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History: 18th Century Entertainment

Carnival and masquerade processions
Peter's time was distinguished not only by cruelty and bloody reprisals against thieves and bribe-takers, but also by the diversity and brightness of all kinds of festivities.
On the same Trinity Square where the Execution Place was located, in September 1721 a carnival procession took place in honor of the end of the Northern War, which lasted 21 years. The square was full of all kinds of costumes and masks. The sovereign himself acted as the ship's drummer. His wife was dressed as a Dutch peasant woman. They were surrounded by trumpeters, nymphs, shepherdesses, and buffoons. The ancient gods Neptune and Bacchus walked accompanied by satyrs.
Under Peter I, Bacchus was in a place of honor among other ancient gods. The king loved mead and beer and was very angry when anyone refused a glass in his presence. The offender was treated to a huge “Big Eagle Cup” that held about two liters of wine. I had to drink to the bottom. After accepting the cup, the person usually fell off his feet.
Sometimes humorous characters appeared in carnival processions. There were riders sitting backwards in their saddles, old women playing with dolls, dwarfs next to tall men who took them in their arms. These figures symbolized various vices.
Before Peter I, buffoons were persecuted in Rus'. In young St. Petersburg, they took part in festivities at Maslenitsa and on Trinity Day. In addition to the winter ones, festivities were held in the spring for Easter. Tsaritsyn Meadow and Admiralteyskaya Square were allocated for this purpose. It was vast and occupied a huge territory from the Admiralty to the end of the existing Palace Square. Booths, roller coasters, and carousels were built here.
During numerous celebrations, fireworks were displayed, which Peter loved so much. The Peter and Paul Fortress and some houses near it were illuminated in the evening. Mica kerosene lanterns burned on the gates and roofs. On such days, a flag was raised on one of the bastions of the Peter and Paul Fortress and cannon shots thundered. They were also heard from the royal yacht “Lisette”.
The year 1710 was a record year for the number of holidays. In November, two dwarfs drove around St. Petersburg in a three-wheeled carriage and invited guests to the wedding. The wedding procession opened in mid-November. A dwarf with a staff walked ahead. Seventy dwarfs followed him. The wedding feast took place in the house of Governor Menshikov, which at that time was located on the Ambassadorial (later Petrovskaya) embankment. The best man for the dwarf bride was Peter I himself.
The dwarfs danced. The rest of the guests were spectators.

Dancing
They became fashionable under Peter I. In 1721 there was a ball in the house of Golovkin, the sovereign’s educator and associate, who was located not far from Peter’s house on Posolskaya Embankment. The dances were accompanied, as the fashion of the time required, by frequent kisses of the ladies. The Prosecutor General of the Senate, Yaguzhinsky, was especially distinguished.
The assemblies established by Peter I are widely known. At first they took place in the gallery of the Summer Garden. Later, every noble person was obliged to host an assembly during the winter. The dancing at these assemblies was very ceremonial. A man who wanted to dance with a lady had to approach her three times, bowing. At the end of the dance, the man kissed the lady's hand. A lady could dance with one gentleman only once. These prim rules were brought by Peter from abroad. He soon realized that this etiquette was terribly boring and came up with a new rule for assembly dances.
It was borrowed from the ancient German dance “grossvater”. The couples moved slowly and importantly to the sounds of sad and solemn music. Suddenly, cheerful music was heard. The ladies left their gentlemen and invited new ones. The old gentlemen grabbed the new ladies. A terrible crowd arose.
Peter and Catherine himself took part in similar dances. And the sovereign’s laughter sounded louder than anyone else.
Instantly, at the given sign, everything came back to order again, and the couples continued to move decorously in the same rhythm. If some sluggish gentleman found himself without a lady as a result of the dance formation, he was fined. They brought him the “Big Eagle Cup.” At the end of the dance, the offender was usually carried away in his arms.

Games
Back in the 16th century, games such as grain (dice), checkers, chess and cards were known in Rus'. The game of grain was especially popular at that time. The bones had white and black sides. Winning was determined by which side they landed on when thrown. Mention of cards was found in 1649 in the code of laws of Tsar Alexei Mikhailovich. Along with theft, playing cards for money was considered a serious crime. For this they could beat him with a whip, put him in prison, or cut off his ear. But at the beginning of the 18th century, in many houses they played cards openly, without fear of punishment.
Peter I was not fond of cards, preferring chess to them. The Germans taught him this game in his youth. The sovereign most often spent his leisure time with a mug of beer and a pipe at the chessboard. He didn't have many worthy opponents. Only Admiral Franz Lefort managed to beat Peter. He was not angry for this, but on the contrary, he praised him.
In 1710, the tsar banned the playing of cards and dice on ships, and eight years later he issued a decree banning card play during hostilities. However, this did not apply to the civilian population. What kind of card games were there in Peter's time?
They played ombre, mariage and the game of kings, brought from Poland. It was most common in the family circle. The loser paid with all sorts of fines, which were imposed by the winning “king”.
Because of this game, the wife of Pushkin’s famous great-grandfather, the Arab Ibrahim Hannibal, suffered. In 1731, Captain Hannibal lived with his wife Evdokia in the city of Pernov. At Easter, Evdokia visited, where she was invited to play cards. Among the guests was an experienced womanizer, a certain Shishkov. Having won and found himself in the role of “king,” he imposed a fine on Evdokia in the form of a kiss. Their love story began with this kiss. Ibrahim Petrovich soon found out about her. Pushkin's ardent and jealous great-grandfather punished his unfaithful wife in his own way - he sent her to a monastery.
Billiards appeared in St. Petersburg in the 1720s. The French brought it here. The first billiard table was installed in Peter's Winter Palace, which was located approximately on the site where the Hermitage Theater is now.
Peter was fond of playing billiards. With his enormous height and steady hand, he easily learned to accurately place the balls in the pockets. Soon many courtiers also knew how to play billiards. Billiards were ordered from France by nobles, and then by innkeepers. Most likely, there was billiards in the “Austeria”, which was often visited by the Tsar, near the Ioanovsky Bridge, leading to the Peter and Paul Fortress. In F. Tumansky’s book “Description of St. Petersburg” (1793) you can read: “Austeria was called Solemn, because the sovereign sent all the celebrations and fireworks to the square in front of it. On holidays, Sovereign Peter the Great, leaving the mass of the Trinity Cathedral, went with noble persons and ministers to this Austeria for a glass of vodka before dinner.”

Jesters
Little Peter had two dwarf jesters, given to him by his older brother Fyodor Alekseevich. One was called Mosquito, the other was Cricket. The latter soon died, and Komar, whom the sovereign loved very much, lived until the death of Peter I. In the Winter Palace on Palace Embankment, Peter was surrounded by two more jesters: the legendary Balakirev and Acosta.
Jesters at court performed a certain role by ridiculing ancient customs and prejudices. Sometimes they could inform Peter about his subordinates, and they more than once complained to the king about his jesters. Peter, as a rule, answered with a grin: “What can you do? After all, they are fools!” Balakirev was with Peter for no more than two years, but he left behind a memory. His name is known as the author of witty answers and anecdotes.
In books about these anecdotes, legends are interspersed with reality. We will cite one of the cases that may have taken place in life.
Once, when Peter asked what people in St. Petersburg were saying about St. Petersburg itself, Balakirev answered:
- People say: on one side there is sea, on the other there is mountain, on the third there is moss, and on the fourth “oh”!
- Get down! - Peter shouted and began to beat the jester with a club, condemning him. - Here’s the sea, here’s your grief, here’s the moss, and here’s your “oh”!
During the reign of the “Queen of the Terrible Eye” Anna Ioannovna, the attitude towards jesters was even more cruel. Suffice it to recall the story of the ice house built on the Neva at the end of 1739 for the clownish wedding of M.A. Golitsin and A.I. Buzheninova, where they were ordered to spend their first wedding night.
Anna Ioannovna surrounded herself with joker women. And dwarfs and freaks. The empress herself came up with costumes for her jesters. They were sewn from multi-colored scraps. The suit could be made of velvet, and the pants and sleeves could be made of matting. The jesters wore caps with rattles on their heads. Balls and masquerades in the third Winter Palace, which was built by F. Rastrelli in the 1730s approximately on the spot where the current Winter Palace stands, followed one after another. Everyone had to wear masks to masquerade balls. At dinner the order was given: “Masks off!” and then everyone present revealed their faces. The Empress herself usually did not wear either a costume or a mask. Balami, like everything else, was managed by her favorite Biron.
The balls ended with a sumptuous dinner. Anna Ioannovna did not like wine, and therefore at dinner they ate more than they drank. Jesters were not allowed at balls and masquerades. Sometimes the empress took them with her for walks and hunting. Despite her plumpness, she was a good horsewoman and shot accurately with a gun. A pen for various animals was built on the square in front of the Winter Palace. Anna Ioannovna could grab a gun in the middle of the day and shoot right out of the palace windows at a bird flying past.

The whims of Elizaveta Petrovna
While still a princess, Elizabeth had a huge staff of servants: four valets, nine ladies-in-waiting, four governesses, a chamberlain, and a host of footmen. Having become empress, she expanded her staff several times more. There were musicians and songwriters with her who delighted her ears.
The servants also included several women, who at night, when the empress was awake, and this happened often, scratched her heels. At the same time, they were allowed to conduct a quiet, low conversation. Sometimes the carders managed to whisper two or three words into Elizabeth’s ear, providing their protégés with a generously paid service.
Elizabeth inherited from her father a love of wandering places. Her travels were like a natural disaster. When she moved from St. Petersburg to Moscow, a real commotion began in both capitals. Persons managing the Senate and Synod, the treasury, and the court chancellery had to follow her. Elizaveta Petrovna loved driving fast. Her carriage or cart, equipped with a special firebox, was harnessed to twelve horses. They rushed to the quarry.
The splendor of balls and masquerades under Elizaveta Petrovna surpassed everything that had happened before. The Empress had an excellent figure. She was especially beautiful in a man's suit. Therefore, in the first four months of her reign, she changed the uniforms of all regiments. In general, the Empress loved dressing up. Her wardrobe consisted of a fabulous number of very different outfits, which the daughter of Peter I ordered from abroad. One day, the Empress ordered that all the ladies at a ball in the Winter Palace (this temporary Winter Palace was located on the corner of Nevsky and Moika) should appear in men's suits, and all men in women's suits. Elizabeth also went hunting with dogs in a man's suit. For the sake of hunting, the empress, who loved to sleep, got up at 5 o’clock in the morning.
Of course, in this essay we could not talk about all the amusements of old Petersburg, in particular those that took place under Catherine II. More on this a little later. It is important to note that the city both during the reign of Anna Ioannovna and during the reign of Elizabeth Petrovna changed and grew.
Under Anna Ioannovna, the Alekseevsky and Ioannovsky ravelins of the Peter and Paul Fortress appeared, named after the grandfather and father of this cruel ruler. Under her, the Commission on St. Petersburg Buildings was organized, which managed the construction of new buildings.
Under Elizaveta Petrovna, Petersburg finally received the status of the second capital, and the Anichkov Palace, the Stroganov Palace (Nevsky, 17), the ensemble of the Smolny Monastery, the Winter Palace (the fifth in a row), which still flaunts on Palace Square, were built.

Until 1917, merchants were favorite targets of newspaper feuilletonists and cartoonists. Who hasn’t practiced wit at the address and “your degrees.” What were they like in reality - Russian rich people? How did you spend your wealth, how did you have fun?...

Merchants Club

First of all, the Russian merchant was famous as a lover of good food. In Moscow, a distinctive feature of the Merchant Club was the desire to emphasize in every possible way the superiority of the money aces over the pillar noble aristocracy, which was losing its former importance in the state.

Merchants Club in Moscow

If the nobles who had not yet gone bankrupt preferred French cuisine, the merchants in their club emphasized ancient Russian dishes: “sterlet fish soup; two-yard sturgeon; beluga in brine; “banquet” veal; a white, creamy turkey, fattened with walnuts; “halved” pies made from sterlet and burbot livers; pig with horseradish; pig with porridge" and much more.

Piglets for Tuesday dinners at the Merchant Club were bought at a huge price from Testov, the same ones he served in his famous tavern. He fattened them himself at his dacha, in special feeders in which the piglet’s legs were blocked with bars, “so that he wouldn’t kick the fat!” - explained Ivan Testov.

Interiors of the Merchant Club

Capons and poultry came from Rostov-Yaroslavsky, and “banquet” veal came from Trinity, where calves were fed with whole milk... In addition to the wines that were being consumed by the sea, especially champagne, the Merchant Club was famous throughout Moscow for its kvass and fruit waters, the secret of which was Only one long-term club housekeeper knew - Nikolai Agafonovich.

Frenchwoman for two hundred thousand

Well, after that you could taste other earthly joys:

“At dinners, Stepan Ryabov’s orchestra played, and choirs sang - sometimes Gypsy, sometimes Hungarian, and more often Russian from Yar. The latter enjoyed special love, and his owner, Anna Zakharovna, was held in high esteem by the traveling merchants because she knew how to please the merchant and knew who to recommend which singer; the latter carried out every order of the mistress, because the contract placed the singer at the complete disposal of the choir owner.”

However, for the most part, smaller merchants were content with the enslaved singers. Financial aces preferred higher-flying women who required huge expenses. The record holder in this regard was Nikolai Ryabushinsky, for whom the Frenchwoman Fagette cost two hundred thousand rubles, spent in two months.

For just one necklace with pearls and diamonds from Faberge, Ryabushinsky paid ten thousand two hundred rubles. It is worth recalling that at that time a payment of fifty kopecks per working day was considered a good price for a worker.

But Nikolai Pavlovich was by no means going to limit himself to just one Frenchwoman. Relatives, frightened by the insane scale of the young rake's spending, managed to establish guardianship over him, which he managed to remove only a few years later. And now he has turned around with all his might.

Ryabushinsky Nikolai Pavlovich (1877-1951)

It is curious that, in addition to his ineradicable passion for women, Ryabushinsky turned out to be, perhaps, one of the first Russian reckless drivers. Muscovites quickly learned to recognize his luxurious red Daimler with a power of 60 horsepower (which was the latest technology at that time).

Several times he was brought to justice for violating the rules of newfangled automobile driving, and once he had to pay a substantial compensation to a hit pedestrian.

But Nikolai Ryabushinsky hosted the main fun at his own villa “Black Swan” in Petrovsky Park, where, as Muscovites excitedly gossiped, “Athenian nights with naked actresses were held.”

Villa "Black Swan" in Petrovsky Park in Moscow, where Nikolai Ryabushinsky organized evenings for bohemians. Photo from the beginning of the 20th century.

Interiors of the Black Swan Villa before the fire of 1915. On the walls are paintings from the Ryabushinsky collection, which included works by Bruegel and Poussin.

Apparently, in order to make these very nights more fun, Ryabushinsky decorated the villa with a collection of poisoned arrows from New Guinea.

The fact is that, traveling in his youth to exotic countries, Nikolai Pavlovich visited the cannibal Papuans and even allegedly drank wine from the skull of a defeated enemy from the leader of a hospitable tribe. True, evil tongues claimed that this story suspiciously resembled the “skull of the Kyiv prince Svyatoslav,” from which the Pechenegs who killed him liked to drink strong drinks.

Be that as it may, the number of ladies wanting to visit the scandalous Black Swan villa did not decrease. Nikolai Ryabushinsky retained his passion for the female sex throughout his life.

N. P. Ryabushinsky. Photo from the 1940s.

Already in old age, when he was over seventy, while working at the Hermitage art gallery in Monte Carlo, he experienced his last infatuation - with a young refugee from Germany, three times his age.

Tigress and scientist pig

The passion for creating mansions built according to the principle of being more expensive and more wonderful could have ended badly for its owner very sadly - Arseny Morozov, for example, became a Moscow laughing stock, having built a house well known to today's Muscovites - the building of the Society for Friendship with Foreign Countries, which is opposite the Khudozhestvenny cinema .

The mansion of Arseny Abramovich Morozov, built in 1895-1899 by architect V. A. Mazyrin in the Spanish-Moorish style with Art Nouveau elements. Since 1959 - House of Friendship with the Peoples of Foreign Countries.

To the architect's question about what style the house should be built in, Morozov answered - in all, there is enough money. The architect complied with the instructions, amusing the townspeople thoroughly.

The poorer merchants, of course, could not afford such a financial scale, so they came up with something cheaper and more primitive. There is no money for a trip to Egypt or New Guinea - but you can get drunk and go from Moscow to “hunt crocodiles in Africa.” True, such trips usually ended somewhere in Tver, in a station restaurant.

If the millionaire merchant and famous eccentric Mikhail Khludov appears everywhere only accompanied by a tame tigress, it means that smaller merchants buy themselves the learned pig of the clown Tanti and arrange a ceremonial eating of it. True, later, unlike Khludov, they become the laughing stock of all of Moscow because, as it turned out, the cunning circus performer slipped them a simple and completely uneducated pig, and kept the “actress” intact.

Mikhail Alekseevich Khludov - Russian merchant and entrepreneur

Mikhail Khludov preferred to carry his tigress around the wars. He acquired it during the conquest of Central Asia, where the animal received baptism of fire.

Their eastern colleagues also tried to keep up with their Russian colleagues. The owner of the largest Baku oil fields, Armenian Alexander Mantashev, very clearly explained why he made an unusually generous donation for the construction of an Armenian church in Paris - “this is the city where I sinned the most.” In order to sin properly, he went there every year.

Alexander Ivanovich Mantashev is the largest Russian oil magnate and philanthropist. He was one of the richest people of his time.

His sons, Levon and Joseph, already firmly established in Moscow, amazed Muscovites with their dinners and banquets. Suffice it to say that carloads of fresh flowers were specially brought from Nice in winter for these dinners. But the brothers' main passion was horses. And they spared literally nothing for their pets, building real palaces instead of stables - with hot water, ventilation and showers.

Not wanting to lag behind fashion, Levon began collecting works of famous artists. But he treated them in a unique way - he loved to shoot at canvases with a pocket pistol. Hot man...

From fads to museum creation

Fortunately for art, other wealthy collectors treated their collections with much more care. One can talk endlessly about the merits in the creation of domestic museums, in the development of sciences and art, of the merchant dynasties of the Tretyakovs, Morozovs, Shchukins, the same Ryabushinskys, Mamontovs and many others.

Alexey Alexandrovich Bakhrushin is a Russian merchant, philanthropist, collector of theatrical antiquities, and creator of a private literary and theatrical museum.

Often, the passion for collecting began as an ordinary merchant's whim. The creator of the famous theater museum, Alexey Bakhrushin, for example, began his activities with a bet. He made a bet with his cousin that in just a month he could collect a larger and better collection than the one his brother had been collecting for several years.

He won the bet, but got carried away so much that over time it became a difficult problem for his wife to get money from him for the household. Bakhrushin considered a ruble not spent on the museum to be lost.

But the merchant's temperament turned collecting into a kind of competition, a game of chance, forcing its owners to commit, from the point of view of an outsider, completely meaningless acts.

Mikhail Abramovich Morozov is a merchant, entrepreneur, collector of Western European and Russian paintings and sculptures. The eldest son of the famous Moscow merchant Abram Abramovich Morozov.

For example, Mikhail Abramovich Morozov bought 4 paintings by Gauguin for only 500 francs each. And a few years later he was offered 30,000 francs for them. The merchant could not resist such a price and sold the paintings. But the next day, visiting an art gallery, he discovered that the paintings were already being sold for 50 thousand.

Seeing the amount his former property was now valued at, Morozov decided to make a secondary purchase. Buy for five hundred, sell for thirty thousand and buy again for fifty thousand - there is something in this.

So there was everything in the history of the Russian merchants - crazy sprees, drunken tyranny, and an invaluable contribution to the development of national culture.

Sex in the Age of Enlightenment Part 1.

The Renaissance (XIV-XVII centuries) was replaced by the Age of Enlightenment (the end of the 17th century - the entire 18th century), during which people enjoyed sex more than ever after the long oppression of sexuality by the church and secular authorities. Despite all the educational movements, throughout Europe this period was characterized by extreme depravity, the cult of women and pleasure.

Sex, society, religion

Many contemporaries consider the 18th century to be a period of sexual liberation, when intimate desires were the natural needs of both men and women. According to historian Isabel Hull, "sexual energy was the engine of society and the mark of a mature and independent person." Cultural and social changes during the Enlightenment reflected in the intimate sphere sexual depravity brought about by wealth, exoticism, luxurious costumes and other luxury goods. This mainly applied to representatives of the upper classes, who lived a carefree life, but people of the middle and lower classes did not lag behind them, although they were limited in funds. Of course, both of them took their cue from royal power, which was absolute and unshakable. Whatever reigned at court, it immediately found a response in all classes of society. If kings and queens led a riotous lifestyle, the aristocracy and common people immediately became like them. Imitation of court morals led to the fact that people did not live, but played with life. In public, each person posed, and all behavior, from birth to death, became a single official act. An aristocratic lady performs her intimate toilette in the presence of friends and visitors, not because she has no time, and therefore this time she is forced to ignore modesty, but because she has attentive spectators and can assume the most delicate poses. A flirtatious prostitute lifts her skirts high on the street and puts her garter in order, not out of fear of losing it, but in the confidence that she will stand in the spotlight for a minute.

Considering all of the above, it is not surprising that free love, prostitution and pornography flourished in the 18th century. Lord Molmsbury says the following about Berlin in 1772:

“Berlin is a city where there is not a single honest man and not a single chaste woman. Both sexes of all classes are distinguished by extreme moral laxity, combined with poverty, caused partly by the oppression emanating from the present sovereign, and partly by the love of luxury, which they learned from his grandfather. Men try to lead a depraved lifestyle with only meager means, and women are real harpies, devoid of a sense of delicacy and true love, giving themselves to anyone who is willing to pay.”

The moral behavior of the higher clergy, especially in France, was no different from that of the court nobility, although the fact itself is not surprising: well-paid church places were nothing more than sinecures with which kings rewarded their supporters. The main essence of these places is the income they provide, and the spiritual title associated with them is only a means to disguise this income.

The reasons for the debauchery that reigned in a number of monasteries, especially women’s monasteries, are also not so difficult to unravel. In all Catholic countries, it was in the 18th century that a significant number of convents appeared, which were, without exaggeration, real houses of debauchery. The harsh rules of the order in these monasteries were often only a mask, so that one could have fun in them in every possible way. The nuns could indulge in gallant adventures almost unhindered, and their superiors willingly turned a blind eye if the symbolic barriers put in place by them were openly ignored. The nuns of the monastery in Murano, immortalized by Giacomo Casanova, had friends and lovers, and had keys that allowed them to secretly leave the monastery every evening and enter Venice not only to theaters or other shows, but also to visit the petites maisons (little houses) of their lovers. In the everyday life of these nuns, love and gallant adventures are even the main occupation: the experienced ones seduce the newly tonsured, and the most helpful of them introduce the latter to friends and acquaintances.
Apparently, such institutions had only a name in common with monasteries, since they were in fact official temples of immorality. And this completely coincides with the changed goals that women’s monasteries began to increasingly serve in the 16th century. They gradually turned from shelters for the poor into boarding houses, where the upper class sent their unmarried daughters and second sons for maintenance. It was precisely these monasteries, in which the daughters of the nobility lived, that were usually famous for the freedom of morals that reigned or was tolerated in them.

As for the rest of the clergy, we can only talk about individual cases, the number of which, however, is relatively large. Celibacy every now and then prompted him to take advantage of convenient chances, of which the Catholic priest had more than enough.

Cult of woman

The general culture of any historical period is always most clearly reflected in the views on sexual relations and in the laws governing these relations. The Age of Enlightenment was reflected in the intimate sphere as gallantry, as the proclamation of a woman as a ruler in all areas and as her unconditional cult. The 18th century is the classic “age of women.” Although men continued to rule the world, women began to play a prominent role in society. This century, as they say, is “rich” in autocratic empresses, female philosophers and royal favorites, whose power surpassed the first ministers of the state. For example, the reign of King Louis XV was called the “reign of the three skirts,” which meant the king’s all-powerful favorites (the most effective was the Marquise de Pompadour).

The essence of gallantry is that a woman has ascended to the throne as an instrument of pleasure. She is worshiped as a tasty morsel of pleasure; everything in communication with her must guarantee sensuality. She must constantly be, so to speak, in a state of voluptuous self-forgetfulness - in the salon, in the theater, in society, even on the street, as well as in a secluded boudoir, in an intimate conversation with a friend or admirer. She must satisfy the desires of each and everyone who comes into contact with her. To achieve the ultimate goal, men are ready to fulfill her every desire or whim. Everyone considers it an honor to give up their own rights and benefits in favor of her.

In the light of such a cult, a prostitute in the eyes of everyone is no longer a public wench, but an experienced priestess of love. An unfaithful wife or an unfaithful mistress becomes all the more piquant in the eyes of a husband or friend after each new betrayal. The pleasure a woman receives from a man's caresses is enhanced by the thought that countless other women before her have succumbed to his desires.

The highest triumph of women's dominance during the Enlightenment was the disappearance of masculine traits from a man's character. Gradually he became more and more effeminate, such were his manners and costume, his needs and all his behavior. In the records of the German historian Johann von Archenholz, this type, fashionable in the second half of the 18th century, is described as follows:

A man is now more like a woman than ever before. He wears long curled hair, sprinkled with powder and perfumed, and tries to make it even longer and thicker with a wig. Buckles on shoes and knees are replaced for convenience with silk bows. The sword is worn - also for convenience - as rarely as possible. Gloves are put on your hands, your teeth are not only cleaned, but also whitened, your face is rosy. A man walks and even rides in a stroller as little as possible, eats light food, loves comfortable chairs and a quiet bed. Not wanting to lag behind a woman in anything, he uses fine linen and lace, hangs himself with watches, puts rings on his fingers, and fills his pockets with trinkets.”

About love

Love was considered only as an opportunity to experience that pleasure, which was especially valued by the era. And they didn’t think of hiding this at all; on the contrary, everyone openly admitted it. At this time, a love affair becomes a contract that does not imply permanent obligations: it can be broken at any time. Condescending to the gentleman courting her, the woman did not give herself entirely, but only for a few moments of pleasure, or she sold herself for a position in the world.

This universally widespread superficial view of the feeling of love inevitably led to the deliberate abolition of its highest logic - procreation. The man no longer wanted to produce, the woman no longer wanted to be a mother, everyone just wanted to enjoy. Children - the highest sanction of sexual life - were proclaimed a misfortune. Childlessness, which back in the 17th century was considered a punishment from heaven, was now perceived by many, on the contrary, as a mercy from above. In any case, having many children seemed a disgrace in the 18th century.
The question of how to be able to become a richly rewarded victim of temptation with dexterity and grace has been the most pressing problem for female wit for a century and a half; The art of seducing a woman is the favorite topic of men's conversations. So, for example, prudent and prudent mothers - at least as their era proclaimed - took care of the intimate future of their sons in a very piquant way. They hired chambermaids and maids and, through skillful maneuvers, arranged it so that “the mutual seduction of young people became the simplest and most natural thing.” In this way, they made their sons more courageous in their dealings with women, awakened in them a taste for love pleasures and at the same time saved them from the dangers that threaten young people from going out with prostitutes.

The sexual education of girls naturally revolved around other planes, although it had the same ultimate goal in mind. The sex education of girls in the middle and lower classes worked most diligently. Since in these circles the most ambitious thought of every mother was the “career” of her daughter, the stereotypical advice was: “Let her not give herself to the first person she meets, but aim as high as possible.”

The forms of communication between men and women were particularly specific. To treat a woman with respect, to look at her simply as a person, meant in this era to insult her beauty. Disrespect, on the contrary, was an expression of reverence for her beauty. Therefore, a man committed only obscenities in his behavior with a woman - in words or actions - and, moreover, with every woman. Witty obscenity served as the best recommendation in the eyes of a woman. Anyone who acted contrary to this code was considered a pedant or - what was even worse for him - an unbearably boring person. Likewise, the woman who immediately understood the obscene meaning of the witticisms presented to her and could give a quick and graceful answer was considered delightful and intelligent. This is exactly how the entire secular society behaved, and every commoner with envy turned her gaze precisely to these heights, because she had the same ideal.

Increased sensuality found its most artistic embodiment in female coquettishness and mutual flirtation. The essence of coquetry is demonstration and posture, the ability to cleverly emphasize especially valued advantages. For this reason, no era was more conducive to the development of coquetry than the Age of Enlightenment. In no other era has a woman used this tool with such variety and such virtuosity. All her behavior is saturated to a greater or lesser extent with coquetry.

As for flirting, in the 18th century all communication between a man and a woman was thoroughly saturated with it. The essence of flirting is the same at all times. It is expressed in mutual, more or less intimate caresses, in the piquant discovery of hidden physical charms and in loving conversations. A characteristic feature of the era was that they flirted completely publicly - love also became a spectacle!
The best embodiment of flirting in the era was a lady's morning dressing, the so-called lever, when she could be in a negligee. A woman in a negligee is a concept that was completely unknown to previous eras or known only in a very primitive form. This phenomenon dates back only to the 18th century, during which time it was proclaimed the official hour for receptions and visits.

And in fact, it was difficult to find another more convenient and more favorable reason for flirting. A negligee represents a situation in which a woman can influence a man’s feelings in the most piquant way, and this situation then lasted not a short time, but due to the complexity of the toilet, many, many hours. What a rich opportunity, indeed, for a woman to stage before the eyes of her friends and suitors a charming exhibition of her individual charms. Either you accidentally expose your arm right up to your armpits, then you have to lift your skirts to put your garters, stockings and shoes in order, then you can show off your lush shoulders in their dazzling beauty, then you can flaunt your breasts in a new piquant way. There is no end to the delicious dishes of this feast; the limit here is only the greater or lesser dexterity of the woman. However, this is only one side of the matter.

However, the lady received her suitors, sometimes several at a time, not only at the toilet, but sometimes even in the bath and bed. This was the most refined degree of public flirting, since the woman thus received the opportunity to go especially far in her compliance and flaunt her charms especially generously, and the man in particular easily succumbed to the temptation to go on the offensive. When a lady took a friend in the bath, the latter, for the sake of decency, was covered with a sheet, which allowed only the lady’s head, neck and chest to be seen. However, it is so easy to throw back the sheet!

Sex before marriage

The attitude towards old age is also changing now. Nobody wanted to grow old, and everyone wanted to stop time. After all, maturity brings fruit, and people now wanted to have color without fruit, pleasure without any consequences. People love youth more and recognize only its beauty. A woman never gets older than twenty, and a man never gets older than thirty. This tendency had as its extreme pole the acceleration of puberty. In the earliest years, a child ceases to be a child. A boy becomes a man at the age of 15, a girl becomes a woman at the age of 12.
This cult of early puberty is an inevitable consequence of the increased importance of pleasure. A man and a woman want to have something “that can only be enjoyed once and can only be enjoyed by one.” Therefore, nothing seduces him more than “a tasty morsel that has not yet been touched by anyone.” The younger a person is, the more likely he is to be such a piece, of course. Virginity is in the foreground here. It seems that back then nothing was valued as highly as she was.

Closely connected with this praise of a woman’s physical virginity is the mania for seducing innocent girls, which in the 18th century first appeared in history as a mass phenomenon. In England this mania took its most monstrous form and reigned longest, but other countries were not far behind in this regard.

Accelerating the period of puberty led, naturally, to very early sexual relations and, of course, to no less frequent premarital sexual intercourse. It is important to note that these premarital relationships were widespread, since individual cases of this category occur, of course, in all eras. The beginning of regular sexual relations was precisely the above-mentioned age when a boy became a “man” and a girl a “lady”.

Another evidence of early puberty during the Enlightenment is the frequent occurrence of extremely early marriages. However, this phenomenon is observed only in the aristocracy.

Although in the middle and lower classes marriages did not take place so early, still in these circles women matured at a very young age. Gallant literature proves this most clearly. Every girl from the lower class saw in her husband a liberator from parental bondage. In her opinion, this liberator could not come too soon for her, and if he hesitates, she is inconsolable. By the word “hesitates” she means that she has to “wear the burden of virginity” until she is sixteen - or seventeen years old - according to the concepts of the era, there is no heavier burden.

In the 18th century, cases of premarital sexual intercourse in the upper strata of the population were much less common. Not because the sexual morality of these classes was stricter, but because here parents tried to get rid of their children as if they were an unpleasant burden. In France, children of the aristocracy were given to a village nurse soon after birth, and then to various educational institutions. This last role was played by monasteries in Catholic countries. Here the boy remains until the age when he can enter the cadet or page corps, where his secular education is completed, and the girl remains until she marries the husband assigned to her by her parents.
And yet it must be said that, despite such favorable conditions for protecting girlish chastity, the number of girls who had sexual intercourse before marriage was quite significant in these classes. If a girl was taken from the monastery on the eve of not a wedding, but an agreement, then, due to the special atmosphere of the century, these few weeks or months between leaving the monastery and the wedding were enough for the seducer to anticipate the rights of her husband.

So far we have talked mainly about premarital sexual relations among girls. There is no need to talk about men. In a society where a good half of women can be assumed to have had intimate relationships before marriage, in an era when early puberty is a common characteristic, premarital sexual relations among men are becoming the rule. The difference in this case is that not a single class and not a single layer were an exception to this rule, but only individual individuals, and that the sons of the propertied and ruling classes walked ahead here.

Marriage and betrayal

Attitude towards marriage

As we have already found out, in the ruling and propertied classes, young people getting married often did not even see each other before the wedding and, of course, did not know what character each person had. In the 18th century, such marriages became common in these circles when young people met for the first time in their lives a few days before the wedding, or even only on the eve of the wedding. All this suggests that the marriage was nothing more than a convention and was a simple trade transaction. The upper classes combined two names or two fortunes to increase family and financial power. The middle classes connected two incomes. Finally, the common people got married in most cases because “it’s cheaper to live together.” But, of course, there were exceptions.
If in the ruling classes marriage was clearly conditional in nature and children were married “at a meeting,” then the middle and lower classes did not know such cynicism: in this environment, the commercial nature of marriage was carefully hidden under an ideological veil. The man here is obliged to look after the bride for quite a long time, is obliged to talk only about love, is obliged to earn the respect of the girl to whom he is wooing, and to demonstrate all his personal merits. And she must do the same. However, mutual love and mutual respect for some reason appear only when the commercial side of the matter is settled. For this seemingly ideal form of mutual courtship is, ultimately, nothing more than a way to verify the correctness of a commercial transaction.
The commercial nature of such a marriage is clearly evidenced by marriage advertisements, the appearance of which dates back precisely to this time. They were first found in England in 1695 and were approximately as follows: “A gentleman, 30 years of age, who declares himself to be of considerable wealth, desires to marry a young lady of about £3,000 in English, and is willing to enter into a contract to that effect.”

It is necessary to mention here another striking, specifically English feature, namely the ease of marriage. There was no need for papers or any other certificates. A simple announcement of the desire to get married, made to a priest vested with the rights of an administrative person, was enough for the marriage to take place no matter where - in a hotel or in a church. The ease of marriage and the difficulty of legal divorce led to a terrible increase in cases of bigamy (bigamy). What is now no more than an individual case was then a common occurrence in England among the lower classes.

Since in the lower classes marriage was often nothing more than a successful means for a man to seduce a girl, hundreds lived not only in bigamy, but even in triple marriage. If, therefore, bigamy was the most convenient form of unabashed satisfaction of sexual needs, then it was, in addition, a source of enrichment. And one must think that in most cases it was used precisely as a means to take the fortune of a girl or woman into their own hands.

Adultery

In monogamy, the main problem of marriage is always mutual fidelity. Therefore, first of all, it is necessary to note that during the Enlightenment, adultery (betrayal) flourished in the ruling classes, like premarital sexual intercourse. It became a truly mass phenomenon and was committed by women as often as by men. Obviously, this was due to the fact that adultery did not threaten the main goal of marriage (enrichment of fortune), so it was looked at as a trifle.

Since variety is the highest law of pleasure, first of all they diversified the object of love itself. “How boring it is to sleep with the same woman every night!” - says the man, and the woman philosophizes in the same way. If the wife did not cheat, then “not because she wanted to remain faithful, but because there was no opportunity to commit infidelity.” Loving your husband or wife is considered a violation of good manners. Such love is allowed only in the first months of marriage, because then both parties are no longer able to give each other anything new.

The first piece of advice given to a young woman by her friend is: “Honey, you must take yourself a lover!” Sometimes even the husband himself gives his wife this excellent advice. There is only one difference in this regard between a husband and a benevolent friend. If the latter appeared with her advice already in the first weeks of marriage, then the husband gave it only after he “finished” his wife, as he “finished” in turn with all the women who were his temporary mistresses, and when he again had an the desire to look into someone else's garden. “Attend society, take lovers, live like all women of our era live!”
And just as a husband has nothing against his wife’s lover, so she has nothing against her husband’s mistresses. No one interferes in anyone else's life, and everyone lives in friendship. The husband is the friend of his wife's lover and the confidant of her former loves; the wife is the friend of her husband's mistresses and the comforter of those whom he resigned. The husband is not jealous, the wife is freed from marital debt. Social morality requires only one thing from him and from her, mainly, of course, from her - compliance with external decorum. The latter does not at all consist in feigning fidelity in front of everyone, but only in not giving the world any clear evidence to the contrary. Everyone has the right to know everything, but no one should be a witness.

However, the most ingenious consequence that flowed from this everyday philosophy was that “legalized” infidelity to the husband required fidelity to the lover. And in fact, if fidelity could be found then, it was only outside of marriage. But in relation to the lover, fidelity should never have extended so far that he was advanced, so to speak, to the rank of husband.

In England, it was completely normal for a husband to keep a mistress right in his house next to his legal wife. Most husbands kept mistresses in one form or another. Many even placed them in their home and forced them to sit at the same table with their wife, which almost never led to misunderstandings. Often they even went out for walks with their wives, and the only difference between them was that usually the metresses (mistresses) were more beautiful and better dressed and less prim.

The mutual indulgence of the spouses in the upper strata of the population very often turned into a cynical agreement regarding mutual infidelity. And no less often, one becomes an ally of the other in this regard. The husband gives his wife the opportunity to move freely in the circle of his friends and, in addition, introduces into his home those whom his wife likes. And the wife does the same towards her husband. She enters into friendship with those ladies whom her husband would like to have as mistresses, and deliberately creates situations that would allow him to achieve his goal as quickly as possible.

Stricter morals prevailed in the lower classes, and adultery was much less common. In any case, adultery was not a widespread phenomenon here and usually led to tragic consequences.

Favorites and Favorites

Since in the 18th century intimate relationships were built exclusively on sensual pleasure, the metress imperceptibly turned into the main figure standing in the center of everyone's attention. It was not a woman in general who was elevated to the throne by the era, but a woman as a mistress.

The age of gallantry rested on variety and variety. The Metress Institute made it possible to solve both of these problems. You can change your mistresses, if you like, every month and even more often, which you cannot do with your wife, just as you can have a whole dozen mistresses or you can be the mistress of many men. Since the institution of the metress so successfully solved the problem of gallantry, society sanctioned it: no shameful stain fell on the metress. This is as logical as the fact that the ruling classes saw this institution as a privilege that belonged exclusively to them. Since in this era everything was centered around the absolute sovereign, he had a special right to maintain mistresses. A sovereign without a mistress was a wild concept in the eyes of society.

The elevation of the sovereign's mistress to the rank of supreme deity was expressed by the honors that were necessarily given to her. This is how the metresse en titre or official favorite appeared, who appeared as an equal next to the legitimate empresses in society. Once her beauty and love deserved royal attention, then she herself became “God’s grace.” There was a guard of honor in front of her palace, and she often had honorary ladies-in-waiting at her service. Even sovereigns and empresses of other countries exchanged pleasantries with the official favorite. Neither Catherine II, nor Frederick II, nor Maria Theresa considered it beneath their dignity to send kind letters to the idol of Louis XV, Madame Pompadour.

Since submission to the will of a woman in this era found its highest expression in submission to the will of the mistress, becoming a favorite was then the most profitable and therefore highly desirable profession for a woman. Many parents directly raised their daughters for this calling. The highest ideal achievable for a woman was, naturally, to become the sovereign's mistress.
However, even here it is necessary to take into account deeper underlying motives. It would be a mistake to consider this struggle for the position of royal concubine to be a simple personal matter. Since the metress was powerful, well-known political groups always stood behind each of these ladies. The faction that sought to seize power wanted to have their favorite in place. In other words: behind the harem quarrels, the political divisions of the era are often hidden.

In an era when most women are corrupt, men are naturally no less corrupt. And therefore, in the 18th century, next to the institution of metresses, another characteristic and extremely common phenomenon occurs - a husband who, for material reasons, agrees to such a role as a wife.

Many households were built on the corruption of the wife and mother, but more often it served as an auxiliary means that allowed the family to spend more than it could. The lover dressed his mistress, presented her with jewelry that gave her the opportunity to shine in society, and under the guise of a loan, the return of which neither party thought of, he, in addition, paid in cash for the love services rendered to him. This is all the less surprising because in that era the usual figure was a professional adventurer, gambler and swindler in all possible forms, trading in his wife, and when she became too old for this, then in the beauty of his daughter.

From all this an inevitable consequence followed in the end. The legitimation of the metresse as a social institution also legitimized the cuckold. The title of cuckold became a kind of typical profession for the era.

It is also necessary to dwell on one more typical male figure of the era - a man in the role of a mistress. A woman, especially in her mature years, when her beauty alone could no longer seduce a man, also bought love. For many men, exploiting this source of livelihood was the most profitable profession they could think of. Women paid their lovers no worse than men paid their mistresses. Women with political influence were also paid with positions and sinecures. In Berlin, the functions of a male mistress were especially often performed by officers. The paltry salaries received by Prussian officers forced them to strive for such a position.

A lover in a woman's retinue marks the moment of her supreme dominance in the 18th century.

Personalities

Louis XIV, also known as the “Sun King” (1638-1715) - King of France and Navarre, was a clear erotomaniac who saw only gender in a woman and who therefore liked every woman. He had many favorites, the most famous of them: Louise-Françoise de La Vallière, Duchess de Fontanges and Marquise de Maintenon, who even became his secret wife. Apparently, the passion for debauchery was passed on to him with his genes, since his mother, Queen Anne of Austria, until her old age was very accessible to the courtship of courtiers devoted to her. Moreover, according to one version, the father of Louis XIV is not Louis XIII, who was distinguished by homosexual inclinations, but precisely one of the courtiers, Count Riviere

The Marquise de Pompadour (1721-1764) was the official mistress of the French King Louis XV. The pompadour played a prominent role not only in France, which was entirely in her hands, but also in Europe. She directed the foreign and domestic policies of France, delving into all the details of state life, patronizing science and art. The depraved king, fascinated by her at first, soon lost interest in her, finding that she had little passion and calling her an ice statue. At first she tried to entertain him with music, art, theater, where, performing on stage herself, she always appeared for him in a new, attractive form, but soon she resorted to more effective means - introducing young beauties to the court. Especially for this, Pompadour created the Deer Park mansion, in which Louis XV met with numerous favorites. Basically, it contained girls 15-17 years old, who, after annoying the king and getting married, received a decent dowry.

Catherine II the Great (1729-1796) – Empress of All Russia. She combined high intelligence, education, statesmanship and a commitment to “free love.” Catherine is known for her connections with numerous lovers, the number of which reaches 23. The most famous of them were Sergei Saltykov, Grigory Orlov, Vasilchikov, Grigory Potemkin, Semyon Zorich, Alexander Lanskoy, Platon Zubov. Catherine lived with her favorites for several years, but then parted for a variety of reasons (due to the death of the favorite, his betrayal or unworthy behavior), but none of them was disgraced. All of them were generously awarded ranks, titles, money and serfs. All her life, Catherine was looking for a man who would be worthy of her, who would share her hobbies, views, etc. But she, apparently, never managed to find such a person. However, there is an assumption that she secretly married Potemkin, with whom she maintained friendly relations until his death.

When writing this article, material from the book was used

Although conservatives argue that modern society has become too free in its morals compared to its pious ancestors, some of the sexual practices of the ancients seem too extravagant today. In this review we will talk about the shocking sexual traditions of ancient civilizations.

Wife for rent from Arabs

1. Wife for rent as a way to increase social status

The ancient pre-Islamic Arabs had a strange custom - “a wife for rent.” This custom existed not only for political or economic benefits, it was a kind of early form of eugenics. This activity was practiced mainly by low-ranking families who wanted their children and grandchildren to become more noble. Wives were rented out to men who held a high position in society; only they were allowed to have sexual relations with someone else's wife. Children born from such a conception were considered the children of the spouse and not the biological father, but the social status of the family increased. Renting out a wife was quite simple - the husband sent the woman to the house of the person who liked her. There she remained until she became pregnant.

Romance of sodomy among the ancient Greeks

2. The theme of sodomy on artifacts from the temple of Hermes and Aphrodite in Kato Syme (5th century BC)

When educational institutions in the form familiar to modern people did not yet exist in Ancient Greece and the main way of educating young people was tutoring, sodomy flourished in society. For the ancient Cretans it even had a romantic character.

When a loving resident of Crete noticed a young man whom he really liked, he had to first notify the boy's friends that he intended to take him as his lover. This official proposal allowed the chosen one to either hide if he did not want to enter into a relationship, or reverently prepare for his symbolic abduction.

Preserving the vital force of qi among Taoists

3. Preserving the strength of qi is the main thing for Taoists

The cornerstone of Taoism is the life force qi, which permeates all things. Taoist philosophy generally divides qi into two components - yin and yang (positive and negative energies). By maintaining a balance between these two forces, perfect spiritual harmony and physical well-being can supposedly be achieved.

When it comes to the human body, qi takes the form of jing (the essence that gives us life), and Taoists believe that the loss of jing can lead to illness and even death. Most jing, according to Taoists, is contained in the male seed. Adherents of Taoism believed that a man should not waste too much sperm. Because of this, ancient Chinese men were advised not to ejaculate during sex.

Fellatio - a godly activity for the ancient Egyptians

4. Illustration from the Book of the Dead and an aroma lamp with erotic motifs

The first mention of fellatio dates back to the ancient Egyptian myth of the resurrection of Osiris. The story goes that Osiris was killed by his brother Set, who cut him into pieces and scattered them throughout the world. Isis, the sister-wife of Osiris, went around the world to collect all the parts of her beloved and bring him back to life. But, unfortunately, she could not find Osiris's penis. Therefore, Isis fashioned a male organ from clay and through it breathed life into Osiris.

It is thanks to this myth that fellatio was not considered immoral by the ancient Egyptians. It is worth noting that the Egyptians used red lipstick to advertise their expertise in providing oral pleasure.

And the ancient Romans, unlike the Egyptians, were categorically against oral sex. It was a common belief among the Romans that those who gave blowjobs had bad breath. The man known as the fellator was never invited to visit. However, the Romans successfully used slaves to obtain oral pleasure.

Pharaoh masturbates on the banks of the Nile

5. Statues on the west bank of the Nile in Luxor

The ancient Egyptians believed in the myth of the creation of the Universe by the god Atum (or Ra). It said that the world was originally a black chaos from which the egg was formed. From this egg the god Atum arose. Apparently, the first thing Atum did when he was born was to masturbate. From his seed were born the gods who helped him create the Universe and rule over it.

Since the ancient Egyptians believed that the pharaoh was the representative of the god Ra on earth, he had to perform certain obligatory rituals, one of which was the annual ritual of reenacting Atum's creation of the Universe. During the holiday, the pharaoh, together with his subjects, had to go to the banks of the Nile, undress and commit an act of masturbation. Particular emphasis was placed on ensuring that the pharaoh's sperm ended up in the river and not on the ground. Then everyone else who came to the ceremony performed a similar action. The Egyptians believed that in this way they fed the life-giving power of the river, which would provide them with a good harvest the following year.

Adult toys in the ancient world

6. Dildos from the exhibition of the National Archaeological Museum of Naples

Archaeologists say that toys for adults were very popular among the ancients. The oldest stone dildo is estimated to be 26,000 years old. And the Egyptian queen Cleopatra even used a vibrator made from a hollow pumpkin filled with live bees.

The ancient Greeks and Romans not only used dildos, but also tried to modernize them in every possible way. They put leather covers on wooden and stone sex toys. According to surviving written sources from the time, Greek women staged a sex strike during the Peloponnesian War due to the fact that the import of quality leather dildos had stopped.

Distribution of roles

7. Fragment of an ancient amphora from the National Archaeological Museum of Naples

The ancient Greeks and Romans considered the idea of ​​same-sex sexual behavior quite natural, so a concept akin to the modern “homosexual” simply did not exist. But there was a cult of masculinity. It was believed that a real man should always take the leading role in sex. In turn, the passive partner took on the female role, and was treated with some disdain in society.

Premarital affairs of Mayan boys

8. Copy of a fresco from the Mayan temple in Chetumal (Mexico)

The upper Mayan castes were very practical in raising their sons. They believed that it was the responsibility of parents not only to provide them with financial and emotional support, but also to satisfy the sexual needs of their children.

When the sons of noble families reached maturity, their parents sought out the most handsome young men from commoner families to be their sons' sexual partners before marriage. This union between boys was considered akin to actual marriage and was recognized by law. Mayan boys even lived with each other until they got married, around the age of 20. Homosexual relationships between boys were officially legalized, but even men from noble families were severely punished for rape.

Random affairs in the temple of Aphrodite

9. Temple of Aphrodite in Kouklia

The philosopher Herodotus, speaking about the rituals of the Assyrians, mentioned prostitution. This occupation, according to him, was not only legal in Ancient Assyria, but also mandatory for all unmarried women. The fact is that the cult of Aphrodite, or, as they also called her, Mylitta, Ishtar, was very popular among the Assyrians. Therefore, they believed that in order for a woman to receive the goddess's favor, she must have sex with strangers in the temple of Aphrodite. Every woman in the Assyrian empire, from royalty to beggars, had to take part in this sacred rite in the temple of Aphrodite at least once in her life.

Bestiality as entertainment and sacred rite

10. Fragment of a statue with a scene of bestiality (circa 470 BC)

The practice of having sex with animals is as old as humanity itself. The bone cores, which are about 25,000 years old, show scenes of a lioness licking the genitals of women and men. Images dating back to the seventh century BC of a man having sex with a donkey were found on the wall of a cave in Italy. And even in the Bible there are direct references to bestiality.

It is known for certain that rich women in Ancient Rome kept snakes for sexual pleasure, and men raped animals in the Colosseum.

Unlike the ancient Romans, who practiced sex with animals for pleasure or entertainment, the ancient Greeks were seen to engage in bestiality for religious reasons. They made this act a central rite during the bacchanalia and made it part of the ceremony in the temple of Aphrodite.