Cancers decide to do something, they do it, but their emotions can interfere with the fulfillment of their plans. Once again I want to say that in reality Cancers are very selfish. Many will not believe me, but I assure you that this is the pure truth. This is their lifestyle. They are able to step over anything in order to achieve their goal.
Cancers are very sexual and are not afraid to show their feelings towards other people. They are ready to go to the ends of the earth for those they love, and this is not an exaggeration. They choose Christmas gifts very carefully. They strive to make their gifts distinguished by originality and sophistication.
In business, Cancers are distinguished by their intelligence and intelligence, but this intelligence is often not enough to pay bills on time. Sometimes Cancer is so busy with his personal life that he simply does not have enough time to study business papers and accounts. In this he is the complete opposite of Capricorn. Although the stubbornness and perseverance characteristic of these signs help them reach the top in their chosen line of work. Cancers write excellently, although whenever possible they prefer to speak text into a voice recorder than to type it from a keyboard. Passion is the hallmark of Cancer's nature. They achieve their goals with passion in both their personal and professional lives. There may be some surprises here. Just when you thought you knew your Cancer well, he pulls an unexpected trick, doing something that no one expected from him. In this regard, George Michael is a typical Cancer: sexy, talented, loving, capable of surprising, willing to throw himself into the pool headlong. Pamela Anderson, the star of “Baywatch,” is also a typical Cancer: a loving mother and at the same time a sex bomb. You've probably read about what she did in the bedroom when she was married to rock musician Tommy Lee, and I'm inclined to believe it. This behavior is quite typical for Cancers.
If your partner is Cancer, you will always be loved. Cancers are so good with words that their partners simply melt with pleasure. I can't promise that friendship with Cancer will last a lifetime. They are drawn to people who are not inclined to forgive weaknesses - to Taurus, Leo and Gemini. But is it really possible not to forgive a person who is ready to forgive anything?! What cruelty!
Cancer may seem arrogant. He is used to caring only about himself. But he is great at taking care of others too. Maybe this is where his arrogance lies? But who can resist the pressure of a persistent crab?

SECRETS OF THE SEXES
What is the difference between men and women born under this sign? Let's get a look.
Cancer Women
If you are lucky enough to fall in love with a Cancer girl, try to remain faithful to her. She loves fair play, is highly sensitive and values ​​emotional security much more than financial security.
She is honest and open and expects the same from you. Don’t even think about playing a double game with such a woman. Emotional stability and happiness mean a lot to her. If you can make her feel safe, then you will be able to win her heart. The Cancer woman wants to feel loved, desired and needed. You can trust her completely. This is a reliable partner, although somewhat old-fashioned. If she really loves you, she will support you in any endeavor. She will happily mortgage her own house if you need it, and when you lose everything, she will also console you. The Cancer woman is ready to give her beloved everything she has. And her attitude does not change even after failures and defeats. She loves every new man just as much. She simply cannot believe that she is being deceived again. Such a woman will do everything in her power to maintain the union.
A Cancer woman can puzzle her partner. She is able to calmly throw away his favorite slippers, having prepared his treasured dish for lunch. Don't expect her to make your bed every night, but you will probably find rose petals on your pillow. She likes to do emotionally charged things. She doesn't want to be demanding, but this happens involuntarily. If you don't come home at the appointed time, prepare for a very cold reception. Even if your lateness was caused by the most valid reasons. But once you let a Cancer woman into your life, you will not want to part with her. The void that such a woman will leave behind cannot be filled. The Cancer woman is passionate, emotional, sentimental, persistent and patient. If you have a problem, she will wait patiently for you to fix it. She will do her best to protect your peace. But if you lie to her even once, get ready for the fact that you will remain a deceiver in her eyes for the rest of your life. Despite all her kindness, such a woman can remain cold as ice if you just hurt her.
A Cancer woman, like a fine wine, only gets better with age. When you see an elderly Cancer woman with a young man, do not be surprised. He simply doesn’t pay attention to her age, she looks so good. Cancer women have amazing endurance and are able to party all night long if they are in the right mood. But Cancer women don’t know how to drink. They can get drunk even from non-alcoholic drinks if they consider them alcoholic. Alcohol affects such women both mentally and physically. They begin to suffer, feel sorry for themselves, and by the end of the party they begin to cry over the grievances of their school childhood. But at the same time, alcohol makes them sexy and playful. It's up to you.
You must not forget that Cancer women are greatly influenced by the full moon. At this time, strong emotional outbursts, scandals and quarrels are possible, which they forget about as soon as the moon wanes. But at any time, the Cancer woman remains attentive to the problems of her partner. You can always tell her about any troubles. She will keep your secrets and be a reliable friend. It's always fun to be with her, she can make life better. If she decides to share her destiny with you, rest assured: your comfort is guaranteed. She loves to be near water, to which she is irresistibly drawn. If you feel that the Cancer woman is tired or not in the mood, give her (and yourself!) a fragrant bath. She will immediately become the same.
Cancer women love children and are always ready to help them. They treat all children as if they were their own. In a certain sense, such women themselves remain children for the rest of their lives. They understand children's ways of thinking and children's feelings. No matter how negatively you feel about such women - their mood swings, their inability to save and count money, it is impossible not to love them. They are ready to give you the best they have, and it is impossible to resist.

Cancer men
The reason why women so often fall in love with Cancer men is because of their amazing ability to communicate with people. If such a man grew up next to his sister, then you can attribute this skill to female influence. However, in fact, the Cancer man is feminine, but in the most masculine sense of the word. (Believe my words, I don’t contradict myself!) You can safely go shopping with this man, he won’t be bored in the women’s clothing department. He will be able to give you useful advice and choose a suit much better than you could do on your own. I bet my head that this outfit will fit you just perfectly. Such a man is able to make any woman feel sexy.
Cancer men love pleasant scents and are very careful when choosing colognes and aftershave lotions. Before getting married and settling down, such a man has a lot of girlfriends. He understands the female soul very well. He has a unique imagination, is very romantic and extremely persistent. However, the ways in which he shows his affection may seem strange. He may invite you to dinner at a regular diner, but then he will definitely go for a romantic walk on the beach.
His mother is his best friend. He will always compare you with her. But don’t worry: you will always be a goddess for him - but you must act in accordance with this image. If you start flirting with other men, this will greatly offend a Cancer man, but jealousy is not typical for him.
The Cancer man loves to work and takes pride in what he does. In him you will find a romantic partner who will spare no effort to make you happy. There is nothing that such a man would not do for those he loves, but he also expects the same attitude towards himself from those close to him. He won't like it if you go somewhere without him. Even if he doesn’t go, he must receive an invitation.
The Cancer man is a skillful and inventive lover, generous and gentle. It is not easy to leave such a partner, even if you understand that he is not suitable for you. With him you will understand that sex is very pleasant. Like all Cancers, such a man is easily susceptible to mood swings, and this is the least attractive trait of his character. Because of this, many people consider him childish. But a marriage with a Cancer man will be happy, since he will have time to have fun even before the wedding. Marriage is sacred to him, and he will never do anything that could destroy family happiness. If he says “yes,” he does so with an open heart and intends to keep his marriage vows. If you are kind, he will be even kinder. If you are terrible, then the Cancer man will turn into a real pig.
Beware of the Cancer man's friends who can lead him astray. Such a person always has many different friends who are weaker than him. Try to make friends with them, do not turn them into enemies. Remember: if you want to defeat them, join them. Otherwise, they will unite against you, and you will only lose.
Cancer is one of the few zodiac signs that will remember your birthday and the anniversary of your meeting. (Just don’t forget about his birthday, otherwise he won’t talk to you for a whole week!) Such a man has a rich imagination, he loves to learn new things and is ready to learn with you. Life next to him is pleasant and easy, and love only becomes stronger over the years.

SEXUAL NEEDS
For this zodiac sign, the main thing is safety. If you want your friend to think about going to bed with you, feel free to tell him that you love him. Otherwise, such a thought simply will not occur to him.
Cancers would rather invite you over than come to your home. They feel more confident on their own territory. If they do come to you, then when you wake up in the middle of the night, you will find them in the kitchen having a cup of coffee with your neighbor, discussing the problems of their love life.
Cancers are understanding and sympathetic lovers. They only need to tell you once about what you are used to and what you do not tolerate in your bedroom. They will immediately remember your words and next time they will try to give you maximum pleasure. They appreciate attention, so don't think you can just lie on your back. You must give no less than you receive.
If you are happy, then your partner will feel happy. Cancers need emotional feedback from a loved one. If you go to work unhappy, then God save those with whom your partner works. Cancers spread sadness like wildfire. They are not shy about telling others that they are not in the mood today. For them it is completely natural.
Just try to hide your emotions from your Cancer lover, and you will run into serious trouble. Your lover will be able to make your life simply nightmare, since he himself will feel unhappy. Gloomy Cancer will look with longing at how you are having fun at the party. I assure you, your fun will not last long! If you offend a Cancer or make him unhappy, this wound will not be healed quickly. Cancer is a fighter and will try to correct the situation first. Since you can never be completely sure what lies behind that dazzling smile, why not try one more compliment? There will be no harm from this, and the benefits can be very great.
Love and sex go hand in hand. It is not often that you find a Cancer drawn into a relationship that does not affect him emotionally - unless alcohol is to blame. (Don't forget that Cancer can get drunk from the very first glass!) Don't be jealous if your adorable Cancer flirts with your friends and girlfriends. You can always rely on him. If he flirts, it means he just decided to support someone emotionally. In fact, if people born under this sign were not extremely passionate, I would recommend that they become priests. They are able to listen to confession and keep the secret, while simultaneously satisfying their own curiosity.
Don’t forget to give, and you will be rewarded a hundredfold (wow, I sounded like a priest myself!). But if you are selfish in love games, then it’s better to pack your bags right away. Making love with Cancer is so pleasant and refined that it is simply impossible not to respond in kind to this seducer. He deserves love and support.
HIGHEST DESIRE AND NEED
INNATE PASSION

Marriage partners
Here you will find only a general overview. To understand this issue thoroughly, take a look at the chapter “Under the Sheets.”
BEST CHOICE

CANCER will always understand another Cancer and be able to satisfy his most secret desires.
VIRGO will help Cancer organize his life, bring into it the stability that Cancer so needs. The only thing you shouldn't forget is: don't overdo it!
SCORPION will be able to fulfill any sexual and emotional fantasy of Cancer.
FISH They will forgive the excessive drama typical of Cancers, and will appreciate the fun that Cancers bring into their personal lives.
THERE IS SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
ARIES can live next to Cancer until Cancer tries to lead this sexual fire sign.
TAURUS is always drawn to Cancers, but in living together these signs will have to learn to adapt to each other. Otherwise, problems cannot be avoided.
SCALES will keep Cancers under a tight rein, not allowing them to deviate a single step from their chosen path. Libra will declare their love before simple-minded Cancer has time to come to his senses!
SAGITTARIUS will help Cancer make his dreams come true.
CAPRICORN- a reliable and reasonable partner, although sometimes too cold.
PROBLEMS CAN'T BE AVOIDED
TWINS They love to flirt too much, which the emotionally demanding Cancer does not tolerate. Cancer does not smile at the prospect of sitting at night, looking at the clock, waiting for their Gemini partner to deign to return.
A LION too interested in what is happening around him to give Cancer the attention he needs.
AQUARIUS too unreliable and will fool Cancer’s head.
What Cancers Can't Stand
1. Liars.
2. Sloppy.
3. Beer bellies.
4. Empty promises.
5. People who constantly talk only about themselves.
6. People who put their own interests above all else.
7. Tasteless and cheap clothes.
8. People who snore loudly.
9. Men and women who don't want to talk about love.
10. Lack of punctuality.

HOW TO SEDUCE CANCER
So, you decided to seduce Cancer. Lesson number one: don't forget about games. Cancers love people who have some kind of mystery, a touch of mystery.

Every ten minutes, look in their direction, smile - and very soon Cancer’s interest in you is guaranteed. When Cancer is next to you, he won’t ask many questions. The history of your life, the number of previous partners - that's all. Yes, you don’t have to tell the whole truth.
Arrange a date with Cancer near the water. Believe me, water affects all water signs. I was convinced of this, more than once. Water puts Cancer in a romantic mood. And if you also treat your Cancer to a cocktail, consider it a done deal! Now ask him about his life, and you will immediately understand what you can expect from him in the bedroom. (Although it is quite possible that the next day you will regret what you said.) It will be much more difficult to distract Cancer from his friends. These people are very popular and love to spend time among people, preferably among people they know well.
Cancer is very careful. Friends mean a lot to him, but becoming a friend for such a person is not easy. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. I have a lot of Cancer friends, and I had to work hard to become part of their circle. It may seem to you that you have been rejected, but the Cancers are simply taking a closer look at you, which can take quite a long time.
Cancer wants to feel like the center of attention, so ask him as many questions as possible and remember the answers. Give Cancer the initiative in love, otherwise you may scare the crap out of him. And when you win the main prize, you can safely knock Cancer off his feet.
Ignore Cancer's complaints during your first date. Water signs are deep and emotional, so they want to immediately get the attention they need.
Give Cancers compliments - this will make them feel safe. Cancer takes your words much deeper than you might think. You said that Cancer looks great - that's good. But it’s even better if you appreciate his intelligence. Such a compliment will immediately put you in the lead in the race, since Cancers are not as confident in their mental abilities as you think. They often regret what they said, although they probably spent more than one hour thinking about the words they were going to say.
Cancers love music, so concert tickets will help you charm this amazing zodiac sign. If you want to introduce a Cancer to your parents, this is a good idea. Cancers value family values ​​very much. Other signs may be frightened by such an acquaintance, but not Cancer.
That's the weight. Compliments and peace of mind. Calm atmosphere. I know this may seem strange to you, but Cancers are very contradictory people. And don't forget to take plenty of money with you. With Cancer, you can never be sure where your date will end.
Meaningful details
When Cancers are in love, the whole world should know about it. And not because they shout about their love from every rooftop. Of course not. Just at the first glance at them, it becomes clear that these people are in a state of pure and passionate love. If there are any doubts left, pay attention to their work - on such days everything falls out of their hands.
One of the problems that Cancer lovers face is that they try with all their might to assert ownership rights to their loved one. There is nothing wrong with this if the partner is ready to obey. But if Cancer’s choice fell on an independent person, accustomed to deciding everything on his own, problems cannot be avoided.
Cancer in love becomes lazy. Work in the office and at home seems unimportant to him; he is able to think only about love. Do not try to somehow influence such a person, it is simply useless. If you want to get some action from him, wait until the first signs of falling in love pass (even if Cancer is in love with you). If Cancer is in love with you, well, enjoy. He will spend money on you and reveal his life to you as if it were an exciting book. But don’t be deceived. Cancer will never tell you the whole truth. He likes to ask riddles. You will have to work hard on your own.
Cancer is ready to give, he will try to fill your life with something new and interesting - both in the kitchen and in the bedroom. If Cancer spent ten hours in stores looking for bamboo leaves and exotic herbs, then you won’t force him to wash the vegetables. And don't forget about it. If you managed to get your hands on Cancer, this is not an accident; your partner probably planned everything in advance. If you have a Cancer friend, don't be offended if he fools you a little. Cancers are always drawn to new people, it’s in their blood. Don't worry, very soon your friend will be crawling on his knees, begging for forgiveness. Cancers always strive for success. This sign develops an interest in love at a very early age. Cancers quickly understand what exactly they want from a relationship and how to achieve it. Even in childhood, they choose names for their future children!
Cancer can scare people away, but don't pay attention to its scary claws. If Cancer doubts your fidelity, you will have a hard time. And you have to excuse your friends for trying to separate you from the charming Cancer grinning behind your back. Living with Cancer has its own difficulties. But he loves love and gives himself to it with all his soul. If Cancer is next to you, you are able to conquer the whole world. Other people can only dream of the exquisite massage that awaits you after work. And you just have to love this delightful zodiac sign!
CANCER IN YOUR LIFE
In this section we will talk about the people with whom you work, relax and play sports.
Cancers at work
Your boss is Cancer. What a joy! It won’t be difficult for you to convince him to let you go from work because your beloved dog is sick. You can convince him to do something that no normal boss would do. The only trouble is that such a boss is at odds with money issues - so you can’t expect timely payment of wages. But all this is completely unintentional. And it will be easier for you to lend a fiver to a squandered boss than to threaten a lawsuit.
Remember that for Cancer, family life is always more important than work. If your boss is serious, it's not because of your mistake, but because little Jimmy has a cold. Sloppy behavior and smoking at work always worry Cancer bosses. (They themselves can smoke, but others are not allowed to.) So, when going to an interview, hide your cigarettes away.
Cancers work hard. Your boss may work day and night to achieve his position. The Cancer boss is a good boss: he is kind, tolerant and unobtrusive. When such a boss sees the mistakes of his subordinates, he will do everything in his power to help cope with the situation. He is ready to invest time and money in you, he can send you for retraining or advanced training courses. Cancer bosses treat their subordinates like family members. But if you humiliate them in any way, they will take it very personally, which will cost you dearly. A family environment in the office is not always ideal.
Cancers are good organizers and know what they want. They are great at work parties. Just make sure that your boss doesn’t drink, otherwise you will hear a lot of things that you would prefer not to hear. Cancer is the confidant of so many people that he even loses count of them. In normal circumstances, Cancer is as silent as a fish, but when drunk he can spill any secret. I am sure that you would prefer to work without knowing the ins and outs of your colleagues, since this knowledge is of no use, it can only irritate.
Personal neatness and neatness are very important for those who work under Cancer. The boss will provide security and friendship to his subordinates, but in return he will demand discipline and loyalty. He is strict, but strict first of all to himself. If you are asked to stay late at work, rest assured: your boss will not go home before you. Due to internal characteristics, Cancer bosses prefer that their subordinates come to work early rather than stay until midnight. Cancer loves home life no less than his subordinates; a hot bath and a good book before bedtime please him much more than achievements in the office.
Cancers, as a rule, do not mix work with pleasure. They love to have fun and can spoil their subordinates with their kindness, but they must be sure that if they order them to jump, their subordinates will jump like bunnies. Otherwise they wouldn't be here. In a crisis situation, Cancers take full responsibility and carry out the most difficult tasks. And that's what they're all about. No one except them is able to complete the work. Well, maybe fellow Cancer. Don't take this as a personal grievance.
Cancers are very artistic and know how to choose the right words. They know how to leave work on time before receiving notice of termination. And if their boss is also a Cancer, then with their resignation letter they are able to emotionally influence him, and quite successfully.
I like Cancer bosses. With them you can always be sure that the work will be completed. Even if you have to shed a lot of tears for this, sincere laughter and warmth compensate for all the disadvantages of such work.

What to do if your mother-in-law or mother-in-law is Cancer?
Remember: never, ever insult this woman! No matter how stupid and trivial her remark may seem to you, remain silent. She will remember the insult inflicted on her for many years. All women cannot stand insults, but Cancer women take insults doubly. They pass everything through the heart. I would not want to be in the position of a person who offended such a woman, and I do not advise this to you.
The Cancer woman exudes calm and confidence, but if her son or daughter doesn't call her regularly, she will immediately be at their door to make sure everything is okay. It has a lot of disadvantages, but let's first talk about its advantages. She will love her grandchildren like no other grandmother in the world. You couldn't even dream of this. She knows many fairy tales and is able to calm the most violent child. Even if she is sick, she will babysit your children, because her devotion to your family knows no bounds.
She spends more on her grandchildren than she can afford. Her gifts are always thoughtful and valuable. Don’t forget to thank her properly: the silk scarf she gave you was probably issued from abroad, and not purchased at a nearby store.
You can talk to her about any problems, she is always happy to listen to you and is ready to take your problems to heart. She feels a deep need to help, so you can be sure: your problems will be discussed at a meeting of the women's club and will certainly be resolved.
Although she will dictate where you should be and at what time, don't expect her to be punctual and willing to follow your own schedule. She likes to show up uninvited, claiming that you invited her to dinner a few days ago, but she just didn't have time to confirm her arrival. She is not precise; she has her own (and the only correct!) point of view on everything. She has tons of friends, but she thinks you have to invite her to all your parties. But she herself will not invite you. She loves surprises, so if you want to see her eyes light up, give her gifts. Flowers will not help you out, because many Cancers are allergic to pollen. Therefore, before giving a bouquet, consult with your partner about the choice of flowers so as not to get into trouble. Cancer women have their own taste in clothing, and this taste becomes increasingly strange with age, so you will have a hard time choosing a gift for her. But try, because such a woman deserves the effort. Lend her money from time to time, because she simply does not know how to count and sometimes gets into difficult situations.
Take the time to get to know her better. This is the only way to understand this amazing woman. Her heart has boundless kindness, but is also demanding at the same time. If you make time for her, she will repay you handsomely. She has something to tell you about; life has taught her many lessons. Just don't overdrink her at your parties, or by the end of the evening she'll be crying on the couch about her high school sweetheart, whom she hasn't seen in fifty years.
Yes, she interferes in everything, but that’s her lot. She wants to be sure that you will be able to take care of her baby. And no matter how old her son or daughter is, they will always remain little children for the mother. But she will never interfere in your relationship, because she understands how important it is for you and for her child.
Cancer Children
Cancer children are absolutely adorable. But at the same time, they are every parent's worst nightmare. They are very demanding and need constant encouragement. It is not surprising for them to run away from home, especially at a certain age. They test the patience of their parents to make sure that they are truly loved and appreciated.
The Cancer child is a difficult child. By the age of nine, he has a keen interest in issues of love and sex. Such teenagers enter into physical relationships with the opposite sex even too early. They need an eye and an eye. It is very possible that you will hear the name Jenny, but most likely your daughter spent that night with some Johnny.
Cancer children are very inventive and know how to have fun on their own. As they grow older, they begin to become interested in art. They are kind and generous. A black eye was probably earned in a fight in defense of the weak, and not in defense of oneself. They do not like it when the weak are offended in their presence. Throughout their lives they keep a lot of friends - fat and thin, ugly and beautiful, because appearance does not play any role for them.
The Cancer child will most likely follow the path of his mother or father and inherit the family business. From a very young age, he will begin to ask you about what you are doing and how this or that device works. In the presence of such a child, beware of expressing everything you think about your boss or work. Otherwise, at the most crucial moment, your child may express your words, which you never expect!
Don't think that little Cancer will be satisfied with second roles. He will certainly come down to sit with your friends at the dinner table. Even if the conversation turns to sex or politics, your son or daughter will definitely insert a word, showing that they have their own opinion on this issue. In this respect, Cancers are completely different from ordinary children. Their obvious maturity makes their parents treat them as equals. They begin to lead a personal life early and will definitely introduce you to their chosen ones. They try to find something good in every person - and this is not only a good quality, but also a source of serious problems in life. Don't stop them from having fun, but watch carefully so that they don't do anything stupid. They need to be taught, otherwise they will not be able to cope with the whirlwind of emotions that overwhelm them. They are very vulnerable to emotional blackmail, but they do not hesitate to use this means themselves. If you notice that your Cancer child is doing something behind your back, show that you know everything and get him to open up.
Cancers are not the most intelligent of children; they are distinguished by rather unexpected hobbies. They will not make real doctors, lawyers, store owners or accountants. Mathematics is not their area, although sometimes it seems that they are simply mocking the teacher. Unfortunately, the whole point is just a congenital inability to the exact sciences. Treat your Cancer child with respect, and you will have every reason to be proud of him. Let him find his own path, and your task is only to support him along this path. I myself would be infinitely proud to become the mother of the first trapeze singer, since my son will most likely choose exactly this path.
Cancer Friends
Cancer friends will stay with you for the rest of your life, unless you offend them in some way. They will not forgive such a mistake and will notify all mutual acquaintances and friends about it. And all your fault may lie only in the fact that you informed them too late about the party on Saturday.
Cancers work hard and play hard. They fall in love quickly and forever, once they spot the right partner. Physically, Cancers are very vulnerable, so they should not give in to bad habits. If you see that your Cancer friend is having problems with overeating or drinking, help them cope before the situation gets out of control. Princess Diana, born under the sign of Cancer, suffered from overeating when she felt that she was deprived of support and attention. Do not treat Cancers with disdain - it is better to help these wonderful people.
Your Cancer friend may be late, but I don’t recommend that you do this. You must clearly keep your promises, because Cancer cannot stand being fooled. Cancers always think they are right, they are very demanding and take up a lot of time and energy from their friends. But they are fun and interesting. They can always teach you something new. Their love life is so exciting that you will even forget about your favorite soap opera.
You should not express your opinion to Cancer about his personal life. Cancers prefer to deal with their own problems on their own and only then turn to friends for support. They have amazing insight. Their partner’s infidelity becomes obvious to them much earlier than to everyone around them. Don't interfere in Cancer's life, just be ready to offer help if he asks for it.
Don't be surprised if your Cancer friend turns out to be quite jealous of your success or starts flirting with your partner. This behavior is quite typical for people born under this sign, so you will have to put up with it. They just are what they are, and that's not a bad thing. You can always take advantage of the irresistibility of your Cancer friend to get behind any closed doors. It is impossible to resist the charm and magnetism of Cancer.
Don't regret the fact that your friends are Cancers, even if it sometimes tires you. These people don't know intervals. They are either on the crest of fortune or in the abyss. They can change their clothes ten times because they can’t decide which suit suits the occasion. I have not yet seen a Cancer who would be satisfied with the first outfit he tried on, even if he still chooses and buys it. But for this he will need to try on a dozen more suits. Although Cancers often have rather strange taste, you cannot deny them a sense of style. They are able to look elegant even in a potato sack and are well aware of this. Conscious sloppiness for them is just a way to attract attention.
I love my Cancer friends. I like that they are late themselves, but never let me do it. I like the way they choose clothes, although I myself am not good at it. I love them because I know that a true and pure heart beats in each of them.
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There are probably no more mysterious men than those born under the sign of Cancer. They were destined to be the wards of the Moon, which explains the mysticism of this sign. In a new, still fragile relationship, Cancer can be somewhat cold and as if fenced off by a shell. But underneath the coldness and inaccessibility of the Cancer man lies real passion. His sad magic lures hearts into the dark and mysterious captivity of the night.

The Cancer man can be a merry fellow and a chatterbox, but most often he is a serious, gallant man with beautiful manners. He has good taste and knows about women. But Cancer has one big drawback - indecisiveness. He does not go ahead like Aries or Sagittarius, but approaches the goal carefully and slowly. Sometimes such accuracy is useful to him. It protects against rash actions and their consequences. But more often this behavior leads to defeat, because while Cancer doubts, someone bolder takes his trophy.

A Cancer sign man is overly reserved in relationships with women. He trusts only trusted people and sometimes this verification takes many years. His companion may feel like he’s hiding something, but that’s exactly what he is. The ward of the lunar queen does not like to talk about ex-girlfriends and the past in general. In a conversation, he can be indifferent and this irritates the weaker sex, because women love to talk and the attention of their interlocutor is very important to them. In fact, he listens and studies the woman, because despite his isolation, he is quite cunning.

To conquer Cancer, you need to show him the best feminine qualities - prudence, modesty, tenderness and fidelity. Then you need to be patient and not rush things. You shouldn’t marry a Cancer, let him make this decision himself. And if he leads you down the aisle, then you can be sure that he is only yours. The Cancer man is lazy enough to look for adventures on the side, and he also copes well with masculine responsibilities. It is unlikely that he will put problems on his wife’s shoulders, although he himself is endowed with feminine traits.

Cancer itself is a feminine sign. Therefore, men born under this constellation are vulnerable and sentimental. They are terribly afraid of rejection, so they think a hundred times before confessing their feelings. It is difficult to get such a man, but it is much easier to keep him. Typically, Cancer is a faithful spouse and caring father.

The element of Cancer is Water, so he may have a heavy phlegmatic character. At first it will seem to you that he is pulling you to the depths of sadness and hopelessness, but later you will get used to it, and in his gloomy abyss you will feel cozy and comfortable. But another major drawback is associated with the water element - a tendency to alcoholism.

The Cancer man is very attached to his mother. To justify his hopes, it is necessary to please the future mother-in-law. A Cancer man is capable of sacrificing both his wife’s interests and his own for his mother. The only way to establish balance in a relationship with Cancer is to become like his mother, but not overshadow her.

Unfortunately, among Cancers (especially at a young age) there are many mama's boys. You definitely shouldn’t get involved with such people, because instead of a reliable family support, you will get a complex whiner who needs a nanny, not a wife.

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Cancer men in relationships with women

Element: Water

Planet: Moon

Stone: Emerald

Color: Pink, Green

Water, which is always in motion, the Moon, which changes every day, and the stone of wisdom, the emerald, rule the Cancer Man. Therefore, he is emotionally unstable. Sociable and reserved at the same time. His mood changes without external reasons. The Cancer man has a vivid imagination, which for some reason generates mostly negativity. Cancer tends to come up with situations that are worse than ever. These imaginary situations do not happen to him, but the cancer experiences it as if they had already happened. Cancer will dream that his wife has cheated, and the next morning she will have a real scandal with packing her things and the threat of divorce.

The Cancer man has very high, simply unrealistic requirements for his life partner. He always wants the best, but tries not to do anything to achieve this best. But at the same time he always doubts. But at the right moment, incredible heroism awakens in cancer. In addition, Cancer has excellent intuition.

It would seem that this sign is repulsive. Crybaby is a homebody with endless complaints about everyone around her. Moreover, he is confident that Life itself owes him, and all the best. But in fact, this zodiac sign is not at all unambiguous. And the fact that a Cancer man immediately flaunts all his wishes, even exaggerated ones, is good. And that's why.

Charm and romance

Cancer men seem to glow from within. They captivate immediately, even if they do not have spectacular external data. Around them there is either creative chaos or ideal order. They know a lot and view life from a philosophical point of view.

And romantic. Tearful songs under the balcony at night are their specialty. Touching melodramas and Brazilian TV series, songs about unhappy love - a Cancer man will even learn the lyrics of Petrarch for his chosen one! How to make a Cancer man fall in love with you? Arrange a romantic date that (necessarily) will end with just a kiss! A lady of the heart should not be available.

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Attitude towards a woman

Men are Cancers in relationships with womenconstantly looking for change. They quickly get fed up. They need a role change. If the wife approaches with one hairstyle, Cancer begins to look “to the left.” At the same time, he is afraid to cheat on his wife, although he can do it. His desire for stability and novelty at the same time must be compensated by a change of environment and role-playing games. And remember that changing the environment each time requires a long acclimatization!

Integrity and honor

The concept of honor for a Cancer man is not an empty phrase. Cancer's trust can be destroyed, but not restored. From birth he has principles that he will not change throughout his life. Therefore, if you fight his opinion that a man doesn’t wash the dishes, then you will spend years trying to convince him. But he can still be bribed. For the sake of those closest and loved ones, the Cancer man will step on his principles. If you promise him a massage or a fishing trip in return.

How to make a Cancer man fall in love with you

Cancer is that rare representative of the zodiac who does not care about appearance. If he feels attracted to a woman, then at first he will forgive her for being overweight or having an ugly hairstyle. In order to completely conquer a Cancer man, it’s better to prove yourself. Moreover, you cannot be beautiful around the clock. He must see both advantages and disadvantages.

The fact is that cancer is confident in the balance of the universe. That good and bad exist simultaneously. There is no “everything is fine” situation for him. And if you are always stunning, Cancer will decide that your bad trait is character. Or are you with him because of money and comfort. And if he sometimes sees you in an old jacket, without makeup, he will console himself that “But my beloved has a good character.” And his world will come into balance.

It's impossible to say what kind of women do cancer men like?externally. But by nature she should be a natural mother. Which will “babysit” him. You need to be able to create comfort and show that your man is the navel of the earth. When he wants to talk, don't be distracted or interrupt. When he finishes his monologue about his experiences, he will be sure that you are the most reliable woman.

Change of mind

Cancer changes its mind very quickly. Today he tells his wife - don’t waste time in the kitchen, I don’t need all these goodies. Tomorrow he will be offended that you don’t feed him, pamper him and don’t love him.

Cancer does not particularly control its behavior. A cancer man in lovelooks like a child during illness. You will have to constantly gently remind him that he thought differently yesterday than he does today. Be patient throughout your life - this trait will not change in him. The only thing he is unshakably sure of is that his mother is a saint. And only his little granddaughter will be better than her.

Despite his rich imagination, Cancer does not know how to give gifts. And he doesn’t want to spend money on them. And he will live well without gifts. He needs emotions. He will forget the class mug on February 23, and he will never forget the trip to Moscow at night to buy watermelons in winter.

Sexual horoscope for Cancer man

Cancer is temperamental if there is the right atmosphere for love. He loves sensual pleasure. But every time he needs a long foreplay. And after an act of love, you definitely need to lie with him in an embrace for a while. Otherwise, he will be offended and feel used.

At all sexy horoscopeclaims that cancer suits all signs in bed. A Cancer man adapts to his partner, helps her overcome her shyness and is very gentle in love. And for active signs, like Pisces or Scorpio, he is ready to arrange stormy nights. But not at the expense of sleep, food or work, but in your free time. Sex in extreme conditions and with a time limit does not suit him.

Cancer man compatibility

Not all zodiac signs are temperamentally suited to each other. Therefore, so that you can stabilize your relationship with a Cancer man, the astrologer gives some advice.

• Aries - do not tell Cancer directly about your claims. Tell him all your wishes, including about the bed, only in a calm atmosphere.
• Taurus – don’t rush your Cancer husband in making decisions. And don’t make decisions without telling your husband about them.
• Gemini - try not to be with cancer around the clock. For a happy life together, allow Cancer to sit at home alone at least one day a month.
• Cancer - discuss all important matters only after you have calmed down, taken a walk, or been distracted. For the “cancer + cancer” pair, you need an arbitrator - a close mutual friend, relative or psychologist.
• Leo – don’t suppress your Cancer partner. Remember that he always tries his best for you. And try not to get involved in the affairs of a cancer man, let him do them himself as he sees fit.
• Virgo – appreciate the romance of a Cancer man! He needs tenderness and a candlelight dinner - only after that he will agree to resolve important matters.
• Libra – when you don’t know what to choose, let your Cancer man decide. He will weigh everything for a long time, but will choose the right decision.
• Scorpio – make a schedule. Today you listen to a Cancer man, tomorrow he listens to you. But make decisions only together.
• Sagittarius - learn to trust Cancer. And it is you who will have to take care of the house, since cancer will inevitably constantly push household worries on you.
• Capricorn - be patient while your man speaks out. He loves you for your ability to listen.
• Aquarius - keep Cancer informed about all your affairs. He will be able to prevent your hasty actions. Try to be less assertive in bed, otherwise Cancer may lose self-confidence.
• Pisces – when starting a change, prepare the Cancer man mentally. Give surprises less often.

And most importantly, get yourself a hobby. The Cancer man will admire your achievements with pleasure.

Cancer man: conclusion on how to build a relationship with him

In general, be patient. Spend more time on romance and tenderness. At the initial stage of the novel, come up with a special ritual - for example, a secret wink, which means a quick meeting. Cancer men love to play spies! Be mysterious, moderately inaccessible, and natural! And the cancer man will forever be yours!

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Characteristics of the sign

According to mythology, the cancer dug its claws into the leg of Hercules (Hercules) when he fought the multi-headed Hydra. When the cancer was killed, Hera (Juno), who hated Hercules, thanked this creature by placing him in the sky.

In early astrology, the symbol of the constellation was the image of cancer. The modern symbol for claws is sometimes explained as a representation of coiled spermatozoa, and thus the sign signifies the male and female "principle."

Homeliness, sensitivity, loyalty. Powerful emotions. The strongest sign of Water is more successful for women, since it is more strongly connected to the home than all other signs and brings with it physical and psychological vulnerability. Protecting himself from mental trauma, he often seeks reliability and safety alone; this is all the more offensive since Cancer has a strong need for family and home. And his life will not be perfect without a family.

He will do anything for the sake of security and stability. Rarely puts money on the line. Doesn't like to take risks. He handles money very carefully and, as a rule, does not let those who trust him. Always pays debts and expects the same from others.

Often experiences difficult emotional experiences. Either he gives the impression of having mental strength, or he is helpless, like a child. This is explained by the fact that the Sun in this sign changes its direction and begins to move south again, heavenly affairs turn back, like Cancer itself.

As a rule, Cancer is friendly, but the changeable Moon makes him either kind and frank (especially when he has a specific goal in front of his eyes), then again melancholic, withdrawn, and reserved.

Cancer has a diplomatic talent, he often achieves his goals. However, if Cancer feels offended, he may behave recklessly, in this state he is unable to cooperate with others. He behaves childishly and stubbornly - this is one of the significant shortcomings of Cancer, which he should fight. He makes a calm and meek impression, but his thoughts and feelings are difficult to unravel, this is accessible to few, so Cancer often remains misunderstood.

Children are naturally gentle, sweet, affectionate, and ready to help. Cancer parents radiate warmth. But there is also a certain danger in this. They want to have those they love only for themselves. Family tradition and history mean a lot to Cancer. They are patriots, they have an excellent memory for what belongs to tradition.

They try to avoid mental and physical ailments by any means and - since order and cleanliness are their distinctive qualities - they cannot stand matters that do not require absolute cleanliness.

They prefer a sophisticated atmosphere. Cancer has a strong imagination; it would often be better for him to think less about his illnesses. He must be able to say yes and no, monitor his mood, fight intolerance, timidity, and excessive sensitivity. He masters the art of passive resistance; this is his effective weapon against people he dislikes.

You can only lead a Cancer in a good way, because if he feels pressure, he freezes into immobility. He does not like to be advised, he wants to decide everything on his own, he is downright frightened by the thoughts of other people. Sometimes he is afraid of responsibility, but he will do important work accurately, reliably, punctually, and successfully.

Motto: "I feel".

Best paired with: Taurus, Scorpio

Average compatibility with: Gemini, Virgo, Pisces, Leo

Least compatible with: Libra, Capricorn

Born under this sign: van Rijn Rembrandt, Julius Caesar, Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Ernest Hemingway, Marc Chagall, Valentin Serov.

Children's horoscope

By reading the horoscopes of people born under the sign of Cancer from different astrologers, you can learn the most opposing opinions about them. Some argue that these are gentle creatures not adapted to life, in need of care, others that they are the best educators in the world, simply created to take care of the weak and small. In some horoscopes it is written that they are chaste and bashful, in others that they are lively, and they need an eye and an eye when it comes to the opposite sex. And all this is true. What do they all have in common, other than the fact that they have successfully confused psychologists and astrologers? The closest to unraveling the inner essence of Cancer came the famous American astrologer Grand Levi, who said: “Cancer can be a grapevine or a support for this vine, depending on the circumstances.” He can be anyone, the main thing for him is safety. The main thing is that his outer mask will always not correspond to his inner essence. There can be not only two masks, but three, four, as many as needed, there will be as many. Remember Bradbury's Martian boy? This boy took on the appearance that people who were close to him saw in him. This is how it is with people born under the sign of Cancer. Very often they put on the mask that their loved ones would like to see. Why do they do this? Most likely because Cancers are very sensitive and vulnerable. They do not like to be offended or laughed at. And the mask is protection against invasion into their inner world. It is not surprising that different people can have different opinions about the same child.

Young Cancers are characterized by hypersensitivity. They react very sharply to how they are treated and are therefore emotionally vulnerable. And if adults of this type have somehow learned to protect their inner world from insults and foreign influences, then children still do not know how to do this very well - this should always be remembered.

Do not try to invade the innermost world of your Cancer, respect his secrets. These children cannot be scared, they cannot be laughed at. But these children are flexible with those people who love them. Love your child, try to see only the good in him and you will be able to achieve everything you want from him. Children born under the sign of Cancer should not be forced to communicate with those they do not like; they may get sick from this. This feature can lead to difficult situations at school; if a child has problems with some subject, then most likely the reason is that he has a bad relationship with the teacher. If the teacher at least once allows himself to ridicule this child or express the belief that in front of him is a lazy, stupid student, then he will always see in front of him only a lazy and stupid student, because the child loses all ability to think in the presence of a person who treats him badly (even if it only seems to the child). There may be another reason for poor performance: he missed something and now does not understand (but not laziness). If you want your child to transform from a struggling student to a high-achieving student, I'm afraid your only option is to hire a tutor, or pick up a textbook and figure out the subject yourself. Children are very sensitive to your mood, and if you are nervous, they themselves will become nervous.

Let the calmer parent handle the conflict situation. Don't scold or punish your child if he doesn't behave the way you want. It is enough to show him that you are upset. These children are sensitive and affectionate and will never want to upset the person they love.

Now about health. At any age, your child can have problems with food. Cancers have clearly defined likes and dislikes for food. He finds it difficult to eat food he doesn't like. But if he likes the food, he cannot stop. Hence stomach and intestinal diseases. The diet should be balanced and the child should not overeat. Often the child prefers solid foods to soft ones. If he has an increased love for sweets, then dental problems and excess weight are possible. He is susceptible to colds and may suffer from catarrh, cough, asthma and kidney disease. And, of course, impressionable. Cancer is susceptible to nervous diseases. Take care of his nervous system.

Avoid labeling it. Remember that the mask may stick to the child for life. And most importantly, try not to get nervous yourself in any situation. The best treatment for your child is calm, even love.

So your child is too sensitive. Don't scare him, don't punish him, don't threaten him, don't laugh at him.

Do not label your child and do not put on masks: if you tell your child that he is lazy and ugly, he will grow up that way.

Don't be nervous in his presence. Don't expose his secrets.

What does he need?

Confident that you love him. On a certain diet. In responsible assignments that develop independence, in the absence of petty supervision.

Give him surprises and celebrations. He loves miracles.

Temperament and character

The intellect sinks into the soul from “darkness”. Cancer has good intelligence, incredible memory, he just shouldn’t use it for soul-searching, regret and revenge.

It's good if Cancer uses his rich life experience as a weapon with which to go out, and not as a nest into which to retreat. If only he would stop being afraid of the phantoms he created, and would force them to work for himself, if he would force himself to live in reality, and not in dreams! If only he thought about his tomorrow and discarded what happened yesterday! But Cancer moves back or to the side, gets scared. If necessary, he goes forward, but stops in fear, holding his breath.

No other sign has greater potential for affection than Cancer, no one can be more playful, loving. If not, there is always the threat of escape into the subconscious from cruel reality.

None of the signs yearns for home, for the Motherland, as much as Cancer. Cancer needs time to think and cannot be rushed. If you have the patience to cultivate Cancer like a rare plant, there is no greater return than from it. Cancer women love to take care of their bodies, preferring silks, lace, soft colors, and long hair.

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Psychosexual characteristics

Cancer is the most promiscuous sign. Changeable in mood: he can easily find himself in a web of sexual exploits. However, if they love a person, there is nothing that Cancers will not do to please the object of their love. He is not alien to any form of sexual intercourse. Women of this sign like to act motherly towards men. Cancer rules the breasts and is especially excited by this part of the body. Cancer men are attracted to older, motherly women. Cancers have enormous control over sexual functions: they are able to conduct intense love play for a long time. Cancer men and women love to be caressed.

Women of this sign enjoy playing the role of the little, innocent girl who is captured by the stereotypical, promiscuous man, when in reality, they are overjoyed at the temptation of erotic pleasure by pretending that they are losing their virginity.

This is a sign that produces extremely shy people, but in some cases they turn to the other extreme in sexual relationships and play an aggressive, domineering role, sometimes reaching the point of sadism, verbal and physical.

Non-sexual maneuvers

Cancer is a master of non-sexual maneuvers. He demands firm rules from his partner, which he himself cannot always fulfill. No other sign is capable of displaying such false virtue, loyalty, sensuality and hurt feelings as Cancer when he is personally at fault. What a heart-tearing mask - those wet, sad eyes - that Cancer can put on: a little boy who has been wronged, insulted.

Of course, Cancer devotes a lot of time to creating a cozy home life, looking for a faithful husband or wife, and giving birth to offspring. But once they have achieved this, they secretly find satisfaction in debauchery, justifying their adventures with social activities, affairs, etc.

Cancer is the self-indulgent wife who annoys her husband with requests to buy expensive things; he is also a boastful husband who always reminds his wife of the price of the luxury item he bought her.

Very materialistic by nature, aware of the power of things, Cancer usually gives gifts to his loved ones after quarrels.

Cancer is also a guilty husband who, upon returning from a “business trip,” brings his wife an expensive gift. This is also the guilty wife who managed to have fun with a cute TV mechanic while her husband was on a business trip and when he returns, he sees that she has cleaned the whole house, cooked his favorite food, went to the hairdresser and now greets him at the door with hugs and kisses and an innocent childish smile. Cancers are winners in the art of non-sexual maneuvers.

How to satisfy a Cancer

Make them feel young! They idolize youth (followed by Libra and Leo).

The only way for a Cancer to overcome sexual desire and remain faithful is to get into a situation where this is impossible: at work, at a conference, in a hospital where he is immobile due to a cast, or in the arms of his beloved wife.

Positive features

Despite the fact that Cancers are very nervous (negative types), the positive type has a large number of virtues: a protective paternal or maternal attitude towards people, leadership in risky matters and great perseverance. Besides everything, they have a valuable quality that helps them overcome their negative traits - patience. Cancers can be extremely thrifty, prudent and hardworking.

Negative traits

Cancers are victims of anxiety and fear. They should overcome the limitations they set for themselves. They should not live in their past childhood, but must, through an effort of will, force themselves to act in accordance with their age. They should beware of excessive drinking and gluttony. They need to learn to tolerate criticism and stabilize their moods.

But the main drawback is their inability to engage in conversation if there is the slightest possibility of being defeated. They cannot be “put against the wall”, even if they are guilty of something. They would rather continue to lie than pay for their sins.

Economics of love

Cancer is a cunning merchant in love, a complete materialist who, in the economy of love, stands head and shoulders above his astrological brothers and sisters. There are two types of love economy that Cancer resorts to. The first type is addressed mainly by young people who are consciously looking for older lovers. They become very attached to them, especially if they shower them with gifts and other things. Because Cancers revel in the role of a beginner in life, they like to obey an experienced, protective teacher who acts in their interests. Unless they happen to be married to these teachers, they usually maintain their relationship for the long haul, until it has served its purpose. If they do get married, they are rarely married until they are 35 years old. This is a critical age for Cancers. Rarely do Cancers live with the same spouse after 35 years.

The second type of love economy is practiced by older Cancers. Usually, by this time they have acquired a stable position. They suddenly change their youthful behavior and find themselves a young lover, to whom they give gifts and share with him the wisdom of an experienced person. If Cancers do not divorce their spouses after 35 years, then this happens due to financial dependence or love for children, but not at all out of loyalty to their old spouse. Their married life exists solely for the sake of convenience, while Cancers secretly court the young ones.

Most suitable partners

Until the age of 29.5, Cancer should look for the best partners among the signs of Scorpio and Pisces. All three are water signs and require close, passionate and deep emotional connections.

After age 29.5, Cancers usually begin to mature and realize their true personality, becoming more liberal and less cautious. Then they often find compatibility with the energetic signs of Gemini and Virgo. These two signs, ruled by Venus, have a lot of youthful energy and do not consider it humiliating to accept attentions, including gifts from boys who are already over 30 years old.

After 41.5 years, Cancers must fully develop and gain control over themselves. Then they can be compatible with Capricorn (a highly organized, partly mental sign, which is always ready to unite its goals and gain power with the already settled Cancer).

Fidelity Score

In your younger years it’s bad. The exception is the case when Cancer stays at home for a long time under the guidance of one of the parents, usually the mother, and thus their behavior is controlled not by Cancer himself, but by someone else. It is also bad in marriage, unless Cancer is connected with his spouse through a common cause or work, when they constantly see each other. The best period for obtaining fidelity from a Cancer is when he is very young and inexperienced, or after 35 years of age, when he is already a seasoned lover and welcomes the refreshing demand for fidelity. Cancers are also loyal to lovers when they are offered luxury and comfort. But this will seduce any sign in our age of materialism!

Questions for Cancer

Why do you always lie to make people believe you?

Why, having your own home, an ideal lover, wife or husband, do you continue your love affairs? When will you start finding your fault in your mistakes? When will you give more energy to spiritual qualities? Why are you so uncommunicative?

Why do you make others suffer if you are in a bad mood?

And finally, why did the stars make you such a deceptive ideal lover, husband (wife)? But all the possibilities really lie within you, you just have to try.

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Erotic horoscope

Woman

The Cancer woman is extremely erotic and uncontrollably strives for sensual pleasure. But, oddly enough, she behaves coldly and unapproachably with men. It seems to her that her lust is a weakness that a man sees, and she does not want to admit any of her weaknesses. She spends a lot of effort to look strong and independent. But she is easily excitable, passion takes over her and she tries to hide it, which sometimes leads her to rudeness. After intimacy, she tries not to meet with her partner again, and if this is impossible, she becomes capricious and irritable with him. But if she comes across a tactful and patient man who is able, without thinking about himself, to take care of the complete satisfaction of her desires, she receives considerable pleasure from intimacy. One has only to note that there are not many men capable of such sacrifice.

Man

Behind him stretches a long trail of offended and abandoned women. But this does not evoke a feeling of compassion in him, since he is little predisposed to it. He is distinguished by selfishness, flavored with a fair amount of snobbery and self-confidence. More experienced women avoid him. But he is able to turn the heads of young girls, but abandons them as soon as they tire of him. Although he is erotic, in bed he cares only about his own satisfaction, and sometimes behaves offensively and cynically. Only partners prone to masochism get real pleasure from contacts with him. She subordinates her entire sex life to taking care of her own health. Marriage is considered an attack on personal freedom. He is not created for marriage, because he strives to suppress everyone around him. His wife is an unhappy, downtrodden creature. But there are exceptions, when an even more powerful and tough woman takes him into her hands.

Professions

In his youth, Cancer is in no hurry to become an adult. The world is limited by the basic needs of life: hunger, thirst, sleep. They wait for fate to decide for them what to do. Many follow in the footsteps of their fathers, engaging in the family craft, but open protest can lead to the choice of a profession opposite to the family occupation. Lunar type - slow, lethargic, lethargic, apathetic, best manifested in routine work that requires a minimum of mental effort.

Slow to start, but persistent, conscientious, obedient. Being busy with work, he knows how to make it easier for himself and others. This type works better in an intimate, family-type environment, where he sympathizes with others. He often allows himself to be underestimated, exploited, and received less than he deserves. He doesn't have the "nerves" to ask for a raise.

The nervous type (Saturn influence) can abuse familiarity, but cannot give or receive orders, move from job to job, oscillating between bursts of enthusiasm and extreme irritation.

Both types are potentially good in work related to children, animals, food, clothing, water and liquids in general. They make good specialists in breeding horses, dogs, staff of kindergartens, zoos, circuses, child psychologists, obstetricians, nannies, owners and managers of bars, pubs, restaurants, shops, navigators, gardeners, foresters, watchmakers.

Love

Cancer is the most sensitive and emotionally vulnerable of all 12 signs. Can live the richest and most painful life. His success as an individual depends on whether he is able to destroy the problem of his relationship with his mother, so as not to remain dependent on her.

Often rejects the physiological aspect of love. Therefore, this sign is easier for women who solve the problem of relationships with their mother by becoming mothers themselves. Many are unable to break with their family and remain spinsters or companions of their parents.

In their youth, Cancers are romantics, dreaming of ideal love. They are quiet, deep water. Imagination is ahead of life experience. When realizing their first passion, their sensitivity and depth of feelings make them magnificent, gentle lovers.

But from every sexual relationship they expect exceptional love, understanding, amazing, supportive, and in return they will give themselves entirely and surround their partner with tenderness.

These romantics can be tyrants, possessive, they are usually the first to feel the blow from disappointment and flee from a hostile world, if possible, to their mother, or seek salvation alone.

Cancer men can be peaceful, calm and simple, and their love is faithful and unshakable. These people make devoted husbands and fathers who live only for their family. Others can be capricious, tormented by mysteries for themselves, sophisticated and ambiguous. This type wanders from woman to woman in search of his ideal or falls into a fatal irresponsible feeling. He may even commit suicide or the object of his love. Some find a woman more experienced and older than themselves, who knows how to identify their potential, mainly lyrical and philosophical. She does this through support and pacification, and then the return of Cancer is very great.

Women are also divided into two types: charming, affectionate, too shy, sometimes frigid, a little cocky with childish outbursts of irritation, and women trying to put themselves on a pedestal and instill a feeling of unattainability of love. The first type can voluntarily bring themselves to the point where they become a real sex object, humble to the point of slavery, overestimating a man, looking for an ideal father, a “mother hen” in him; they sometimes overprotect their children.

Both men and women tend to subordinate themselves entirely to their partner. They are ideal if they feel loved, and they are the hardest if they do not feel love, while themselves living a difficult, painful life.

Cancer is the only sign that can find mutual understanding with everyone, but finds special happiness with Scorpio, Virgo, Capricorn, and Pisces.

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Health

Vulnerable places: stomach, liver, bladder, intestines, organs associated with processing food and removing them from the body.

These people are prone to obesity, low blood pressure, they should avoid constipation, which poisons the body and leads to depression, during a full moon they should avoid sleeping too long, and should not drink a lot of fluids, including soft drinks and water.

Many Cancer diseases are psychosomatic (due to periods of depression). Here you need to change your life habits, food, sleep, and not doctors.

Parents of a Cancer child should not punish him by locking him in a dark room, should make sure that he does not sleep long during adolescence, and should not drink too many drinks during puberty. Cancer at any age should not eat hastily.

Cancer women often have painful menstrual periods with migraines and cramps, but they have the easiest births. They are worse affected by abortion than women of other signs.

Both men and women are susceptible to stomach ulcers and have hypochondriacal tendencies: they should strive for full employment so as not to indulge their own weaknesses.

Preventive measures: diet, warm baths, regular sleep, proper rest. Certain nervous depressions can be cured by the careful use of hypnosis or magnetism.

Gastronomic horoscope

A sign of high suspiciousness and an amazing ability to reach for food, especially that which is so harmful to them. Therefore, CANCER needs discipline and a strict diet. Suspiciousness and a tender crustacean stomach do not allow him to eat hot, spicy food.

Recommendations. Avoid foods that cause fermentation or a burning sensation in the stomach. Be careful when consuming raw vegetables and sour fruits. You should not drink sweet tea or chilled lemonade immediately after eating. Be extremely careful when eating crayfish, crabs, and shellfish - allergies are quite possible. CANCERs benefit from delicate varieties of fish, cereals, non-acidic boiled vegetables, and mineral water.

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Your stones

EMERALD

Color: bright green, grass green, dark green.

The mineral is a transparent variety of the mineral beryl, a silicate of beryllium and aluminum.

Properties of the stone. Has positive energy and improves mood. It brings happiness to a person with pure karma, who has come to know himself and achieved spiritual perfection. However, it does not bring good luck to smart and educated people whose consciousness is not whole. Emerald can bring misfortune and illness to deceitful people. If you look at an emerald for a long time, you can comprehend the future and reveal secrets. Worn around the neck, it strengthens memory and sharpens vision. It protects young people from debauchery and is also an enemy of sensual love. Astrologers recommend that any person wear stones mined in his homeland, because... Emeralds have the ability to energetically get used to certain regions.

From the history of stone. Known and valued since ancient times, it is used for inserts into the most expensive jewelry. The Russian name comes from the Persian "zummurud". The stone is mentioned in the Bible among other stones on the breastplate of the Jewish high priests. During the conquest of the New World, an emerald approximately the size of an ostrich egg was kept in one of the Indian temples on the territory of modern Peru; apparently its mass was about 3 kg. The stone was considered an object of worship to the goddess Umina. The stone was hidden by the priests and has not been found to this day. Since ancient times, emerald has been credited with healing properties. For example, Avicenna treated eye diseases, indigestion and black cough with them. It was also believed that emerald is the most powerful antidote. In different centuries they were used to treat fever, leprosy, epilepsy, ulcers, and insomnia.

Quite a few large emeralds are known to have been preserved in their original form, but most still prefer to be sawed and cut for insertion into jewelry. The largest of the unprocessed emeralds is considered to be a stone found in 1970 in Ukraine and called “Jubilee Lenin”. Its weight was 26,800 carats and until 1990 it was kept in the mine museum. The emerald called “Stolen” has an interesting fate. It was found in North Carolina in 1881 and weighed 1,270 carats. This emerald was stolen from the Smithsonian Institution and, according to experts, is now in some private collection.

CAT'S EYE

Color - has a greenish iridescence or a light stripe that changes its position when the stone is turned. This optical effect is very similar to the iris of a cat's eye.

The mineral is a precious variety of chrysoberyl or a greenish variety of quartz with the inclusion of asbestos fibers, which is an ornamental stone.

Zodiac sign: Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio.

Properties of the stone. Stabilizes human health and spirit, prevents foreign influences and helps strengthen the family.

From the history of stone. Stones with such light phenomena have always been considered magical and were used to make amulets and amulets. The largest cat's eye weighing 313.2 carats is kept in the Tower of London. The yellow cat's eye, called Hope's chrysoberyl, weighs 45 carats and is on display in the British Museum. Of the gems, the most famous are kept in the Smithsonian Institution in Washington. For example, a gray-green stone from Sri Lanka weighs 1,715 carats, and a yellow-green stone from Brazil weighs 114.3 carats.

MOON STONE

The color is transparent, with a pale blue iridescence.

The mineral is a variety of adularia, partly albite or oligoclase.

Correspondence to the zodiac sign - Cancer.

Properties of the stone. The stone brings good luck only to those born on a new moon, as well as to cold, balanced people. Helps awaken tender feelings, allows you to foresee the future if you hold the stone in your mouth during the full moon. The stone is able to relieve nervous tension, eliminates anger and excessive self-confidence. Contraindicated for choleric and melancholic people.

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CANCER (22.06-22.07) - ZODIAC SIGN

CHARACTERISTICS OF THE ZODIAC SIGN CANCER

Cancers have a very contagious laugh. He can be the funniest person at any party. If he doesn't joke himself, he laughs at the jokes of others. Nobody loves jokes more than them. This cheerful side of him is even more striking against the background of his generally calm character. His humor is deep. Cancers usually don't chase popularity. But they need it and at the same time it gives them great pleasure. Secretly, they seek attention. At the same time, Cancers do not strive for fame obsessively; they do not strive for anything obsessively. But along with a good mood, Cancers suffer from severe melancholy. They can drown you in their depression deeper than the ocean. Their fears are usually well covered with humor, but they are always present in them, haunting them day and night with a feeling of some kind of danger.

Pessimism is always near them and can spoil their various fantasies at any moment. Their tears are never crocodile tears, they truly come from the depths of their hearts. Even a glance can hurt them. It can be very difficult to find out the reason for their bad mood, because when they are offended by something, they plunge into reproachful silence. Sometimes Cancers can take revenge, like Scorpio, but they usually do it secretly. But most often they just crawl into their shell and sit there. A state of sadness and uncertainty makes them strive for loneliness, like real crayfish. Their feelings are so strong that they can spread to you and influence you quite strongly.

Cancers always take into account all life lessons. They are usually very patriotic. These are people who can keep many secrets, they know how to sympathize with people. But it will be difficult for you to penetrate his thoughts, because... They carefully hide their feelings from prying eyes. A typical Cancer does not like to discuss their life.

Like real Cancers, they stick tightly to what they want to achieve, this can apply to everything from a loved one to house slippers. In this case, his actions will also not be direct, like those of crayfish, but only to the side and back, and then suddenly they can go in the completely opposite direction. At the same time, they carefully watch their prey and, when it begins to retreat, the Cancers quickly begin to move forward and overtake what they want. Cancer only moves forward when he notices that someone else wants to achieve what he wants, this also applies to his generosity. His heart is very soft, you can touch him. But he will help you cautiously, waiting for someone else to help you. Seeing that no one is helping you, he will come to your aid at the last minute; if you are drowning, he will let you go under water a couple of times before he starts rescuing you. But this is his instinct of self-preservation, not selfishness. Thus, he cannot be accused of impulsiveness. He always carefully calculates his actions.

Cancers love their home very much and treat it with great respect. They never truly feel safe. And they always need more than they have - love, money, fame, etc. His emotions do not allow him to be confident enough in himself and completely relax.

Cancers love water very much - they bathe, swim, water ski, and boat.

His constant worry can lead to illness. A rich imagination can turn the smallest illness into a serious and even chronic one. His most vulnerable places for the disease are the chest area, knees, kidneys and skin, as well as the head and stomach and other digestive organs. A good mood and optimism can save them from illness. No other sign is susceptible to illness from their own emotions, but no other can recover so miraculously from their own mood.

Cancers love to save money, they also love food supplies, and never allow leftovers from dinner to be thrown away. Whatever is put on your plate, you must eat. Both sexes have a highly developed parental instinct.

ZODIAC SIGN CANCER-MAN

CHARACTERISTICS OF THE ZODIAC SIGN

zodiac signs, cancer zodiac sign, cancer zodiac sign men, cancer zodiac sign woman Don't expect this man to bare his soul when he first meets you. He never trusts strangers. It will take a lot of time and patience to truly get to know him. He can, of course, flirt, but he will be faithful. Without warning, his gloomy face can light up with a smile. His usual complaints and unpleasant manners may gradually turn into tenderness. When he is sad, you want to hug him and dispel his melancholy. His caution will amaze you. He can be very attentive to you and there is no doubt that he is a romantic dreamer. However, he is very reasonable and practical. What to do with such a man? Try to understand him. This is not just a changeable personality, these are changes associated with the right phrases. Today is one thing, tomorrow is another. And between these moods, he can show his true nature.

Always remember that a Cancer's manner may be rude or aloof, but his heart is so light and caring and so filled with sentiment that he sometimes feels like a very vulnerable person. Sometimes he crawls into the shell he carries inside himself to escape his own emotions for a while. At such moments he may seem like a real cancer to you, and you don’t always like that. But as soon as he comes out into the sunlight again, you can get close to him again. Unfortunately, the Cancer man from time to time spreads his bad mood around so much that it can affect you and everything around him. But there are times when he can be cheerful and cheerful, like an orangutan. And it’s not surprising that you don’t know what to do with it: either give it a cold shower, or warm it with a warm blanket. These changes in Cancer can surprise anyone. His mood can be especially terrible when he is afraid of losing something, perhaps you. Convince that you belong to him a hundred times a day, words of love are music to his ears. He may sometimes seem simply abnormal.

As a rule, Cancers earn good money. I'm glad I brought up the issue of money, you will also be glad to be with such a person. You may have all sorts of difficulties with money, but if you live with Cancer, such difficulties will be least likely. Therefore, your wedding is not as bad as it might seem. Finance has attracted him since childhood. And saving money attracts him more than spending it. He cannot be called greedy, but let's put it this way - he will never light his pipe with a dollar bill.

His sense of humor never extends to money. And it's quite possible that he learned to add and subtract before he learned the alphabet. Don't be surprised if you find that he has a bank account that dates back to when he was a child and hasn't been touched since then. The shine of silver and the rustle of banknotes calms his nerves. But Cancers very rarely save money to invest in something. They save to feel safe. And very often they underestimate their financial capabilities. They play the role of a poor man who somehow makes ends meet. And you may even feel sorry for him and offer to lend him money. Don't do this, he probably has more of them than you.

Cancer may sometimes have extravagant desires, which he will courageously resist. And if he suddenly starts spending money during such periods, it will never become his habit. In addition, you should know that he has a very original approach to saving. He would rather take you to a fancy restaurant to get your money's worth than insult his taste with a second-rate meal. He also believes that it is stupid to spend money on a cheap coat, when a chinchilla fur coat will look better and serve you longer: in a word, quality and pleasure are synonymous for him. Even the most poetic and dreamy Cancers associated with music or other forms of art do not have a very keen sense of money.

If you have a true Cancer, he will not wear sportswear (he is not attracted to it), he prefers conservative cuts and good tailoring. And even if he has little money, his shoes will sparkle and his socks will be clean.

It’s good if his mother’s tastes coincide with yours, because... it will be mentioned very often in conversations and remarks like: “My mother never had such makeup, although she is a very beautiful woman. Don’t you think, dear, that your eyelashes are too made up?” or "You made frozen chicken. And my mother even baked her own bread." And these embodied virtues of his mother will often interfere in many situations, even when you least expect it. For example: “Darling, we will have to postpone the date, I need to take my mother to the dacha.” To put it mildly, the Cancer man is very reluctant to dethrone his mother and put the crown on you.

Cancer is terribly homebound. And if his mother’s house is cozy, Cancer will not be in a hurry to leave it. The typical Cancer is very close to his mother. And there is no need to hide this fact. If you fall in love with a Cancer, then on the one hand you will have to put his mother on a pedestal, and on the other hand, you remember that you are her rival and you must constantly gain the upper hand over her. It is not very easy to praise a person and at the same time compete with him. But this is the only strategy you should choose. Make sure that she does not surpass you in household and culinary matters. Let her teach you how to bake a lemon pie; your husband will even love the scene itself. And then cook your own delicious beef stroganoff. Don't forget to feed your Cancer well and take care of him when he's sick. This will remind you of his beloved mother. All this can turn him into a good husband. He will never admit it, but remember that he loves to remain a child and be caressed by a woman.

There are several circumstances that will even the score in your relationship. For example, he himself may be a very good cook. He may surprise you with his ability to cook great meat. In addition, he likes to collect interesting things such as records and rare things. You will be absolutely safe when you come to his house for the first time. He is as gallant with women as anyone else. This is because men behaved this way back in grandma’s time, and he loves antiquity so much. Ask him about his family, and he is happy to talk about this topic. He loves all old things and loves taking photographs. So don't be surprised if he wants to take a photo of you, it's his hobby.

Although Cancer can easily flirt, it takes a lot of time for him to have a serious feeling, because... It is not easy for him to find a woman who meets his ideal. Finally, having found such a woman, he will be surprisingly sentimental and can shower her with gifts and his admiration. His standards are high. And not every woman lives up to them. Most Cancers are afraid of unsuccessful marriages, and not without reason. An unsuitable union can become a drama for them. When something separates them from their partner, it torments them terribly for many years. Therefore, by virtue of his nature, he does not want to marry thoughtlessly. But if he has decided to get married, you cannot convince him, you cannot turn him off the road. Cancer can perfectly play the role of a romantic lover. After declaring your love, you will see that you are being courted by a serious and determined person who will achieve his goal. It is very difficult to escape from its claws. Or you may not want to do this.

Cancer is a wonderful father due to his gentle, understanding nature. He is infinitely patient with children and is sincerely interested in their affairs. He is proud of his sons and fiercely protective of his daughters. But when the children grow up, difficulties may arise, because... he would want his children to be attached to him forever and be with him forever.

To get him to propose to you faster, pretend that someone else has proposed to you. And your Cancer will stop moving back. The easiest way to achieve him is to work on his emotions, which are always hidden behind his mind. Music, poetry, flowers, good perfume, gentle words and affection - these are the weapons with which you can defeat him. And also do not forget that there is a direct connection between his heart and stomach. You need to show yourself as a good housewife and try to treat him like a child. Put an antique bracelet on yourself - it will definitely have an effect on him, because... he loves all sorts of antiques. And one day he will ask you to meet his mother. Consider that the proposal has been made and you have won his heart. You can sail with him in the moonlight. I remind you once again, do not throw away his old hat, torn slippers, school collections - these are all his treasures. Take your umbrella on what may be wet nights and protect it from the rain.

Now can I ask you, do you like your new chinchilla fur coat? I think I like it. And in general, a woman likes everything when she is loved. You are truly loved.

ZODIAC SIGN CANCER WOMAN

CHARACTERISTICS OF THE ZODIAC SIGN

zodiac signs, Cancer zodiac sign, Cancer men zodiac sign, Cancer woman zodiac sign At first, you will have a hard time determining whether she is sensitive and gentle, or just wild. This question will remain unanswerable for you until the end. She will be gloomy at times and her sad mood will rub off on you. At times she will burst into laughter and envelop you with her tenderness. The Cancer woman is sometimes a little crazy, sometimes a little sad, and at the same time has a rich imagination. She has a good ability to save money. Naturally, you won't be able to look under her mattress until you marry her. Modesty is one of her traits. She always has money put aside. She may start spending it when she feels unhappy, but her income will always be higher than her expenses. She may be interested in your personal account, because... she is always interested in money; it is her favorite topic of conversation. She won't throw you away if you don't have money yet but are trying to earn it. And she will help you get them and at the same time you will be free to spend them. But don't go too far. Otherwise, she will feel that your mutual well-being is slipping away.

When you give such a woman an expensive gift, and she says that you shouldn’t have done it, she really isn’t pretending. To somehow take her thoughts away from bills, income, expenses, take her to the seashore for a walk in the moonlight. Here you will see her with all her charm. The moon will reveal all her secret dreams, and the proximity of the sea will bring her relaxation. It is possible that during this hour you will see all her emotions that you like, try to develop them.

She will have two approaches to you: soft, feminine, timid, modest, and the second - where she will use all the well-known tricks of Eve, for example, desperate coquetry. You will like this if you are in love, but if you are just friends, then her activity and excessive flirtatiousness can only irritate you. This type of Cancer woman poses a serious danger to true love and a good family. There are many men who left their families for this clinging Cancer. Fortunately, such Cancers are in the minority. They can cause a lot of trouble for other women.

She doesn't like to be criticized. It hurts her a lot if she looks funny, she just can't stand it when she is abandoned. A Cancer woman is rarely openly aggressive. The typical Cancer woman hesitates all the time, so you need to make the first move to continue the relationship. If she moves forward, it is either sideways or sideways. Timid by nature and gripped by the fear of not being accepted, she prefers to be an echo of a man.

Be kind to her mother. A mother is a woman who should not be offended in any way. But her sense of humor does not extend to her mother-in-law's jokes towards her. Never read her diaries, because... Cancer loves to have secrets and secrets. She doesn’t like to confess herself, but she will listen to your confession.

Her constant fears may bother you: she is afraid that she is not beautiful enough, not young enough, not graceful enough... And it doesn’t matter that her figure is like the Venus de Milo, her mind is like Aristotle, she still won’t feel confident. Convince her that she is young, beautiful, smart and she will become yours. And you should say this 20 times a day, it’s never enough for her.

Her mood will change on average 4 times a month in accordance with the vases of the Moon, plus also 2 times a day in accordance with the tides. It is very difficult to predict her mood. This may create an allure and mystery around such a woman, but it won't be easy for you.

The typical Cancer woman is an excellent cook. She won't serve you canned or frozen vegetables for lunch. The kitchen is her favorite room. She will hover over you like a hen, and you will like it, because... Most men like it.

To all her fears, you can add one more - she is afraid that you do not love her enough. But a man can easily prove this, so prove it to her as often as possible.

After you have conquered her, she will not leave you behind as long as she is alive. And this is not bad, because there are men who like this kind of affection, they will never lack food or expressions of her love. It is very cruel to play with the heart of such a woman, because... she will obey you and love you with sincere tenderness. Why rekindle love if you have no serious intentions? You can start flirting with her, but it will be very difficult for you to end the relationship with her. She doesn't take hints. There is nothing artificial or petty about her feelings. If she already possesses something: a man or a cup, then they should be her property forever. She may not make a good impression on your friends, but she will definitely impress you with her cuteness. She prefers to leave her deepest emotions for those closest to her. And after her, when you meet other women and compare them, perhaps you will run back to your Cancer and beg her to cling to you tightly again.

The most difficult aspect of dating her is keeping her from crawling into her shell. Her emotions are so sensitive and tender that the slightest remark can hurt her greatly. And it is very difficult to predict what she might be offended by. A Cancer woman may cry a lot, so make sure you always have a handkerchief ready. She won't necessarily be greedy. But she has a habit of collecting unnecessary things. She will rarely throw away a piece of rope, an old pattern, her husband... And who are you to say that she won’t find a use for these things later?! Don't ask her how she will use one shoe. She's using it! This is not the kind of woman who would like a man who burned a hole in the bedspread. Everything has sentimental value to her. All the things she possesses are her treasures. She guards them jealously. This, of course, does not exclude you. She is not so much jealous as she is possessive. And these are different things.

The Cancer woman feels that she herself cannot change anything in life or overcome any difficulties. When an unfavorable moment in life begins for her, she may shed tears, but her natural reaction will be to fold her hands and wait patiently for everything to calm down. Patience is one of the most pleasant qualities of Cancer. However, when she is in a state of depression, you should try to get her out of this state before it goes too far. Sometimes she likes to be treated like a child. The desire to be a little spoiled by her beloved is her secret and deep desire. She really needs to be convinced and know that you cannot live without her. And sometimes she will do everything possible to pity you and to make your patronizing instincts speak to you. But don’t let yourself be “fooled” by her weakness at such moments. This is a defenseless little child who is waiting for your protection from this cruel world; he can handle everything perfectly well on his own if he takes care. After another quarrel, when she looks at you with wet, frightened eyes, remember, as soon as you leave, turn the corner, she will quickly wipe her eyes, put the record on the player and start tidying up the closet. Of course, you can't pinpoint when her depressions are real and when she just wants your sympathy, and in those moments you're better off staying with her and listening to the record together.

This woman is capable of heroic deeds and sacrifices for the sake of the one she loves. The courage that she lacks for herself is fully manifested in those close to her who need her strength. She will never betray you when you are in a difficult situation, at such moments she can remind you of a solid rock. She is also strong with children and is a refuge for you. They will have a good understanding. You may experience some loss of focus once children arrive. Motherhood is very important for Cancer. There will be room for you, but you will have to move a little.

Her main character trait is unshakable possessiveness, but not aggressive. She is deeply convinced that no matter how far you move away from her, you will always return to her and she will wait for you patiently. Who is she: a fragile, gentle woman or persistent and hardy? But the answer isn't that important, is it?

Cancer men combine such good qualities as calmness, goodwill, politeness, and compliance. show sentimentality, show tenderness. In turn, the Moon - the patroness of this zodiac sign - adds a certain changeability to the character of Cancer men. And in this regard, in a short time, all such friendliness can develop into harshness and irritability.

Cancer men tend to exaggerate the size of life's difficulties. They have a rich imagination, which can contribute to the fact that Cancer perceives the surrounding reality in a completely different way than other people. In addition, they are too vulnerable, so even a small problem can unsettle them for a long time.

Cancer men in love

The love horoscope for today says that it is difficult for Cancers to build relationships, because they need to know that they will not harm their other half with a careless action or word. If Cancer feels respect and love from a woman, then he himself will be able to show his feelings. It is the first love that leaves a deep imprint in the soul of a Cancer man. Cancers in relationships are amorous and at the same time constant. They will never cheat on their beloved girlfriend. Cancers believe that women are on a lower level than men. This is what dictates many features in relationships.

The compatibility horoscope indicates that in a relationship Cancer needs not so much passion and sex as tenderness. He constantly demands attention. Men whose zodiac sign is Cancer are too attached to their parents' home. This greatly influences their decision to get married.

Cancer men and business

For a Cancer man, money means too much. At the same time, such people are quite practical. Cancers most often do not have any problems with making money, because representatives of this sign are considered excellent specialists in their field. Cancers do not like to spend money, but at the same time they cannot afford to buy cheap things. Even with an excellent financial situation, Cancers do not strive to demonstrate the availability of funds to everyone. On the contrary, they want to appear poor to the people around them.

Cancer men with children and family

Cancers make the decision to get married with great difficulty. But if this works out, then they will demand too much from their spouse. And the first thing a Cancer woman should remember is the need to submit to her spouse. The Cancer man should feel like the head of the family. The spouse should always be nearby, take care of Cancer, clean, pamper with delicious dishes, and also listen to the spouse’s complaints and cherish him. The Cancer man is quite attached to children and is considered a gentle, patient and caring father. Even important successes of a child can cause a huge sense of pride in Cancer.

Such people strive to keep their children close to them and not let them go anywhere. This is mainly due to the fact that Cancers themselves are too attached to their parental home.

Sweet, sentimental, sensitive, artistic and vulnerable, they can even be terribly funny and terribly temperamental. But no one knows what demons actually lurk behind that armor, behind which representatives of this sign few people are allowed. So, today it’s the turn of the incredibly mysterious Cancers and their...

"I'm not greedy, I'm homely"

Have you ever tried to force Cancer to fork out for something that he categorically does not want to purchase? Don't even try, you'll waste your time and nerves. If he has gotten it into his head that he can do without something, he will not give a penny for it, although he considers himself not greedy, but thrifty. Here's a pun: Cancer is zealous, and if you try to put pressure on him, he also becomes snarling.

Representatives of this sign prefer to earn money and put money in a pile, and more often in a jar (three-liter, from cucumbers) than in a bank, because they trust themselves more than the deposit. And they guard their “gold and silver” more closely than a dragon: anyone who encroaches is immediately bitten off the head and other strategically important parts of the body. Because there is no point in reaching out for something that was obtained with blood and sweat.

“Don’t interfere, he’ll kill you!”, or “My home is my fortress”

Before their crime, robbers should not only study the location of the rooms and the type of alarm, but also be interested in the zodiac affiliation of the owner. If he is a representative of the sign we are describing, then a lot of unpleasant surprises await the thieves. It is the kind and sensitive Cancers who do not shun dirty tricks in order to protect their home and property. It is quite in their nature to fence off a summer cottage with barbed wire and run a current through it, or come up with something else in the same spirit. They have a rich imagination.

And for ordinary citizens, getting to visit Cancer is not so easy. He believes that only those whom he trusts unconditionally can have access to his house, so he prefers to talk even with his neighbors through an armored door, closed with a hundred locks and a chain. And he reacts to attempts to sneak into his fortress, if not with obscenities and calling the police, then with an icy polite rebuke, after which he no longer wants to ask for salt or offer a birthday cake on the occasion of his own birthday.

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"One step forward and two steps back"

You can't cook porridge quickly with Cancers. Their hypertrophied caution extends not only to housing, but also to the conduct of business, especially when they are not sure of obtaining a 100% positive result. The ritual dances of representatives of this sign before the start of any action can lead to white heat, and negotiations with them can lead to nervous itching, because until they double-check everything a thousand times and are convinced of the safety and profitability of a particular project, they They deftly drag their feet, give no answer and constantly retreat to pre-prepared positions. And you yourself feel like a fool, because it is simply unrealistic to foresee all the “crawfish” twists and possible claims associated with a hypothetical risk.

“I take revenge, and my revenge is terrible”

It is strictly not recommended to offend Cancers. They, no matter what gender they are and no matter what impression they make, are not a tremulous young lady who will cry and forget. Oh no! They will plan for a long time and tastefully the destruction of the offender and then poke them into the most unprotected place: representatives of this sign are great experts on sensitive points and will immediately cut off situations in which revenge will be the most delicious and destructive. They never forgive anyone anything.

Cancer can lie low, wait a few years and strike the sickest person when the offender has already forgotten that he once short-sightedly stood in someone’s way or made him suffer. By the way, having a craving for esotericism, representatives of this sign are quite capable of making voodoo dolls and poking them with needles.

"Rarely, but accurately"

In general, Cancers try not to shock the public, they carefully protect their reputation, and it seems that these are the most prudent people in the world. However, in reality, deep down in their souls, they constantly want to create something extraordinary in order to spoil their impeccable reputation and plunge others into culture shock. Therefore, sometimes representatives of this sign allow themselves to show off, to throw out something that does not fit in with their image and completely shatters our ideas about their restraint and integrity.

They sometimes get “drooling” drunk at very important events, dance on tables, make jokes that make well-mannered people’s hair stand on end and their cheeks turn red, in general, they let themselves go and do whatever they want. True, they then become embarrassed, hide their eyes and regret their “moment of weakness” for a long time, but they will not refuse to repeat it if necessary.

Pessimism as a life credo

Cancers always expect the worst, even if at the moment everything in their life is as wonderful as possible. A priori, wanting peace, they prepare for war, save money for a rainy day, do not believe in a bright future and do not make too long-term plans. They see everything as the “beginning of the end”; they often give examples from history, which, as usual, is cyclical, so the expression “A shell does not fall into the same shell twice” is clearly not their philosophy.

Representatives of this sign are confident that everything bad that can happen will definitely happen. True, in fairness, it should be noted that the most powerful of them know how to cope with their fears, they simply kill them, doing something that once and for all weanes off fear and looking into the future with nervous alertness.

Like a bath leaf...

If the cautious Cancer has accepted someone with his heart and let him into his life, then it is almost impossible to get rid of him. He will follow your tail, get into your family, begin to consider your relatives as his own and interfere in all your affairs (with good intentions, of course, but it is so annoying). And his endless complaints about everything, his decadent mood and gloomy prophecies like “Don’t do this, otherwise punishment will fall from all sides at once”... Just cruel! It is with strangers that representatives of this sign are nice, tactful, smiling and aloof, but with those who are lucky (or unlucky) to become one of them, they do not stand on ceremony. Why be ashamed? You are already a close person, which means you have all the advantages of Cancer, and his shortcomings, and his demons, of course, where would you be without them.

Planet - Moon
Metal - silver
White color
Stone - ruby
Number - 2
Day - Monday
Virtue is imagination
Disadvantage - lack of composure

The Cancer man attracted you already during the first meeting. You probably noticed his more boyish than masculine charm. Being in his company, you intuitively felt that this man was actually a defenseless child who needed maternal care, support and tenderness from his partner.

And indeed, a woman will be his hope and support in all troubles. Naturally, he will never admit this out loud, but will pretend that he doesn’t need anyone, he “feels good as it is.” He is simply trying to somehow hide the unsatisfied need for female love and affection. Therefore, when you hear how wonderfully he copes with everything, how he manages to overcome numerous hardships in life, don’t believe it. You should know: deep down, Cancer suffers deeply if there is no one next to him who could come to his aid at any moment and stand guard over his safety. He remains a child all his life, he always needs care.

Among the fair sex, he is trying to find the one who would become his loving and tender mother. Adventures and novels that end quickly and do not lead to a strong connection are not for him. He needs a partner who can share his sorrows and joys with him, read his innermost thoughts, and not leave him unattended for a minute.

He is an eternal dreamer and romantic and wants to live his life with a woman who is ready to tirelessly listen to how he imagines the future, fantasize with him and make plans that are not always real. In his mind, she will be just as enthusiastic, holding his hand, putting forward her own ideas, and their thoughts will merge. He believes, and quite sincerely, that his chosen one will want to give him all of herself without reserve, will not only appreciate his undoubted merits, but will also come to terms with his shortcomings.

And if you really want to win his heart, let him understand clearly: you trust him infinitely, he is the most important person in your life. In response, he will open his heart to you and will no longer hide anything. You should not hurt his feelings - after all, there is always a dormant fear in him that he will be misunderstood, that he will turn out to be unnecessary. He is afraid to let strangers into his imaginary world - a fantasy world in which he lives, playing the role of a fictional person. If he believes you, you will receive an unusual reward: you will be allowed to enter his world of “A Thousand and One Nights”, where your lover at the same time a sultan and a slave, a genie and a gentle lover. Both of you will fully enjoy the atmosphere of warmth and love, and what could be more desirable in the union of two hearts...

If you need a lifelong partner who values ​​spiritual connection and family well-being most of all in marriage, then Cancer is ideal - he is simply created to be a faithful husband and a good father.

If you are looking for stormy experiences, passionate feelings, feel the need for emotional stability and at the same time expect surprises from your partner, then, unfortunately, you are on the wrong path. Heartache over love problems and strong feelings are not for him. Cancer can be compared rather to a stream of water, slowly flowing along its bed and only sometimes falling like a stormy waterfall... Gusts of passion are good for him from time to time, he will not withstand prolonged tension, a constant storm of feelings. All his emotions seem to be slightly muted, so only that woman who likes the world of children's fantasies and fun, a house filled with children's laughter and the smiles of parents, will appreciate him. If you, like him, love peace and strive for a measured family life with an understanding and friendly partner, you will not find a better chosen one.

Cancer is delicate in nature, but overly impressionable, which one day can become a very serious problem for you. Leading a calm and measured life, you suddenly want more intense sensations than those that your partner will give you. In this case, some cooling in your relationship is possible. Things that you simply didn’t pay attention to before will start to irritate you. You will understand that he was and remains a child, very attached to his parents. You will be faced with the eternal problem of daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, and your husband is not able to choose which of the two “mothers” to please. He will begin to maneuver between you, which will only complicate the situation.

He is very susceptible to the influence of others and considers the arguments that he hears at the moment to be correct, and this simply leads to paradoxical situations!

Your chosen one is characterized by variability, and he behaves like a real cancer: he takes a few steps forward, and then suddenly begins to move back. You can never predict his reaction even to seemingly simple and natural actions.

Cancer is very vulnerable, and every new nuance in your behavior can be regarded as a stone thrown at it. Constant self-control, the need to adapt to his rapidly changing mood will begin to weigh on you. In addition, you will gradually become a hostage to his feelings: from the first minute of your intimacy, he will count you among the members of his family, and he takes her very seriously. You should know: he does not like to share his woman with anyone and is very jealous.

He will become a father who madly loves his children and will try to isolate them from what he considers to be the bad influence of the environment. He will treat you in the same way, subconsciously trying to limit the scope of your communication, since it seems to him that any of your contacts with the world threaten your family well-being. If we are talking about familiar men, then if you behave correctly, it is not difficult to avoid conflict. It's worse if your partner starts interfering in your relationships with your friends. He may, for example, wonder how you tell your closest friend things that concern only your family; She may be offended if she hears you asking her for advice. You'll see, he will say about this: there are women who only know how to advise others, but in their own lives everything is upside down. After all, according to Cancer, a woman who has not found a husband or brought the matter to a divorce cannot give anything smart advice! And then what can we say about you if you are friends with such persons?

So gradually he isolates you from your usual social circle. At the same time, he will use irony, ridicule, caustic remarks, or, on the contrary, will begin to indulge in sentimental memories: how good you were with each other, but your friend is more important to you... Not wanting to aggravate the conflict, you yourself will begin to limit contacts with loved ones people to you. For the sake of holy peace, you will refuse to meet with your classmates, you will stop calling your friend, citing lack of time, you will cut off her outpourings: “It’s not for me to solve your problems.” When will you become suspicious of your neighbor inviting you for coffee, wondering why she needs it - maybe she wants you to not have time to prepare dinner in time? - know: you let your partner entangle you.

Perhaps, however, everything will look different: you will stomp your foot and declare that your friends in no way threaten your happiness. Then he will feel offended and will be even more jealous. This is his nature - he has a very strong need to feel safe, and he sees a threat to this in everything surrounding him and you.

Don’t be afraid that you won’t be able to cope with all this, just try to be sober and reasonable. Don’t give up your habits and requests, but also accept your Cancer for who he is. Remember: this is a big child who needs care, tenderness and support. If you manage to give him this, in return you will receive the warmth of a family hearth, and isn’t that what you’ve been dreaming about all your life?

CANCER - ITS EMOTIONS

What is he like in love?

The woman who has dealt with Cancer at least once in her life knows what real tenderness is. A man born under this sign has all the qualities to make an impressionable woman with a subtle nature happy. Love in his “performance” is a lullaby for a newborn, the chirping of birds on a sunny morning, joy and fun... But at the same time it is also a drowsy reverie, slowly creeping into his soul in order to stay there as long as possible.

When a Cancer gives you his love, it seems that his feelings are those of an innocent child who does not know lies and deception. If he loves, he gives his whole heart, his whole soul. And you shouldn’t persistently look for some hidden motives for his actions - he is absolutely sincere and does not intend to hide anything. He reveals himself from the very beginning and offers exactly what he is able to give.

In a word, if a Cancer man becomes interested in you, he will give you all of himself along with his weaknesses, and this is a considerable credit of trust! He believes that as soon as he exposes all his weaknesses to the object of his adoration, there can be no question of being deceived or offended.

If the woman he loves does not live up to his trust, he will withdraw into himself and will not want to leave his “shell.” He will become secretive and begin to doubt whether he should even reveal his feelings, thoughts and dreams to anyone.

Under no circumstances should Cancer be wounded, although this is easy to do - he does not know how to defend himself at all. He experiences every action, every thoughtless word addressed to him very painfully - some insignificant remark can greatly offend him.

Sometimes you can hear such comparisons: “words hurt like the edge of a knife” or “words are cold and heavy like stones.” You can be sure that Cancer invented them, because only he is capable of experiencing someone’s statements so keenly. None of the representatives of another zodiac sign is distinguished by a predisposition to mental pain and lack of immunity to human evil.

Each manifestation of cynicism, selfishness or cruelty gradually destroys his idea of ​​​​ideal love. After all, he himself is ready for complete dedication, for absolutely selfless love, not demanding anything in return except love. Only such a sublime feeling enriches him spiritually and gives him faith in goodness and the meaning of life.

Most often, unfortunately, in reality everything happens completely differently - for Cancer this is a blow from which it is difficult for him to recover. He withdraws into himself, plunging into a fantasy world where he can dream of ideal love. He will prefer this particular path and will not look for another that could lead to the fulfillment of his dreams, because he is so afraid of being disappointed again!

It is difficult to meet the expectations of your loved one, but even more difficult to understand them. All you have to do, therefore, is accept him as he is and try to give him what he needs. In return, you will receive satisfaction, both physical and moral, because he only dreams of giving you all this.

YOUR FIRST NIGHT

What is he like in intimate relationships?

The erotic expectations of a Cancer man can be said to be simple. For him, the sexual act itself is not as important as the environment in which it occurs.

He values ​​all kinds of caresses, secrets shared in the ear, and tender words much more than intimate intimacy itself. For him, there is nothing more important than a gentle look, a light touch, a fleeting kiss - all this creates the aura he needs. Therefore, under no circumstances should you let him understand that sex is most important to you, otherwise he will think that he is just a tool for you to receive pleasure, and he wants to be this pleasure himself!

If you want to please your lover, you must be inexperienced in matters of love, or at least give that impression. He does not belong to those men who are attracted by undisguised natural passion and temperament. It’s better not to demonstrate your experience and awareness in matters of sex - he may not like it at all...

Continuation

Open character, dreamy nature. Cancer is the most mysterious sign of the zodiac, as they are under the dominance of the Moon, which sharpens its sensitivity and affects its character. The surroundings seem strange and incomprehensible. Cancers are people with a delicate nervous system and well-developed intuition.

The full nature of these people is revealed in the moonlight, which is very suitable for their changeable emotions. Cancer has an infectious laugh. Unless he's joking himself. sometimes he laughs at the jokes of others. His cheerfulness is combined with a generally calm character. Cancers do not openly strive for anything and usually do not chase popularity, although they need it and give them great pleasure. Along with cheerfulness, Cancers suffer from melancholy. You can drown in their depression, like in the ocean. Secret fears haunt Cancers day and night with a feeling of impending danger, no matter how they cover up these fears with humor, uncertainty and pessimism always reign in their souls. Cancers are very sensitive, they can be hurt even by a glance. Their tears are always sincere. Finding out the reason for their bad mood is very easy; when “they are offended by something, they plunge into reproachful silence. Cancers are vengeful, but usually deal with the offender secretly. Only in rare cases, when the offense is very great. Cancer, like Scorpio, can hit the enemy openly, but most often he simply will crawl into his hole and sit there. Melancholy and pessimism make him strive for loneliness. His feelings are so strong that they can spread to you and influence quite strongly. It is no coincidence that most hypnotists were born under this sign. As a rule, they are very patriotic and can keep secrets. This can concern everything from a loved one to house slippers. Their actions will also not be direct. They lull the victim’s vigilance with false maneuvers, just like real crayfish, and, waiting for the moment, they will surely grab the victim. Cancer moves straight towards the goal only when he sees that someone else wants to achieve the same thing as him. This rule also applies to his generosity. Cancer's heart is very soft and can be touched. But he will help you slowly, carefully, expecting that maybe someone else will help you. If you're drowning, he'll let you go underwater a couple of times before rushing in to save you. But this is an instinct of self-preservation, not selfishness. Cancer always calculates all his actions very carefully. He loves his home very much and treats it with great respect. He never feels completely safe anywhere. He always needs more than he has or can achieve, and love, and money, and fame. Cancer loves the water to bathe, swim, water ski and boat. His emotions do not allow him to be confident enough in himself and completely relax, and this constant worry can lead him to illness. And a rich imagination easily turns the smallest ailment into a serious chronic illness. The most vulnerable places for the disease are the chest, knees, kidneys, skin, as well as the head, stomach and other digestive organs. No sign is as susceptible to illness from its own emotions as Cancer, but no other sign can recover so miraculously under the influence of its own mood. Cancers love to save money and are careful with food. They never throw away leftovers from lunch. Whatever is put on your plate, you must eat. Both sexes have Cancer. The parental instinct is highly developed.

Don’t expect this man to bare his soul to you at the first meeting. He never trusts strangers. It will take a lot of time and patience to truly get to know him. His caution will amaze you, and his pessimism will make a depressing impression. He may be very attentive to you, and you will decide that he is a romantic dreamer, but if you look closely, you will see the rationality and practicality of any of his actions. What to do with such a man? Try to understand him. You can’t accuse him of inconstancy, like Gemini, but his mood changes simply because of the changing lunar phases. Today is one thing, tomorrow is another... And in between this he can show his true nature. Remember: Cancer's mannerisms may be rude and aloof, but their hearts are kind and caring. It is so filled with sentiment that he always feels like a vulnerable person. And he rushes into his hole. Usually he is unattractive, and with his pessimism and hyper-caution he can make everyone around him sad. However, there are moments, especially on moonlit nights, when he becomes cheerful and cheerful, like a young orangutan. And then you don’t know what to do with it: either pour cold water on it, or cover it with a warm blanket. But after the flash of gaiety, depression sets in again... He is always afraid of losing something, perhaps... you. Convince him a hundred times a day that you belong to him: words of love are music to his ear. He may even seem a little crazy at times. As a rule, Cancers earn good money. You may have all sorts of difficulties if you live with Cancer, but you most likely will not have to experience financial difficulties. So your fate is not as bad as it might seem. Cancer has been attracted to finances since childhood. And he likes saving money more than spending it. You can't call him greedy, but let's say this: he will never light his pipe with a ruble note. His sense of humor never extends to money. And it is quite possible that he learned to add and subtract even before he learned the alphabet. Don't be surprised, if you discover that he has a bank account that was opened when he was still in kindergarten, and not a penny has ever been withdrawn from this account. The shine of silver and the rustling of banknotes calms Cancer’s nerves. But he is not saving money to invest. They in themselves make his heart happy and help him feel secure. Very often, Cancer plays down his financial capabilities. He plays the role of a man who can barely make ends meet. And you may even feel sorry for him and offer to lend him money. Don't do this, he probably has many more of them than you.
He has a very original approach to saving. He will definitely reject the cheap eatery and take you to a fancy restaurant to get more bang for your buck. He also believes that it is stupid to spend money on a cheap coat when an astrakhan fur coat will look better and serve you longer. In short, quality and pleasure are synonymous with it.
It’s good if his mother’s tastes coincide with yours, since she will very often be mentioned in conversations and remarks like: “My mother never had such cosmetics, although she is a very beautiful woman. Don’t you think, dear, that your eyelashes are too made up?” or You bought pies today, and my mother always baked cakes herself.” And these virtues of his mother will often interfere in many of your life situations.
To put it mildly, the Cancer man is very reluctant to dethrone his mother and put the crown on you. He is terribly attached to home and, if his mother's house is cozy, will not rush to leave it. And besides, the typical Cancer loves his mother very much. Therefore, if you fall in love with a Cancer, then you will have, on the one hand, to put his mother on a pedestal, and on the other, remember that you are her rival and must constantly gain the upper hand over her.
It is not very easy to praise a person and at the same time compete with him. But this is the only strategy you should choose. Try not to let her surpass you in household and culinary matters. Let her teach you how to bake a lemon pie; your husband will even love the scene itself. And then cook your own delicious beef stroganoff. Remember to feed your husband well and take care of him when he is sick. This will remind him of his beloved mother. He will never admit it, but remember that in his Soul he considers himself a child and longs to be caressed by a woman.
To get him to propose to you faster, pretend that someone else has proposed to you. And your Cancer will stop moving back. The easiest way to achieve it is to work on the emotions that are always hidden behind his mind. Music, poetry, flowers, good perfume, gentle words and affection - these are the weapons with which you can defeat him. And also do not forget that there is a direct connection between his heart and stomach.
There are several circumstances that will even the score in your relationship. He himself can be a very good cook. In addition, he likes to collect interesting things such as records and antiques. You will be absolutely safe when you come to his house for the first time. He is gallant with women like no other. This is because men behaved approximately this way back in grandma’s time, and he loves the old days. Put an antique bracelet on yourself, it will definitely have an effect on him.
Although Cancer can easily flirt, it takes him a lot of time to have a serious feeling, since it is not easy for him to find a woman who meets his ideal. Having finally found such a woman, he will be surprisingly sentimental, he can shower her with gifts and tire her with adoration. His standards are high, and not every woman meets them. Most Cancers are very afraid of unsuccessful marriages, and not without reason. An inappropriate union can become a drama for them. When something separates him from his partner, it terribly torments Cancer for many years. Therefore, by virtue of his nature, he does not marry thoughtlessly, but if he has already decided to get married, he cannot be convinced, he will not turn off the road. Cancer can perfectly play the role of a romantic lover. After declaring your love, you will see that you are being courted by a serious and determined person who will achieve his goal. It is very difficult to escape from its claws. Cancer is a wonderful father because of his gentle, understanding nature. He is infinitely patient with children and is sincerely interested in their affairs. Proud of his sons and fiercely protective of his daughters. But when the children grow up, difficulties may arise, as he would like his children to do. were attached to him forever and remained with him forever.

And yet, we need to remind you once again: do not throw away his old hat, torn slippers, school collections - these are all his treasures. When going out with your husband, don’t forget to take your umbrella: the weather may turn bad, and you will protect it from the rain.

At first it is difficult for you to determine whether she is sensitive and gentle or just wild. This question will remain unresolved for you. At times she will be gloomy and her sad mood will spread to you, and at times she will burst into laughter and envelop you in her tenderness. The Cancer woman is sometimes a little crazy, sometimes a little sad, and at the same time has a rich imagination. She always has money saved. She may start spending it when she feels unhappy. but its income will always be higher than its expenses. She may also be interested in your personal account - she is always interested in money, it is a favorite topic of conversation. When you give such a woman an expensive gift, she says that you shouldn’t have done that, she’s really not pretending. To somehow distract her from thinking about bills, income and expenses, take her to the seashore for a walk under the moon. Here you will see her in all her charm. The moon will reveal all her secret dreams, and the proximity of water will bring her relaxation. It is possible that during this hour you will see all her emotions that you will like. Try to develop them. She will have two approaches to you: soft, feminine, timid and modest, and the second, where she will use all the famous tricks of Eva, for example, desperate coquetry. You will like it if you are in love, and if you are just friends, then her active and excessive flirtatiousness can only irritate you. This type of Cancer woman poses a great danger to true love and a good family. There are many men who left their families for this. Clinging Cancer. Fortunately, such Cancer women are in the minority. They can cause a lot of trouble for other women. The Cancer woman does not like to be criticized. She gets very hurt if she looks funny and just can't stand being abandoned. She is rarely overtly aggressive. He constantly hesitates, so you need to be the first to take a step to continue the relationship. If she moves forward, it is either sideways or sideways. Timid by nature and gripped by the fear that she will not be understood, she prefers to be an echo of a man. Be kind to her mother. A mother is a woman who should not be offended by anything. Never read her diaries, as Cancer loves to have secrets and secrets. She will not confess herself, but she will listen to your confession carefully. Her constant fears may bore you: she is afraid that she is not beautiful enough, not young enough, not graceful enough... And it doesn’t matter at all that her figure is like the Venus of Milan, her mind is like Aristotle. She still won't feel confident. Convince her that she is young, smart, and she will be yours. You just have to tell her this twenty times a day.
Her mood will change on average four times a month according to the phases of the moon, plus twice a day according to the tides. It is very difficult to predict her mood. Of course, unpredictability is a necessary condition for the attractiveness and mystery of a woman, but it will not be easy for you.
The typical Cancer woman is an excellent cook. She won't serve you canned or frozen vegetables for lunch. The kitchen is her favorite room. She will run around with you like a mother hen, and you will like it, as most men do. To all her fears, you can add one more - she is afraid that you do not love her enough. But a man can easily prove his love, so prove it to her as often as possible. Once you have conquered her, she will not leave you behind as long as she is alive. And this is not bad, because there are men who like this kind of affection. You will never lack food or expressions of her love. It is very cruel to play with the heart of such a woman, as she will love and obey you with sincere tenderness. Why rekindle love if you have no serious intentions? You can start just flirting with her, but it will be very difficult for you to end the relationship with her. She doesn't take hints. There is nothing artificial or petty about her feelings. If she already has something - a man or a cup, then they should be her property forever. She may not make a good impression on your friends, but she will definitely impress you with her charm. She prefers to reserve her deepest emotions for the people closest to her. And after you meet other women and compare them, you will run back to your Cancer and beg her to cling tightly to you again.
The most difficult aspect of being with her is keeping her from crawling into her hole. Her emotions are so sensitive and tender that the slightest remark can greatly hurt her. And it is very difficult to predict what she might be offended by. The Cancer woman cries often, let you always have a handkerchief ready.
She won't necessarily be greedy, but she has a habit of collecting unnecessary things. She will rarely throw away a piece of rope, an old pattern, her husband... And who are you to say that she will not find a use for these things later? Don't ask how she will use one shoe. She's using it! This is not the kind of woman who might like a man who carelessly burned a hole in the bedspread. Everything has sentimental value to her. All the things she possesses are her treasures. She guards them jealously. Of course, including you. She is not so much jealous as she is possessive. And these are different things. The Cancer woman feels that she herself cannot change anything in life or overcome any difficulties. When a bad moment in life begins for her, she may shed tears, but the natural reaction will be to fold her hands and wait patiently for things to calm down. Patience is one of the most pleasant qualities of Cancer. However, when she is in a state of depression, you should try to get her out of this state as quickly as possible. Sometimes she likes to be treated like a child. The desire to be a little spoiled by your loved one is a secret and deep dream. She really needs to be convinced and know that you cannot live without her. And sometimes she will do everything possible to pity you and to make your patronizing instincts speak to you. But do not let yourself be “fooled” by her weakness at such moments. that unprotected little child who expects protection from you from a cruel world is perfectly capable of coping with everything on his own. In the middle of another argument, when she looks at you with wet, frightened eyes, remember: as soon as you leave and turn the corner, she will most likely wipe her eyes, put the record on the player and calmly begin to tidy up the closet.
This woman is capable of heroic sacrifices for the sake of the one she loves. The courage that she lacks for herself is fully manifested in those close to her who need her strength. She will never betray you in a difficult situation. On the contrary, at such a moment it can become like a solid rock. She is gentle and caring with children and is a refuge for them. They will have a good understanding. You may experience some loss of focus once children arrive. Motherhood is very important for Cancer. Don't worry, there will be room for you, but you will have to move.
The main character trait of the Cancer woman is unshakable Possessiveness. She is deeply convinced that no matter how far you move from her, you will always return to her. She will wait for you patiently.